Guys, what goes through your mind when a girl scratches your back during sex?

[CHARismatic110]

Does it excite you? Make you go harder? Faster? Deeper? Or does it throw you off? Mess up the flow? Make you stop altogether?

And ladies, are you a scratcher? What drives you to the point that you go full lioness on a guy?



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(Again I had to close another question 😡)

[redeyemindtricks]

Can't speak for anyone but m'self, here, but, for me this is one of those "hydraulic" things. Like, if it doesn't come out one way, it comes out other ways. Ya know?

Like, naturally, I'm more of a scream queen, but there are times when that just ain't happening.
There's the times when at least one of our kids is awake and across just one thin wall from us.
Or when my husband pulls me into random supply closets, single-person bathrooms, etc. in public places.
Or when he just has me on "noise probation" as one of his many deliciously devious ways of punishing a bad wife.

Those times?
Well, in general, if I can't talk out loud, I just talk with mah hands. Soooo yeah... if I have to shut up and suffer through blinding orgasms in complete silence, I'm gna tear that boy's back straight up. I mean, I can't help it, really. Not mah fault, I'm a good girl.

__

Oh, about that one time when I had to pull a broken nail out of his shoulder... haha. Yep. That happened.

The most awesome part was that, at the time, neither of us even noticed. <3

[CHARismatic110]

Your answers never cease to amaze me lol.

[redeyemindtricks]

Hehe so you are easily amazed. Well, that's a good quality in a friend (;

[CHARismatic110]

Lol well not that easily, but with you I guess I am.

[redeyemindtricks]

F'real tho, I'm interested in whether the other women here have the same experience -- that whole thing where enforced silence just brings out all these other physical things. My husband knows exactly the right buttons to press, too. He'll "read" exactly the moments when the silence is MOST frustrating, and that's when he'll hit me with "don't you DARE make a sound", in this... throaty whisper-yell voice that he does. Exactly the right combination of taunting, provoking, and "threatening". aaaahhhhhhh girllllll omg

[CHARismatic110]

Lol yeah, I haven't experienced anything remotely close in my lame sex life. If you can even call it that.

[redeyemindtricks]

Well, I damn near threw away my whole life tryin' to find it, myself... LOL I mean, I was always the "I'll do it mah damn self" girl. Perfectly content being single, alone, bla bla bla, didn't really think I was gna do the whole marriage (or even necessarily commitment) thing. But then I fell in love, and I mean FELL in love, and... well, it's a damn good thing that boy's still here. because, when you find something that makes yr life seem so full... well, you've also found something yr life would be totally empty without. and that's some scary shit. I mean, this seems like a giant digression, but, part of the reason it's so good is bc I'm just so hopelessly in love. ... but I KNOW I wouldn't have allowed myself into that vulnerable of a position, if it hadn't started out as addiction-quality sex in the first place. So it kinda goes hand in hand. Do you put yourself out there at all? It ain't gna walk into yr living room, ya know.

[CHARismatic110]

Putting myself out there is why I am where I am today. There will be no more of that. But I'm glad your story had a happy ending.

[redeyemindtricks]

Ya never know, really. I know one woman whose love story started when she was pushing 60. You got plenty of time. Just for clarity's sake, by "putting yrself out there" I don't mean lowering yrself into the proverbial dirt -- I'm just talking more like, going out there and living a dynamic, busy life, where various people will just notice you as you come and go. I realize that may not have been clear. One thing I remember from the darker periods of my own life, at least, was that positive/fulfilling things always seemed to count for WAY more than negatives did. Like, I had plenty of days where I was straddling the border of "do I see a point in staying alive today?"... but, even then, it would usually only take a few little inconsequential things to put me back on the winning side of that one. Music, art, and random beauty in meaningless things (like grocery bags dancing around under bridges, and random glitter on sidewalks) could do it, for instance.

[CHARismatic110]

Well you know that I write, so that helps. And music is also a big part of my life. So I have things that help. I just can't focus on that part of my life anymore. I burried the idea and hope of having the husband and children happily ever after life a long time ago. I just allowed myself to foolishly regain some of that hope and I knew better.

[redeyemindtricks]

Well, if it's any consolation, the best way to NOT find love is... to go out specifically looking/hoping to find love.

[CHARismatic110]

Lol yeah I'm aware of that

[GiftShop]

I never scratch on purpose. I think I try and stop myself sometimes... hate to think I'm hurting him.
It's another release besides noise. We have a roommate for the next month and I try to be respectful, so if he's home or the music isn't loud enough I try to be quiet.

I prefer rubbing the back of his neck where the hair just ends or running my fingertips up and down his back.

I know it excites him though... Makes him go faster and harder. I guess he thinks "I'm doing something right". Anything that makes him fuck me harder is great.

[CHARismatic110]

Lol nice

[mooky06]

If it feels really reallllllllllllllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy good, i'll do a light, long scratch on his back from his shoulder to his waist.

#kinkychar ;) ahha

[CHARismatic110]

Lmao no way babe

[mooky06]

lmfao babe 🙈😋

[GingerGuy]

Depends how you scratch. It's not my thing, would through me off but if it was just very lightly running your nails along my back it might be ok? I've never had anyone do this to me so I can't really comment on the experience. Just what I think it would be like.

[CHARismatic110]

Cool thanks for answering

[Yumix]

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[CHARismatic110]

Lmaoooo

[RustyTinCan]

Hasn't happened to me, but I imagine that it wouldn't affect the sex much, but would still feel nice.

[MaisGem21]

I know some guys actually like it and some don't. Each to their own :)

[EmpatheticLady]

I tend to scratch backs at times. It's a sign of him hitting all the right spots and me wanting more basically.

[CHARismatic110]

Got it.

[Curmudgeon]

My "Dragon Lady", sometimes does when I am "lancing" her. Knight vs. Dragon. Yes, I was a Dungeons and Dragons gamer geek once.

[CHARismatic110]

Lmao

[Curmudgeon]

Yes, there is some ethnic stereotyping involved here, but oh well:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dragon_Lady

Funny how different dragons are depicted in Eastern vs. Western cultures.

[godfatherfan]

Never had a woman scratch me, thankfully.
Rub my back as I was pumping into her, sure.
I would not like it. I am not into pain of any kind.
so I would probably say "fuck, ouch" and stop for a bit.
so it would def throw me off.

[CHARismatic110]

Gotcha. Though I don't really think that it's meant to be painful, it does have the possibility of getting to that point.

[NJ_Casanova]

I'm fine with it.

[NJ_Casanova]

I've had it were she drew blood... I have a high pain threshold.;-P

[CHARismatic110]

Yikes.

[10dsw]

I love it when girls get rough with me :) I deserve it!

[Mesonfielde]

I'd most likely ask her to cut her nails short by next time.

[CHARismatic110]

Scratching is possible with short nails too.

[Mesonfielde]

It takes more effort.

[CHARismatic110]

Well I didn't exactly mean clawing when I said scratching but ok

[Mesonfielde]

Yes. Then cut the nails shorter. :P

[micheal727jovanie]

Scratch my back Ill scratch yours lol

[BelleGirl21]

I am not a scratcher. I'll grab his hair on the back of his head or softly rub his back. Sometimes I'll press hard with my fingertips running up and down his back but I don't ever try to scratch.

[CHARismatic110]

So gentle scratching

[evenlift]

I like it.

[ClariceOwen23]

Yeah I like to scratch when I'm really into it. I'm also a bit of a sadist.

[Phoenix98]

O I'd like that.

[CHARismatic110]

Lol didn't expect that from you

[Phoenix98]

Lol few ever do but yeah I like scratching and even biting.

[CHARismatic110]

Whaaaat! Shut your mouth and keep talkin!

[Phoenix98]

Lol alright um let me see pinning her against a wall/bed, tossing her onto the bed, hair pulling for both of us, light choking, her fighting back a little bit, her pitting her own dominance against mine, being playfully disobedient, teasing, light bondage, involving food to a degree and public stuff but somewhere secluded like a island or private beach, that really about it.

[CHARismatic110]

😱😱😱 What is in the GaG water today? Lol I guess we all have another side to us

[Phoenix98]

I have no idea what's in it and lol indeed we do.

[TonyRyan]

That I'm doin my job right, haha.

[ConsultantIsBack]

Doing something right

[Tarvold]

I will wear those scars with pride.

[CHARismatic110]

Battle wounds lol

[BarbaraP]

Haha

[Nomad69]

I'm thinking don't stop I like it rough during sex. During the day not so much then I see rough play as abuse at times

[glock33sig357]

This is going to hurt me more than it's going to hurt you.

[Kylesar]

My girlfriend is a definite scratcher

[takumii]

She still have energy left to do that? Game on.

[CHARismatic110]

Game over

[takumii]

Whyyyyyy?

[CHARismatic110]

Because I win