Should I dry hump my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I am 19 and he is 17. I am religious and don't believe in sex before marriage, however I am a little morally gray. My Mum is also a Christian yet had me and my brother before she got married. I am not sure I want to do that though, but I suppose a bit of sexual experience would be good as I feel I would be upset if I never got married and never experienced anything sexual with anyone, or if I got married to someone who had sexual experiences in the past whereas I had none. I don't think it's a good idea to go around doing sexual stuff with just anyone but I am talking about my boyfriend who I really like and care about, he says he loves me and I think I love him too, we have been together since October 24th and were best friends for months before that so I think it would be okay to do something a bit sexual, or maybe after a few more months I dunno. I am not sure about proper sex before marriage due to my religion and think I would be uncertain about it even if I wasn't religious, plus he is underage. I wonder if it would be okay to dry hump. He was asking me questions a few weeks ago like did I ever wonder what sex was like and it got to me admitting to masturbating. One the ways I told him was that I lie on my bed fully clothed and rub against it. Last night he asked if I still did that and why didn't I try it on him, he made it clear I could say no though. What do you think, would it be alright to do? And if so then how would I go about it? Like just rub against him or do I need to do something else to turn him on? Thank!

[MysticIntent]

You see I'm sort of anti-religion so I'll play the Devil's advocate and say go ahead and do it. It's OK to be a little bad once in a while. You know what, I take it back, It's not bad at all. It's your body, NO ONE has the right to tell you you can't do the things you want to do. Besides, being sexually active is part of being human. To deny those things is to deny your humanity. So just to be clear, the choice is yours.

*cough* do it! *cough cough* lol

[Lougosh]

I don't think it'd be an issue at all. I would definitely place a firm boundary though and stick to it, like no using his penis to enter you. there are a vast array of things that you can use instead and have absolutely zero chance of pregnancy or deflowering.

[SomebodyIuse2know]

That is between you and God. It sounds like you guys haven't been together that long to know if you really love him vs are infatuated with him.
I became a Christian 5 years ago and I wished I had waited for marriage.
Don't follow the rules of religion but the law that is written in your heart. Pray about it, talk to God about it, have faith that He will show you what he wants you to do.

[tinyclit]

Dry humping can be quite good. Mutual stimulation with hands and fingers is also good, just be sure you and/or he wash hands after handling his penis and before handling your pussy. Oral is excellent whether it's you going down on him or him you. You've been together long enough to be doing all of these things.

[tinyclit]

The above can be as good as or even better than sexual intercourse, so you can completely avoid doing that.

[archiz]

if you can stop when you get all horny then go for it :P
just so you know, the more sexual you get, the more you want... so...
plus I think you should do what you think is right for you and not based on some religious belief.
finally you know your limits and not us :/

[NJ_Casanova]

Sure if your not willing to do anything else.

[StyleClxrx]

You go girl and dry hump your boy. You dont have to do much just get on top of him, start rocking your hips lining crotches together and enjoy the pleasure, it feels amazing. Make sure you're wearing leggings or something like that. Plus you can moan in his ear as you go, that'll make him harder and kiss a lot

[4Cookie_Monster]

I think you should try it. You aren't going against your religion and new experiences is the best, you need to live life and in that time if you dont like it just say stop or no, he will understand.

[Anonymous]

Yeaah. I'm not a christian so I can't answer this one. Holding back on things you want to do due to religion seems strange to me.

I am pretty sure you're going to hell just for masturbating though, and everyone does that anyway... As for turning him on? The whole taboo of trying something new will handle that. Don't you worry.