Blow jobs are overrated?

[Alexious]

Long story short I went a girl's house and we played Xbox.. then she went down on me.. It just felt warm, it didn't really stimulate me much and I never came. She didn't care and we just laughed, but it wasn't that great; I get more pleasure jerking myself off. I tried doing that as well, but for the first time in my life I couldn't ejeculate.. what happened? 😂 (Virgin and has never engaged with a girl before) She has also, given head before and said they came

[tinyclit]

I wouldn't worry about it. It doesn't say anything about you or her. You probably just were not in the right mood at the time. It takes a certain level of comfort with her and her with you before you'll be able to cum. If it takes a particular type of physical stimulation or behavior on her part, please don't be afraid to let her know what exactly you need.

[Gnana]

You're not the only one who doesn't like blow jobs. My boyfriend doesn't like it too, and told me before we had sex for the first time that he didn't want me to do it since it doesn't give him the stimulation that he needs. Just like you.

But you know what you do like, and that's what it is all about: finding something that works for you.

[SarahsSummer]

I can only think of one or two things.
Maybe she wasn't doing it right for you and maybe you were nervous seeing as it was your first. Because to answer your question my boyfriend doesn't think they are overrated and requests then constantly. Lol.

[MrMuffinMan]

Try holding her head. Even lightly. Just feeling the dominance of thinking that you own her sexually and that you are using something as important as her head for nothing more than your sexual pleasure. Also if the girl uses just a bit of teeth and knows how to use her tongue. Squeezing just right between her tongue, teeth and top of mouth. This is awesome.

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

You see I've never given a BJ before but I'd imagine that it would be *me* to be the dominant one. I mean yes I will be on my knees in front of this guy, but I'd be the one with his man hood in my mouth... where my teeth are :)

[MrMuffinMan]

The hands on the head assert dominance. Since you then have control over her. You can push her head hard against your shaft, or lightly. You determine exactly how she is going to do it. But I suppose it is give and take. Since she could also bite your dick off. A lot of sexual acts are about men THINKING their in charge, but the woman in reality being the one who actually is lol.

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

lol exactly

[PinceNez]

Giving a great blowjob is an art form - if she has little experience, she's probably not very good at it... Good luck with the next one!

[Ez_or_Hard]

She did a terrible job it sounds like. so in other words she blew it?

[SexyStudent]

What drugs do you take? You think I'm teasing or joking. I'm dead serious

[norcali]

seriously! or you and her have zero experience (mostly her) and nerves dont help... there is nothing like a amazing b/J, and the girls that are great at it are the girls that like to pleasure men or her man. I don't know if its a control kink, but I have gotten a couple which were from girls that pursued me not me chasing them, and the focus and passion they put into it almost was like they were getting off.

[SexyStudent]

@norcali Why are you yelling at me? I'm female I give blow jobs and they work

[norcali]

lol I didn't mean to reply directly to you. so use to twitter i guess I don't know... but I think my response was pretty correct

[SexyStudent]

@norcali This guy is complaining that he can't reach orgasm with a blow job what does your comment have to do with all of that.

[EmpatheticLady]

Maybe your nerves didn't help. Maybe she wasn't as good as you were expecting or as she could've been.

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

Lol same, I'm way over rated.

[Alexious]

What? 😂

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

I'm over rated, just like BJs are.

[Alexious]

Why are you over rated?

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

*shrug*

[Alexious]

Okie doke 😂

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

But seriously though she was just probably BLOWING at it lmao come here and I'll show you the right way it's done ;)

[Alexious]

Oki 😄

[NJ_Casanova]

Well it really depends on how good the girl is, but I also think guys overrate them. I really never get a good one with my girth.

[thewanderingme]

did you go down on her too?

[Alexious]

Nope

[thewanderingme]

well, you didn't care to give her any pleasure, why should she have care to help you get off?

[Alexious]

Because she asked to if she could go down on me

[thewanderingme]

she wanted more. poor girl is too young to realize most guys don't catch on to that. that most only think of their own pleasure.

[Alexious]

She didn't want more.. you wasn't even there how would you know? 😂

[thewanderingme]

because I asked and admitted to not doing anything for her.

[thewanderingme]

*and you admitted

[Alexious]

She didn't want me to

[allahu_snackbar]

She was shit at sucking dick, with a good bj you don't have a choice about orgasm. lol

[BelleGirl21]

Maybe she wasn't that great tbh. But yeah I typically just like oral for foreplay. It's not the best.

[Phoenix98]

I'd imagine she probably just wasn't that good.

[KiaTate]

Maybe she wasn't that good? 😐

[takumii]

She was just not good at it Bruh.

[Scrimshaw]

Mate, you haven't experienced how a real blowjob should feel. That ho was not doing it correctly.

[Water2008]

Blow jobs don't get me off either... but who cares. It still feels good right?

Bottom line it's not about the goal.. Enjoy the journey my friend...

[Entruder]

You were too stimulated by the game.

... or she was just bad?

[iFarted]

LMAO! Thats cute dude...
Not all blow jobs are given equally. It does take some skill and not everyone likes to be blown the same way.

[Dimmu]

I never came in a blowjob

[AndyW77]

Yes, definitely overrated. Cunt is best.

[BlackSatanicDeath]

She doesn't know how to suck dick.

[Anonymous]

Amazing how some people on here are just rude.
You were probably just too anxious about it, actually, and expecting more than it was.
Or you're used to the strength of your own grip.
It doesn't mean anything per se.