Do guys usually cum during hand job?

[Anonymous]

Do you guys cum during just a hand job, if so how fast? Is blowjob always better tho?

[godfatherfan]

blowjobs are always better. Guys can give themselves a better hand job then any woman can. It is just like any sex act, if you do it long enough, yes your going to cum.
A guy could make himself orgasm in as little as 30 sec, maybe less, if we are trying to get it done fast. I can also make it last most of the day by doing it, stopping, starting, stopping...
for a woman doing it, it will probably last 3-5 min depending on if you listen to him or not. for some reason women think they can hurt the penis. You can grab it and squeeze as hard as you want (mostly) and your not going to hurt it. pressure and the right rubbing will make it happen quickly.
but my plea for any man out there, suck it. he will love you a lot more then a hand job.

[Anonymous]

We could, however when it comes to hand jobs you're at a disadvantage. You see, most of us have been dating our own hands for quite some time. Time you won't be able to catch up with. Any advantage you have on us has to be something mentally arousing.

And as for that, blowjobs feel better and are more arousing. I wish girls would realize that to men ejaculating doesn't mean we're shaking with pleasure, it just means we're ejaculating. Orgasming is quite different. That's why we can basically lift our shoulders and be all "Well, that's that." or lay there panting and gasping for air until you're eyeing that phone wondering you need to call us an ambulance.

[Curiousness23]

omfg you're so funny ahahahahah, could you just explain to me what's the difference between an orgasm and ejaculating, i know guys can cum without ejaculating but if you ejaculate doesn't that mean you actually had an orgasm?

[Opinion Owner]

@Curiousness23 Pleasure, basically. Ejaculating doesn't have to be all that pleasurable at all. Ejaculating is just a bodily function. One Usually accompanied with an intense pleasurable feeling. Most men could bring themselves to ejaculate within a minute or two. It wouldn't feel amazing but there'd be a level of physical exhaustion and satisfaction to it. My point here was basically that which is faster doesn't really mean much since the pleasure we get out of it (often) increases with how long it takes us to get there.

[Curiousness23]

oh i see what u mean okay i'm taking notes lol thank u X'D

[Anonymous]

He would if I would let him. He likes bjs but he says it's hard for him to cum from just being sucked even though he tells me I do an amazing job I've only made him cum a few times from bj. So I'll get him good and wet as use both of my hands on him and go up and down and use a hand on his balls and one on his dick just have fun with it and he gets super hard and will start shaking and when I feel he's close I'll start to suck him again.

[Dexamethasone]

Can you really make your boy finish with one hand if you put all your "talent"? :D

[Opinion Owner]

@Dexamethasone I usually use both hands but could get it done with one hand. I get him nice and wet and do this twisting motion towards the head and I can feel him get super hard in my hand and it's so hot.

[Dexamethasone]

Yeah I understand what you mean :D It is definitely hot ! Do you do something special at the ending? :P

[Opinion Owner]

@Dexamethasone not really lol. Sometimes as I'm sucking him he'll tell me how he wants me to do it while he's cumming like few times I've rubbed his balls, had my hand rubbing the shaft and I was sucking the head as he came and I swallow.

[Dexamethasone]

That sounds great :D Do you prefer it to offer it intense and fast or you rather do the job slowly with some eye contact? :D Which way can you make a guy lose controll? :P

[Opinion Owner]

@Dexamethasone with him it's generally slow and take my time and he loves to watch me and other times I'll go fast and hard.

[Dexamethasone]

Okay I got it! :D Well I like your inspiration and desire that's why Im asking you questions as a boy :) I guess its fun for you too discussing it :)

[Opinion Owner]

@Dexamethasone yeah I like talking and doing it lol. Have a high sex drive and not many men are able to keep up with me lol.

[Dexamethasone]

That is so cool :D You should be proud of yourself !! :D By the way do you want to whisper me? :)

[Opinion Owner]

@Dexamethasone what is that?

[Dexamethasone]

Sorry :P I mean if you want to send me a private message to talk :D

[lyla22]

from my experience men are more aroused by a blowjob, they will cum from a hand job but the odds that they haven't tried to fuck you or stick it in your mouth before that point are generally pretty slim haha

[sizedoesnotmatter]

Is it weird that I had a huge boner from reading this? i'm so fucked up

[Zendrya]

yes unless you're bad at it... it depends on the guy and whether you get him to edge and stuff... I'd say a mixture of the two is good

[Joc4Position]

No it doesn't mean the girl is bad at it. Some of us just don't.

[Zendrya]

@Joc4Position let me reword that, yes for the most part unless you're bad at it.

[Joc4Position]

No I mean really. No female has made me cum from a handjob. It's just the way some of us guys are.

[Zendrya]

@Joc4Position That's why I added for the most part... you're part of the slim few

[Joc4Position]

Oh okay.

[tinyclit]

If you're doing it right, yes.

[tinyclit]

I should qualify that lest he not be cumming and you think you're inadequate or something when you're not. In general he should cum from a hand job if he can cum from a hand job. Not all guys can and not all can in all circumstances. ymmv, etc, etc, yada, yada.

[summiter]

I always cum during a handjob, whether is by myself of from a girl who wants to help me out. I love them. How fast depends on when I last had sex or masturbated. Blow jobs are different, sometimes better, sometimes a handjob is better. Your thoughts?

[NJ_Casanova]

BJ are always better, and yes we cum from HJ's.. at least if they are done right. Guys have been masturbating like that for 1000s of years.

As for how fast, depends on how horny/aroused he is and the speed/pressure and if he has visual stimulation.

[Answerdude]

I don't usually take a really long time to com during a hand job. Either girls don't like to give hand jobs as much or they don't think I like them that much, but I do. I even went for a few years without getting one until an acquaintance offered me a "friendly hand job". It was friendly, indeed.

[thewanderingme]

I've gotten a few to just from handjobs

[Joc4Position]

Blowjobs are better from a mental perspective. Handjobs don't do much for me unless it's me that's jerking my own dick off.

[Alan180188]

late but yes of course... and blowjob is better to make it fast !

[epiper888]

You need to know what your doing, or else no fucking way.

[aliceinwonderland69]

I don't know why guys like hand jobs. I mean I imagine you can do it better than I can.

[nfigure]

Hahaha well people can also hug themselves, by wrapping their own arms around themselves. xD They can also run their own fingers through their own hair, and feel up their own bodies all over, but none of that compares to someone --- to whom you're attracted --- hugging you, playing with your hair, and caressing you all over. A big portion of "physical" pleasure actually comes from the mental side of things! It's the psychological thrill of having the girl -- that you're with -- feeling you up. xD So that's why! :P

[Nomad69]

My girlfriend could jerk me off for an hour I barely enjoy it. Blowjobs are way better especially if you swallow and make eye contact that's what I live for

[Boston_Dylan]

Of course a blowjob is better.. I personally don't cum from a handjob unless I am extremely turned on and even then it takes a bit. Doesn't mean we don't enjoy it though! :)

[Yumix]

you need a lot of talent to make a guy not cum. but yes, blowjobs are almost always better

[Joc4Position]

Not really. I don't ever cum from blowjobs or handjobs.

[Samsissy]

Yes they do!

[Dexamethasone]

Maybe you have the "talented" hand? :D

[MoonlitSonata]

Different from guy to guy.

[AndyW77]

Yes, unless it is just part of foreplay before the serious fucking.

[Mr2kinky]

Mix the two together.. That's the best.

[abc--123]

Yes I cum from handjob and yes blowjobs are better

[jamesdegod]

yea unless you give it the death grip

[Let_me_do_that]

depends on girl how is she doing and if its first round maybe but would take so long time if second she has to work hard

[Open_up]

Yes they can, but I prefer blowjob