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My Asian girlfriend makes rape noises during sex?

Ok so I went to japan for a buisness trip and I met a japanese women there and we hit it off and started dating, we have been dating for 6 months and started having sex recetly And she makes steryotipical hentai/asian porn noises. Like crying loud high pich sqeaking noises and its a big turn off, it makes me feel like I'm raping her, I mean she's 22 but looks 16, and doing these noises only makes it so much worse for me I talked to her about it and she said thats just how she is and she can't help react that way.. In Asian porn or hentai I know a lot of girls act that way but I honestly thought it was a sterytype and not true but apperently it is and I feel weird having sex with her Am i normal to feel this way or is something wrong with me? Is this a asian/japanese thing culturally Any advice
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  • Dude its just about adjusting to a new culture. Like I know you thought o this is just in hentai, but you probably should done a little bit more research I mean even porn would have shown you that the reality really is that yes when Asian women have sex they do in fact sound like that. Either way it's understandable that you wouldn't have thought to do research on and I mean it's not the most common thing to say to yourself let's study up on this, but still accepting her sexually for who she is and accepting the simple fact that yes she is a different culture, and she does in fact have sex differently is just a big way of adjusting to things. I mean it would be really silly just to stop an obviously good relationship for something like odd sexual noises especially when you know in fact of the matter is that she is enjoying herself, can't help the noises she makes from being pleasured, and she's being pleasured by you which hey means your not doing to shaby. All im saying is to try and understand that concept and try and understand that she can't help it, but she is enjoying herself. I understand that there's the concept mentality of rape, but obviously in this case the issue at hand really is nothing so big or important to worry about, so just take a breath chill and enjoy it for what it is which is 6 and one of the many ways you can represent itself. Besides you probably have a really cute girl that luckily you just so happens to be dating, so enjoy it because the reality is that if you can't see yourself with her then you should break up, but I'm willing to bet that that's not the case. So enjoy it while you have it because it may not always be there. Well that's my two cents hopefully that helps you in some way and good luck to the both of you.

  • That is weird, maybe it's just so cultural that the girl is supposed to be modest etc. that she can't enjoy it openly. Even though Korea and Japan are getting more westernised slowly, when it comes to sex many people are still super conservative. I don't really know what you can do about it it's probably ingrained in her, it would take a long time to change. Just try and understand it and live with it.

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  • I'm half Japanese, and lived in Japan for quite a while (to include high school). I'm sure her previous partners have been Japanese, that she had full, natural pubic hair when you met her. It's all about projecting innocence. Cute youthful clothing is desirable, but the full pubic hair patch is a sign that she's innocent, but of age and ready for sex. Shaved, waxed, or trimmed pubic hair is the sign of a girl fully sexualized and not desirable to a new partner. There's an innate obligation for the woman to act as though each act of sex is her first time, hence the submission (which paradoxically means she's offering), wimpering, shrieking, or even crying. Complex subject, unfortunately I'm limited in space.

  • I think most people just don't really understand until they experience it first hand.
    Well, I haven't, but thanks to thin walls and to the many neighbours I had, I can tell you it's pretty common. And not cute at all.

    Once my boyfriend came over and innocently asked me if I thought they could hear us. I replied in a loud enough voice "if I hear everything they do, cooking, snoring, etc., so can they".
    Didn't overhear them having sex ever since that.

  • Well because you watch that, that's what your used to. Can't blame her just because she's Asian. If you don't like it then... I don't know move on.

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  • Well you are raping her, don't you remember that all sex is rape? You sexist, patrical, cis-scum misgonistic pig !

    33.media.tumblr.com/.../...02zJfR1sxcftfo1_400.gif

    I just had to get that out my system

    P. S.

    Tentacles

  • I've never been with a Japanese woman but If these shrieks and such are joyful for her, why do they bother you? Are you feeling a bit guilty somehow about being with her?

  • Don't you mean you moved to Japan? Find a new girlfriend and see if the same sounds come out of her.

  • lol omgee. XD

    its just the way she squeels bruh. hahaa

    • squeal*

  • I think this is exactly just like how the porn you see shapes your reactions. If you watch a porn involving DEAF people, they'll make the weirdest sounds due to the lack of internal volume control but also that they haven't heard anything that would change their default. It sounds really weird by the way compared to what you are used to.

  • It is a Japanese thing. I don't know how they think that is normal, but most Japanese girls do and they ultimately got it from videos.

    I try to stay away from pure Japanese girls (mixed and raised in another country is ok). I've never seen it with other Asians, or anyone else for that matter.

  • Yeah most guys can do role-rape-play but it's not for you, neither is this girlfriend, so go shopping again

  • If you don't like it, it won't work for you. I had an ex who used to be LOUD and it was a huge turn off. Loud and foul mouthed. Big buzz killer. I never got used to it, the noise was that annoying and I'm not an exhibitionist so knowing people within a 1km radius could hear I was having sex didn't sit well with me. To make it worse, she loved it rough so if I slapped her and told her to shut up, it would just set her off even more.

  • Yeah, I'm not gonna lie, I find a lot of Asian (especially Japanese) culture weird in general. I notice the girls do that stuff on their porn and find it a major turn off as well. Maybe they do it because all these people watch western porn and think it's hot or something so they do it to please them. Or maybe it's Asian men that find it hot. I seriously doubt it's involuntary though.

  • I think a part of why Asians make these noises is because they can't really let go fully. It's kinda like girls who do those midget sneezes until you get them to let that sneeze all out.

    So my bet would be it would change when you make her let go more.

  • eh I don't know learn to like it i guess.

  • Man you are a MAN think about it... what your afraid of if she makes sound... she is enjoying it dude make her sound more!!

  • Yeah Japanese girls tend to be very 'squeaky'. I personally like it. I love it when they start saying shit in Japanese, too, that's fucking hot

  • it's normal

  • Damn. I actually saw that in a porn video once, it turned my stomach.

    Well, maybe you'll... learn to like it? Wear earplugs? I don't know. Ugh. That's horrible.

  • You'll get used to it bro. I suppose you can't make her change her sex noises.

  • Yes there is something wrong with you. But don't worry. You can fix this by one finding a girl that is a silent orgasmer or two seeing a therapist who can explain why your subconsciously upset about it.

    Either way. You will be just fine!

  • It's strange to us Westerners, but that's what Asian girls do. It is an expression of sexual pleasure not distress.

  • Step 1: don't call your gf's moans "rape noises"

  • Just learn to accept it. So many of them are "squeaky". I think it's cultural.

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