Should I grind or thrust when on top?

Girls and guys I need tips, advice or some help please! What should I do when I get on top. I haven't done it before and I have no intention of telling the (un) lucky guy this. I've read advice from other questions on here but I just still don't know. Or maybe it will be something I learn when I get up on there lol :/
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Cowgirl tips
    Here’s the way I have found, with the help of a very cooperative girlfriend, that a woman can ride her man all the way up the mountain to multiple, increasing powerful orgasms and ultimately, squirting.
    • He needs to understand that he can help with this position by grabbing her hips and helping her move. At first, leave to her own devices but as she gets more and more aroused, he should become stronger and more and more forceful in moving her back and forth.
    • Put him on his back and mount up with you on your knees.
    • Slide him in and settle in so you’re comfortable.
    • Rock like you’re riding a horse, slowly at first and faster as you get more aroused.
    • When you’re ready for him to help, reach down and put his hands on your hips. For effect, you can beg him in your sexy slut voice to help you.
    • When you start to get close to cumming, move like you’re trying your best to break that thing off. Of course, you won’t but the point is to not hold back. Just go crazy.
    • When you’re right on the edge, tell him to do you. He thrusts up as powerfully as he can and holds it with you impaled as deeply on his cock as possible, perched on his erection. He also forcefully tilts his hips and slams his shaft into your G-spot.
    • As you cum, don’t even slow down. Keep going and you will cum over and over, each time increasingly intense.
    • If you have The Big One, as I call it, you may very likely squirt so if there’s a gush, it’s not urine. It’s female ejaculate. Keep going until you’re completely done.
    Here are a few ancillary suggestions:
    • Pee first so that if you should squirt, you can be confident it’s not pee.
    • If you’re into S&M, have him forcefully pinch your nipples as you’re starting to cum.
    • He can slap your tits around if you’re into that. One girlfriend of mine liked to be slapped while she was up there with me telling her what a trashy slut she was for being up there in the first place.
    • Some ladies like their men to reach around and smack their ass while they ride.

  • That position gives you full control... I let my girls do what ever feels good to them. If you can take all of him... a lot of girls like to grind their clit on the guy.

    You can use the front to back motion, like if you were humping his leg.
    You can can do the up/down.. just make sure you don't go too high and come down hard as that is when you can break is penis (google penial fracture);-(

    You can Do a circular motions, (Like hulla-hooping) if you like the way it hits your spots.

    Most common is the rocking front to back as you can kiss while doing that. It is a slow the easiest way for him to do some work and thrust while your on top.

    The positions when on top depend on what angle works for you, If you need more pressure on the front wall of your vag you'd lean away from his face and vise versa with the back wall.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Both.

    Normally what I do if I'm on top. I think about how the dudes dick is up in there. Then about what hip motions would make him feel more pleasure.

    Not sure if that is helpful. This scene from game of thrones explains what kind of motion I mean. Skip to 1:02

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S18Rg8xuoWM
  • Just do whatever feels most comfortable and right to you.. The rest strangely enough will come quite naturally.. It also wouldn't go amiss asking the lucky/unlucky guy what he would like you to do .. Communication is the key to everything.. Enjoy and have fun experimenting.

  • Grind, thrust, making small circles with your hips. Just do as both of you like.

    • Yeah it should be a mix of all these moves but also things must be done in order.. right? :P

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  • Absolutely anything you want. A mixture of both or even just sit still and milk him with your vaginal muscle pulse clamp and grip him like doing kegels.
    Change the angles lean right back put your hands behind you and rock like that. Lean forward put your breasts in his face and thrust on him.
    Another is squat over him put your feet flat either side of him then bounce like a jockey on a horse.

  • Do both.

    Grinding is more for your pleasure as it provides clit stimulation.

    Thrusting is more for his pleasure as that gives the most stimulation to his penis.

    So, mix things up grinding and thrusting as it suits your fancy.
    Next, seek your own orgasm (multiple times if you want) by grinding.
    Then when his orgasm nears, thrust against him like there is no to tomorrow.
    Can't go wrong with that formula.

  • mix it up

  • grind

  • go with the flow.

    you've never done it before so even if you tried grinding or thrusting, chances are its not gonna be exactly how you both want it to go due to inexperience, unless you're just a complete natural.

  • Just pretend it was a dildo and ride it like you naturally would if you were just getting yourself off. Don't overthink it. You can grind on it, or do something I really like: Go up and down on his penis to where he almost comes out of you (but doesn't) and then slowly go back down. I love watching her do that!

  • Just be confident when you're doing it. It's your first time, don't place so much pressure on it. You'll learn in time of ways to get better or switch it up.

  • how does a woman thrust?

  • Grind for you, thrust for him

  • Yes.. figure it out when you are doing it :)

  • Both, enjoy the entire experience.

  • Do whatever feels good for you! Either way he will be enjoying it! I like to mix it up depending how close he is 😉

  • Move in whatever way feels best for you, if he wants to make suggestions, he can open his mouth and do so, otherwise do your very best to cum like a wild animal on him. He should find that fun.