Girls, do you let your boyfriend cum on your face? guys, does your girlfriend let you come on her face?

Question

when i've watched porn, not much, but when there was a video that a guy cum on a girl's face i found it degrading and disgusting and didn't want to click on it at all. But now that im in a relationship, my first serious relationship, and my guy asked if he could cum on my face, and ok i was like "ok.." but he didn't do it in the end. I feel comfortable with him, so i don't feel degraded or disgusted by it.. but from another person's point of view... would it be degrading? i guess im very much in love and maybe i can't see that. He respects me and he's wonderful. But this thing is new and i think i may like it, I don't know why

Rawrzz · Accepted Answer

Never done it. Never wanted to do it. The mouth, however, is pretty awesome. Degrading though... mmmm. I don't know. Is it degrading for a woman to squirt on a man? Is it degrading for a woman to put her ass on a guys face? 'Cause if you want to get into what's degrading, we can go down that path.

I don't think I've ever heard a man say anything a woman did to him sexually was degrading. Heard it a lot more often from women, though. Even so far as the claim that the penis is a tool of destruction, used to stab women. So in that sense, even having sex is degrading to women. Guess it depends on how you yourself perceive it.

It is kinda fucked up when they aim for the eye. Although, can't hit the target every time.

"I thought it was degrading, but then my boyfriend wanted to do it and it was no longer degrading." Mmmhm. Okay then. That solves that.

Where, in your opinion, would it be the least degrading place to cum on your person?

WhiteSteve · Accepted Answer

Yeah, we do it sometimes. Fucking the same person for 9 years, you've got to switch it up to keep things interesting, haha. She's good with it, and so am I. It's only degrading if the girl doesn't like it, I mean, anything done against someone's will is degrading, and that's certainly not the intent on my end, either. Why would anyone want to do anything if both parties didn't like it? If she looks like she's not into it or is disgusted, that kind of kills the mood anyway. Apparently, it's not for everyone, and that's cool, but I never understood why some people get so freaked out by the idea.

madiangel · Accepted Answer

It is very funny and not degrading
we are in open relation ship with my boyfriend, all my "sex friends" did cum on my face; actually unlike in porn, I like to finish them myself on my face. I do not like when the guy masturbates. I think they do that for the movie in porn, in real life it is a lot better if the girls keeps all control
the cumshot is like a victory dance, it is a reward, a blessing.
I see it like a car racing winner shaking his bottle of champagne all over the place :)
there is a lot of festivity in a facial cumshot!
and it is good for skin, it helps keeping a young look... you may look on the net for semen for beauty secret :)

Jennyg123 · Accepted Answer

I think with a random hook up or a fuck buddy there's much more potential to feel degraded than when in a relationship. The position that it happens in also might do it. I've only done it twice, the first time I was on my knees with this guy I had been seeing and I hated it. I was disgusted and actually broke it off after that. The second time I was laying down and it definitely made a huge difference. It also helped that the guy from the second time had been talking dirty about it and texted me for a day or so beforehand. He explained why it was arousing to him and I understood it more.

nalaa · Accepted Answer

I don't see it as degrading as long as you do it with someone you love and he treats you well.

But I def do get where girls are coming from when they say it is. And it's also kinda a weird thing to do. It's called the money shot because it was literally invented to end porn, not to be used in real life, where no one is watching. I have no idea why a guy would want to do that?

kaylaS91 · Answer

I'm fine with my boyfriend cumming on my face.
I've never felt it to be disrespectful or embarrassing for me... he's always very sweet, asking if it's okay with me if he finishes there, and doesn't do anything rude afterwards.

ShoeObsessed86 · Answer

I think it's pretty normal. I have had boyfriends do it to me. I think it's fair play cause some times I want to sit on a guy's face which I assume is a bit the same for them.

tinyclit · Answer

It's not degrading at all. In fact it's a lot of fun so long as you don't mind the cleanup afterwards. If you're not getting facials, then you've gotta start getting them. Just make sure he doesn't cum into your eyes, that can sting. Unless he's a good aim. close your eyes. Take your time and don't be in a hurry. Wear the cum proudly for at least a few minutes. Have him take sexy pictures or have a mirror handy so you can see how you look. It's pretty darn sexy!

AustinMan · Answer

What other people might think about your sex life is irrelevant. If he wants to give you a thunderous facial and you'd find it erotic, the on your knees, slut, and open wide!! It's all about having fun.

Roxxy99 · Answer

I let my guy do it from time to time. It's only degrading if it's meant or taken that way. Who cares what others think. Our relationship is good. We're intimate is every other way so why not? A relationship changes things. You develop comfort and trust, and your perspective changes. It's ok to please him and it's ok to like something others say you shouldn't. Do what you feel.

Sara413 · Answer

Never been something I want... I agree, it seems degrading. Honestly, I can't imagine my boyfriend ever wanting to do that... I think if I wanted it for some reason and asked him to it would probably make him very uncomfortable. He even feels guilty if I give him a blowie and don't want anything in return.

God I love that man.

bryon · Answer

I personally wouldn't do it for the reason you stated , i personally see that as degrading and well disgusting

madhatters4 · Answer

no i do not ejac on my partner's face

fauchelevent · Answer

Ehh, he doesn't do it very much but I don''t mind if he asks me if it's cool and then does it. It doesn't feel degrading too me.

SarahsSummer · Answer

My guy has done it a couple times and has Always asked first so I didn't find it degrading. I like watching him cum anywhere he wants. Lol. I think it's more to do with just because they see it in porn. We have a pretty great sex life and im open to most anything. as long as you find him respectful outside the bedroom, I'm sure he's a great guy and totally not trying to degrade you.

summiter · Answer

While it might be fun, I think it is demeaning toward girls. I have busted on their ass after some fun doggy style though. What are your thoughts?

AndyOh · Answer

I never have felt comfortable doing that. On the tits or ass or anywhere else, sure, but above the shoulders, nooo.

Mesonfielde · Answer

I don't see why it would be degrading, but I do see it as inconvenient. Like... What is the purpose of that? If it goes in her eyes, it will just cause irritation.

GingerGuy · Answer

It's not a turn on for me. I always find it degrading to the woman as well. But I can see the view point of two people who love each other. It being more "loving" act if that makes sense? I wouldn't do it either way personally but that's just me.

vertigo3201 · Answer

I let my boyfriend cum on my face once. Neither of us liked it.

Crazyced · Answer

I find it a bit silly to worry about other people's perspective on it. Sex is an intimate moment between consenting people. That's it. I bet you'd find seeing your parents having sex pretty discusting. Should they not have sex because of it though? Of couse not, it's their buisness.