A man who doesn't like his dick sucked?

[Anonymous]

I am currently dating my boyfriend and we've been together for 2 years. Im really frustrated because he won't let me give him head.. I literally beg as its one of my favorite thing to do , especially since I love him. When i have sex I like that to be apart of it.. How can I get him to change his mind? And are any other men the same way?

[ksoma]

I never got women who LOVE giving head.
I mean, I'm glad such women exist, and the fact that they enjoy doing this is amazing, but I just don't see what she gets from it.

Tell him that you want to do it for you as much, or more than, for him. Tell him you don't just want to, you CRAVE to, for your sake.
I totally understand why a guy would not want one if he thought she didn't want to give one. But when she wants to do that for you, why would any man say no?
Is he worried it is degrading for you? That's your choice whether you think it is degrading or not, and you obviously don't think it is!
Is he worried it isn't hygienic? Have him shower before hand and trim his pubes, make everything nice, neat and clean.
Is he bothered by the idea of kissing you after his cock was in your mouth? By mouthwash, and gargle and spit after you're done.

In the end, remind him that sex is something done by two people, that you both have needs, and sometimes YOUR need is to please him, and if there is any need of yours he should be ready to jump on and be ready to tackle, it would be your need to rock his world with your mouth.

[AustinMan]

Men vary but you might start with a conversation using this paradigm. Others have found it helpful:

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a10152-how-to-talk-to-your-so-about-sex

[Gnana]

My boyfriend has told me that he doesn't like it too. He has had a bj once, but he didn't enjoy it. I don't mind because I don't like giving head. He likes my hand jobs a lot though. You can't change his mind, but you have to figure out something that works for the two of you.
There are not a lot of men who don't like blow jobs, but our boyfriends are two of them.

[Asker]

Lol thanks.. I'm going to have to comprise because I love him to much to lose him... Especially over a bj

[Gnana]

Yeah do that! I'm sure you two will be okay :)

[Anonymous]

If he's not into it you're not gonna change his mind. Some people just aren't into it...

[broadsword]

It's rare but it does happen.
Tell him you'd like to try bondage. Tie him to the bed spread eagle. Then help yourself as he wiggles and acquires. Tell him to lie still like a good whilst you enjoy yourself.

[ZekeGaymer]

It's not my favorite thing. I'm not going to stop someone from giving me head, but it's pretty close to the end of the list of things I'd ask for.

[NJ_Casanova]

He might be too sensitive, like girls that don't like having the clit rubbed directly and only outside the hood. Try with a condom, it would desensitize him.

[NJ_Casanova]

Is he not circumcised? I hear that makes the head more sensitive.

[BertMacklinFBI]

you'll simply have to wait until he gets into it.

you either wait, or let him suffer an experience he doesn't like because you enjoy it.

[theus]

We may prefer to be inside you..

[GingerGuy]

Some guys (probably not many) just don't like it or don't get much from it. It might be a germ thing (or worried about STD's and doesn't know enough about it) or maybe he thinks it's degrading to you? Or, it simply doesn't do much for him. See if he'll tell you what exactly he doesn't like about it. I've never got much from a bj, I mean, I'll let any willing woman do it don't get me wrong lol, but it's probably least arousing for me compared to a hj or intercourse (but maybe I've just never had a good one?) lol ;)

[reptocarl]

Tell him it's important to your satisfaction and if he still won't allow it then tell him there's plenty of guys that do like their dick sucked and life is to short to be with a bad sex partner

[Joc4Position]

You sound like a shitty person.

[reptocarl]

@Joc4Position you sound like a domineering boring fuck

[Joc4Position]

I'm definitely more fun than you'll ever be old man.

[reptocarl]

@Joc4Position you don't even ruffle the sheets do you

[Joc4Position]

Hahahahahaha.

[reptocarl]

@Joc4Position you don't care if your partner is satisfied either or you wouldn't have made the comment. That also makes you selfish

[Joc4Position]

What's the reasoning behind such logic? If a guy doesn't want his dick sucked why should anyone sexually abuse him because of that? Or for any reason?

[Joc4Position]

I don't think it makes him a bad sex partner necessarily. Maybe just not the right partner for her though. That's understandable.

[reptocarl]

But what about her satisfaction that you don't give a fuck about? Sex is about doing for each other even if you're not that into it. But you don't give a fuck about that either

[Joc4Position]

I didn't say I don't give a fuck about the female's satisfaction. Where are you getting that from? Sex isn't a bartering contest. Sex is just that... sex. It's free expression.

[reptocarl]

@Joc4Position it's much much more than that. You're really showing your ignorance about sex for all to see. You really need to shut your mouth and stop embarrassing yourself

[Joc4Position]

First of all I'm typing. Not talking. 2ndly, I highly doubt most people could give a shit about our convo. 3rdly, I didn't mention not satisfying the woman. I didn't say anything about not satisfying her. You're probably one of those dudes who think you should do everything and the female shouldn't do anything. If that's how you are then fine. Everybody has sex differently is what I'm saying. I don't have to play by your rules. You don't have to play by mine. So long it's consensual and doesn't infringe on the rights of others then it's all okay, and shouldn't be confined to regulations and rules. It's like people want to be guided. Want to be led. As if they can't be free for once. But hey to each their own I guess lol.

[Joc4Position]

No. If it's not what he wants then it isn't what he wants. Don't try anything. No means no.

[Intraluminal]

I am the same way. Paradoxically i love giving women head, so i understand your frustration.

[skeptic007]

how about you both get naked and just grind on each other

[MoonlitSonata]

Ask him why? Maybe he has a bad experience once?

[Gravydavey]

Never heard of that one. BJs make the world go round!

[mustacheguy]

We al like different things. I like to fuck girls in the ass but not all girls like anal. I can't make them like it. I may try but if they still don't like it, i have to live with their decision.

[Sissymartin]

Good point.. still takes away slot.. blows my mind.. ha

[Sissymartin]

Maybe it's a power trip.. he

[JewelsDtn]

Well this is to the guy that responded, there are women that do enjoy it, what I get out of it. It turns me on to see how sexually aroused he gets.

[Adam_West]

i didn't understand. what exactly is that?

[Anonymous]

I'm currently dating a guy who doesn't like having it done either. I've asked several times could I do him but he refuses. He loves doing me though!! I don't know if it's because he's very large and thick down there or that it just doesn't appeal to him. But I actually love doing it!! All I can say is give it some time maybe he'll come around or just don't ask him anymore! In my case I just stop asking!!

[Anonymous]

I've hardly ever met a girl that loves giving head; that said, he must have gotten some terrible experience before - so you need to drag it out of him, and be careful when you are sucking him off

[Anonymous]

If you really miss it just get on over here and I will graciously sacrifice my time to let you pretend I am him for a few minutes.