About 75% of women don't experience orgasms whether with a partner or not. Is there a way to know you had one if you never have?

It is also very annoying to explain to the male crowd that you don't experience orgasms or that you never had them and you just don't cum. However some women cum by using their hand only. Is there a way to actually experience one with your sexual partner? Also why do males have such a big ego thinking they are better sexually than others and that they will most definitely make you orgasm?
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  • I understand that the majority of women have yet to experience orgasms but all women are physically capable. But part of the problem is actually in the fact that women are afraid to tell men they couldn't get them to cum because those same males are so fragile when it comes to their sexual ability that telling them they didn't do it right, turns them into childish infants instead of making them work at improving. So women have created a society where men with no sexual skill have been given false positive feedback letting them think that they are good at what they do and women have started believing that "some women just can't orgasm" and write it off as a personal fault.
    There are 3 types of female orgasm and they all require different processes to occur.
    The clitoral is the most common and is a sharper, shorter, more localized, spazm of the genital area. (think sneeze)
    The vaginal is a much less common because it requires a lot of mental arousal on top of physical arousal. It is longer, softer, and more full body. (Think shiver)
    The g-spot orgasm is a very intense orgasm, a build up and release which also can involve squirting.

    SO yes there is actually ways to experience orgasm with your partner, but he has to be willing to fail and work with you to get it right which as you said male ego won't often allow.

    When it comes to some guys that believe they will most definitely make you cum. The ones who talk the most usually know the least but have been told they were good by females who were afraid to tell them the truth.

    I don't tell women I can make them cum, I just do it. I don't ask if they did I simply know. When going down on a female and she cums, her taste changes and you can see her anus and vagina spazm. When it is vaginally, she will cover the penis with cream. When it is g-spot I get them to squirt which is a fairly obvious occurrence.

    I have been with women who had never had orgasms outside of clitoral masturbation, women who thought they were "one of those women who couldn't".
    But I have never been with a women who I couldn't get to cum any of the 3 ways.

    Women need to stop being afraid to tell men to do it right.
    Men need to stop rushing, assuming they are good without justification.
    And both need to work together to make the sex good for both people.

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  • More than 75% of women experience orgasms give me a break lol. I wonder how they rigged that statistic. If you had an orgasm, you would know. It's one of those things. Like how if you're dreaming you aren't sure if you're awake or asleep, but when you're awake you know you're awake.

    Some women however are unable to achieve orgasm though any method. I can't remember the name of the disorder or if it's physical or psychological, but they don't get them at all. This is very rare though. About as rare as women who uncontrollably orgasm all the time, which is also a thing that happens. Like 1 in hundreds or one in thousands, and I'm guessing at that because it could be rarer I don't care to look up the stats right now.

    Women who can experience orgasms often times won't have an orgasm during sex because there is no clitoral stimulation or not enough because for most women it's an important thing in achieving orgasm. There's a lot of hype about g-spot orgasm being more powerful and bla bla bla, but I'm not buying that. I'm not sure that I have ever had any orgasm without clitoral stimulation, ever. It's kind of a no brainer that women won't orgasm from penetration alone because there aren't many positions that give it enough attention (unless it's being rubbed while being penetrated).

    I think some men are just over confident and don't even really know when a woman has had an orgasm so they just assume.

  • ... The 75% number is when it comes to vaginal intercourse. 75% of women don't have orgasms during vaginal intercourse.
    But roughly 90% of women CAN orgasm, just in other ways - clitoral stimulation, etc.

    • I really only know that from a study that was made years ago.. Perhaps when I was about your age. But there are women who don't get orgasms at all from either. I am one of them. It really has nothing to do with the man's performance in it. Some women just don't. But I still hope for a way but I am used to it. It is just annoying to explain.

    • I know, I haven't had an orgasm either. You should try a sex toy. I heard The Rabbit is really effective at fixing anorgasmia. I'd try it myself but I'm financially dependent on my mom.

    • I don't even know what the rabbit is. I don't like sex toys. I really prefer the real thing. Do you know the price? And I mean I have a job but I don't make much. Might be hard to hide it from my 2 year old

  • what? ? ? where'd u get that stat? doesn't sound right.

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  • The way you put it, you it sounds like 75% of women are incapable of having an orgasm! Nothing could be further from the truth! I believe ALL women are capable of having one, but the level of stimulation needed hasn't been reached.

    Personally, I have been with several women and i was able to bring them ALL to orgasm. I agree though, that some were much easier to get there than others. There was one woman I could start touching her legs and by the time I got to her vagina, she she was having an orgasm within 30 seconds, and several more right after that. Another woman was so difficult to get there it took 15 minutes of careful stimulating to get her there.

    Since each woman is different, the amount and style of foreplay, the type of touch, the wetness needed, the pressure on certain parts (not just the clit), how fast or slow all make a difference. However, the most important sex organ anyONE has, is their brain. I would toss out any "studies" and focus on what stimulates YOU. Like someone said, when you reach orgasm, you'll definitely know it.

  • Orgasm is a very intense experience after which there is a sense of sexual satisfaction and calm. It often takes a lady up to maybe a dozen increasingly intense orgasms to hit The Big One.

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    Sorry I think your question is a good one but you've got your facts slightly wrong.
    75% of women never orgasm from intercourse
    Between 10 &15% of women never have an orgasm at all.

    Guys are very egotistical its part of masculinity we can't help for the most part. So if your woman doesn't orgasm from you making love to her it will feel like a slur on your sexual ability.
    Why do guys want to have big dicks because they think bigger is better. Well actually from the about statistics men are much better off being able to give good great oral , fingering or even learning to use toys if you truly want to give your woman an orgasm.
    In answer to your question if you need to ask whether you've ever had an orgasm or not then you probably never have had one.

    • 75% of women never orgasm from intercourse? I shell shocked.

    • @aliceinwonderland69 shocking isn't it. Those women that are capable are very lucky. It does take two though.

  • a way to know if you've never had one is if you ask "how do i know if i've never had one?"
    if you've orgasmed, you KNOW what it is.

    as for why men might have an ego thinking they will be sure to make you cum? maybe they earned the ego. maybe they are actually very good at making the women they are with very happy. there is also the chance they are full of shit, and just trying to impress a girl enough to pick her up, get their rocks off, and leave her disappointed.

  • I don't know where you get your figure from. It isn't even close. Every woman I have ever been with has had them, but sometimes it took a number of times if they were virgins when we met.

    If you are having trouble, then I suggest finding a guy who is more experienced to help you.

  • When you have an orgasm, you'll know.

  • Really? Quote source.

  • The number 75% sounds way too high. The 75% is from vaginal intercourse alone, but not altogether. That number was around a third or so.

    • That percentile was from years ago so maybe it is different now. But every women's body is different but I just wonder if there is still a way..

    • There is still a way for what?

  • Yeah you'll know its common sense.

    • What is common sense?

    • My pet cereal.

    • Okay silly! But I actually want real answers.

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  • 75% seems high. Maybe true for vagina, but I notice the women who sleep around more have an easier time cumming from penetration.

  • it is actually 63% NOT 75%

  • I would think shed know