I don't understand guys like you.
My husband LOVES when I wear killer dresses, with plunging necklines that really put the ammunition in the word "bombshell".
He appreciates my legs-for-days in big tall fuck-me heels, because... he's the one who's gonna fuck me.
I mean, I know this is a CRAZY crazy thought, but, he actually LIKES the idea that HIS wife might actually be one of the hottest women in the room. Insane, huh?
I understand how he thinks.
He wants a hot woman. He wants everyone else to see how hot HIS woman is, too.
I don't understand how you think.
What do you want?
I got news for you, dude. If you want a woman who's dumpy af all day, and then magically hot in YOUR bedroom... uh, yeah, that doesn't exist.
No such animal.
We DO NOT compartmentalize like that. Our sexuality is continuous. If you want hot, then, hot is what you get -- inside the bedroom, outside it, everywhere. It's continuous.
If you want flirty and vampy, then, get yourself a woman who's also flirty and vampy in the outside world -- and learn to "tame" her, and make her yours. That's a thing that happens, you know.
If modesty is what you want, then, you can have that, too... but just be aware that that's what you'll get, all-around. Including the parts of yr life where you DON'T want it.
Pfft. You sound like a bitch. He dont want dudes eye fucking his girl 24/7
@Crobymac that’s what I’m thinking
Well look at it this way, how do feel when someone you don't know kinda checks you out or gives you special attention because they find you attractive, as long as it isn't anything creepy? It's pretty flattering, right? It doesn't mean you're gunna meet up with them tonight and cheat on your girlfriend. People like to know that they're generally found to be attractive.
If you feel like she is leading other people on by doing it rather than just seeking some attention for it then that's the tipping point where you need to have a conversation about it. As for the other, you knew what she was like before you started dating her, right? A relationship compromise might have her wearing more reserved clothes when she's with your family or around your guy friends to show respect to you but doing whatever the hell she wants the rest of the time.
she should cover up because people are gonna be like hey did you see toms new girlfriend she wears nothing she's a slut and then boom he gets to hear people calling her a slut and she
should be naughty only for him, if your in a relationship why would you care what other people think unless you want to impress them? she should only care about impressing her boyfriend same goes to the man
@altair212 If he wanted to date someone who covered up he should have dated someone who covers up, if he's ashamed of her for what other people think of her then she deserves to be with someone better. It's to each their own, you can't make someone into something they're not.
I'm gonna disagree with most of the opinions and say that I don't think girls should seek attention from guys by wearing revealing clothes (and vice versa). I'm not even in a relationship and I don't wear anything that shows cleavage or anything. I believe that my body is for my future husband. But not everyone thinks the same and in that case I think you did all you can do. She views the situation differently
Tell her that you don't appreciate her flaunting her body to that extent to other guys, and would prefer if she covered up a bit.
"In all my years of living with the female species, I've learned one thing. When they want to do something totally insane, your only move is to support them 100%."
If you forbid someone to do something they will only want to do it more. DONT give her an ultimatum or something like that. Just be cool. The last thing you want is to act like a control freak. Act cool at all times. Sooner or later she is going to understand that showing off your assets is silly but she needs to get to that conclusion on her own.
In the meantime, it shouldn't bother you that much cause your face is where she's parking them :P
Flat out ask her if she really is committed to the relationship and explain if she says "yes" it doesn't feel like you are. Because the way how she feels the need to announce to the world she has larger than average breasts. As well it should be your attention she should be trying to get NOT other guys. Then end with if you want more attention I will give you more attention but dont get mad when your suffocating from it. Since your asking for it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I would literally break up with someone who feels the need to feel validated by other peoples attention.
Start showing off yours. :)
Sorry but I'm with her. As long as she's staying classy for the environment she's in, where's the harm. I love being with the woman in the room that every guy would love to take home and do his worst to but I'm the guy who does her.
How would the two of you feel about you disciplining her for doing it? Not to punish her behavior but to get it out of your system and hopefully she'd enjoy submitting to your dominance.
You have no control over anything she wears.
you drop her that's it that simple.
Rock out with your cock out!
Leave her or accept her for who she is but don't try to change her. If she wants attention due to insecurities, help her feel more empowered as a woman in general.
If she wants the attention because she finds it fun, then that's just her personality and if you don't find it fun yourself, maybe you're not as compatible as you thought you were.
I guess you could try gently asking her if she wouldn't mind dressing just a little more conservatively.. But ultimately it is her body/figure to do as she pleases.
Stuff a pair of socks in your pants to produce a prominent bulge the next time the two of you are planning to go out. See how she reacts to that!
Have you told her how it bothers you? That's the first step.
She is right.
It's almost like no matter what she does people are going to see her breasts. There is no idea those things. Even if she wears a baggy t-shirt.
There may be times where she feels good by the attention of other men as she is walking down the street. But at the end of the day you are the one who gets to enjoy them to the fullest.
She can wear whatever she likes. None of your business what she chooses to wear. She's wearing things that make her feel good about herself. Don't stand in her way.
I think you should get used to it or dump her it seems she is not interested in your take on the subject.
If it bothers you enough then leave her.
Give her my cell number, send me vids and pics and I'll make an unbiased assessment and let you know.. Tks, G
Don't tell her what to do or how to dress.
It's her body and showing off cleavage is fun.
Soo do you get mad when guys stare at your cleavage like some other girls do?
@iFarted glancing is fine and I'm used to it. but if they're glaring and i can feel it, then it would bother me.
@iFarted I dont think she gets mad cause here I am staring and no one is punching me
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Tell her exactly what you are telling us here. That you find it unpleasant if she is trynig to gain attention from other guys. Take it a step further and ask her how she would feel if you are purposefully trying to get attention and oogles from other girls.
If she isn't insightful then you need to reevaluate your relationship. What @rgb008 says is bullshit. While it is her body, it is your twos relationship and consideration for the other partner is necessary. Everything else is selfish and egocentric. And if she isn't considerate towards you and your feelings, then this relationship is doomed to fail.
Get a new girlfriend.
Why can't as guys we just walk around with shirts off And rock the pelvic V lines. I mean it's pretty much the male equivalent to amazing cleavage and girls can
Break up with her. If she's showing people her tits then obviously she isn't committed at all and she wants attention
Commitment doesn't make attention less enjoyable.
@redeyemindtricks all I'm saying is that if she walks around showing off and acting like "look at me look at me look at me" then she needs to be single. You don't walk around with your boobs out when you've got a boyfriend it's just disrespectful
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