Guys, I have a hand Job question?

[Anonymous]

So when reaserched how to give a hand job, the main thing that i learned was to make sure that it is lubricated. So naturally, When i took a shower with my boyfriend, i thought that it would be the perfect place to give him a hand job. I was wrong because turns out he can't cum with his dick wet. All he says is that it is not enough friction. so most of the time i give him a dry one. I ask him if it hurts him and he says no. I've made him cum before but most of the time ill give him a blowjob and stroke his dick then he finishes it off for himself. Every time i make him cum i think that I've found the right recipe but when i try to use what worked the last time , it never works. Are there any other guys out there who are like my boyfriend? Anyone else have some ideas on what to do?

[Anonymous]

A shower handy has problems. You can use soap as a lube and there is a short time you have the right balance of friction and slip. Then running water blocks sensation. One receivers opinion is to use cheap dollar store aloe Vera lotion. It has and keeps the right combination od slip and grip. Also you have to keep your footing in the shower, which draws your mind away from the task at hand. Next time, make a production out of a Masseuse style 2-hand hand job as the main rvent with him comfortably on his back and you sitting up attending to him.

[MysticIntent]

I've gotten a few dozen handjobs but I only ever came from 2 or 3 of them. I had difficulty with that as well. I suppose it didn't help that she wasn't the best at it but she never really had time to hone the skill either.

To answer your question you could try a different method every time, or just power through it and take however much time would be required. I guess practice makes perfect.

[sa230e]

Is he uncircumcised? If he is that would explain it. Intact guys don't really need a lot of lubrication because the gliding motion of the foreskin already provides that function.

[Asker]

no he is

[godfatherfan]

ummmm... when you give him a blow job, his dick is wet. when he fucks you, his dick is wet. That argument doesn't hold water...

[abc3643]

You need a thick lubricant and a firm grip. Basically, your hand needs to be like the inside of a vagina.

[Asker]

He can't cum with it all lubricated!

[abc3643]

Well, you don't want to overlubricate. Don't forget the tip. Friction with the tip is critical.
www.cosmopolitan.com/.../

[abc3643]

Good advice from Cosmo:
"Don't forget to pay special attention to the super-sensitive corona (the ridge where the head meets the shaft) and frenulum (the thin ridge that runs the length of the underside of his penis). Periodically massaging them with one or two fingers will make him swoon."
www.drmaroisurologue.ca/.../...12-1013eafc3ab3.jpg

[Asker]

Ok thank you finally someone who helped

[abc3643]

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[abc3643]

Just Google this: how to give a hand job and study...

[Asker]

But i have!!!

[TheBootyChest]

I am certainly like your boyfriend.

[Asker]

ok so you don't use any lub?

[TheBootyChest]

none what so every. and so sometimes blowjobs and sex don't work for me.

[Asker]

Oh god he can't cum with a blow job either! he said that he sometimes uses a thin sheet do you do anything like that?

[TheBootyChest]

When I was much younger to pretend it was a woman but not for normal things.

[Asker]

What have girls done in the past that has worked for you? that wasn't vaginal intercorse?

[TheBootyChest]

Nothing. I had to do it all myself to get over the edge.

[Asker]

great , did you not enjoy having sexy time with the girl because of it?

[TheBootyChest]

I enjoyed having sexy time with her I loved getting that physical touch from her. But I just couldn't finish off with her in control. Is he able to take care of you though?

[Asker]

no , not yet

[TheBootyChest]

may I message you?

[Asker]

In his defense we have been in a LDR for most of our relationship so we don't exactly get to fool around a lot

[Asker]

sure

[TheBootyChest]

can you follow my profile?

[GingerGuy]

I don't like lubrication personally, I'd rather have the friction and no it doesn't hurt, feels better to me. Another tip is to play with the balls to, we like the whole area touched not just the shaft or the head.

[Asker]

ok thank you for your input

[rjroy3]

Shower is different. I'm the same way. Running water isn't good lube lol. Your saliva can work well enough, but you're gonna be tugging a bit before you're sliding.

[Sonoflife]

Your guy's dick has got a crocodile's skin!!
Wow.

[Ggermanus]

Funny you should ask. I came across a bottle of lotion that was my Wifes and , I don't know why, but it reminded me of how when I was younger and constantly jerkin off I never even considered used lotion. I liked the friction, and I have a thick stick and would grab that thing and go for it. Was never irritated or sensitive or anything.

[Nomad69]

Hand jobs suck I think it always hurts when my girl does it she tried going like sideways and bending it back to far it isn't rocket science

[Satisfyd]

Sometimes if guys masterbate to often they will have a hard time finishing when someone else does it. Watch what he does and ask him to show you how he does it. He can use your hand and explain.