Does dick size really matter?

i have had sex with 6 people so far. the first 5 people were of average or lesser average penis size. and with half of those guys my sexual relationship lasted for a year or more. so we had tried many positions and different techneques. but i had never orgasimed with any of those guys previous. even though i had strong emotional feelings for them. but last night i had sex with my new boyfriend for the first time. and i was kinda shocked of how big he was downstairs. when he entered me i could feel his penis hitting my cervix wall. it was a new sensation i never felt before... but it was amazing. and i came to orgasim for the first time while only in missionary position. and it i reached climax in just a few minutes.
yes. of course
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no. not really
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depends on how you use it
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  • I see it as where size does matter, but not to the extent where people think it does. A lot of dudes get the misconception that everyone has a monster size dick besides them, and then to further the issue further, some believe that girls only like a huge sized dick. Then they look down at their own and are disappointed and such.

    To say size doesn't matter at all would be a lie (I'm certain a micro penis would feel different than a large penis, or a less-than-average feels different than average), but I don't think that size is quite to the extent many believe it matters.

    The "average" is smaller than many seem to think, and around the average size is acceptable to the majority of women. I think what is more important is how you use it.

  • I dont think ots a question of "if" it matters, the question is "how much does it matter". Most girls, if being honest, will admit that it matters, the only thing that varies is how much it matters and what they consider ideal. Different girls will have different answers.

    As a generalization most girls are probably "content" with average but would ideally "prefer" above average, although not quite huge or massive.

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  • It's definitely a combination of factors. Some sizes are easier to work with than others, for sure. That goes without saying. But that doesn't mean it's not possible to be satisfied with virtually any size, if your partner really knows what they're doing. My guess is that if your new boyfriend wasn't using some technique as well, his size alone wouldn't have been enough to make the experience so great for you. And if your other boyfriends had experimented a little more and really worked to figure out how to make sex feel amazing for you, they might have been able to do it. Size ALONE won't get you very far.

  • LOL @ the last option... there aren't THAT many possible uses haha
    i voted NO, because frankly i dont give a damn.

    • "there aren't THAT many possible uses" if only you knew...

    • @AleDeEurope i really don't want to know lol

    • Hahahahahahah xD!!!

  • I'm the opposite of you - when a penis hits my cervix, I want to cry, curl up in a ball and throw up.

    • I do know, however, that being really turned on makes my vagina feel more "alive" so to speak. Are you more attracted to your current guy than your exes?

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  • If his dick was hitting your cervix, it would be quite painful.

    And yes. Size matters.

  • "its not the size, its the motion of the ocean"...
    only 6 people... damn... you gotta up your game girl...

  • A certain minimum size is typically required. If that minimum is attained, then the "depends how you use it" can play its part. So technically, it's a bit of both.

  • Like there is a great chance because he is that big he might not know how to work it that much.

  • Might have been the combination of the new boyfriend and his huge tool. See how the next few sexual encounters go with Mr. Big and if you have the same thing happens.

  • Well it quite clearly helps if you can actually feel their junk.

  • Different strokes for different folks, but I like the look of a 10" dick and the feel of a 7" dildo (haven't had a real one yet)

    I'd say big is hotter to most girls who are honest.

    • wow... visually you want a 10 incher huh? nice lol how does that 7 inch treat ya?

    • @CaliSoccerFella it's good😊 Had a 5" one for a long time so I upgraded. I really like the girth of it.

    • nice... glad you like the size haha too bad i can't message ya.. i may have a question or two for ya!

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  • For ME = YES x 100000000000000000!!! = Vote A

  • It does matter (no matter what girls say), but not a whole lot.

  • I believe a guy should be big enough or long enough to hit the spot. Of course you have to have some freaky moods to make the sex good.

  • Yes. Ngl but I've been turned off by seeing a guy with a small dick. It just doesn't do it for me.

    • Agreed. Small "surprise parties" are the worst.

    • @kittykatbrat whats even worse is when they can't even get hard.. so we just make out instead

    • I'm only 6.5 is that to small Dx

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  • haha! Small guys are going to rage. :D

  • of course it does. women have stayed with me far too long for my size.

  • 2 things.

    1.) Yes, size matters, and congratulations on your new sexual discovery.

    2.) If 5/6 guys were "below average", then perhaps you need to consider that you were wrong about what you thought was "average".

  • Length, girth, attraction, and tension play a role in think.

  • You are pretty transparent. Even the people who answered know what you are.

  • I'm not that big but even I can admit of course it matters. Obviously how you use it matters but the size is going to effect sensation. Your question proves that.

  • lol girlsaskguys... making already insecure guys even more insecure one question at a time

  • Hmm. Well according to the asker's experience, size does matter T-T
    Sucks for me.

  • in sexual process dick size won't matter at all but there is 2 vital reason which make girls to go for it.
    Reason one: visual appeal, when you unzip his dick no one in this earth like to see a small dick, everyone like to see it grown big and if its really big one that trigger the mind that plays big role.
    Reason two: if its big one it stretch the pussy while entering and it fills fully so that feeling can lead to orgasm or adds so much pleasure.
    I think these things make 'size matter' but at the end the guy who got big dick should know how to use it otherwise the big one wasted!

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