Should I tie my hair up when giving blowjobs and having sex. Sex is new to me. What do you girls do?

So I'm going to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time. And I never know if your meant to tie your hair up at all. I could imagine it gets in the way at time but then boys like hair down. Should I tie it up in a ponytail or will the hair dangling get in the way. Do you tie it in a tight bun at all? My hair is really long and thick. What do I do?
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  • There was a time when I had a bad habit of moving my head forward while he was cumming into my mouth. He began to use the hair on the back of my head to gently but firmly hold my head back while cumming into my mouth. That was helpful. I've long since lost the bad habit, but both us like the head holding (it feels good to me and I think he gets pleasure from it), so I still want him to do it. That's why I keep my hair down.

  • Depends on the position we're both in when i give him head, plus circumstances.

    If it's road head, it's usually somewhat spontaneous so I don't really care to tie my hair up and will just pull it to the side, get him to hold it back. If I'm at his place and know it'll be a longer session, it'll usually be more convenient to quickly put it up in a ponytail.

  • If you're doing a blowjob with your hair down, prepare to have your hair on his dick and in your mouth. I like to tie it up because my hair is really long and he can't hold of it and part of hair always falls down. I mean, I guess hair down is sexier for them, but it would feel better for you.

    • thnx MHO! how was it btw? :P

    • Haha it's been great. Mostly been tying it up in a ponytail or tight bun

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  • Leave it down. He can hold it up and use it as a handle to guide you while you develop your skills:

    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a7404-blow-jobs-tips-from-a-deep-throat-queen

  • Putting your hair up IS more practical, but i think your guy would appreciate it if you let it down because its much more appealing.

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  • Sometimes I don't but If i'm doing it for a long time and my hair gets in the way he will usually hold it for me, but there has been times where I tied it up. Just got with the flow and if you end up needing to tie it up then do it.

  • Some guys like the extra feeling both hair & breasts give when brushing against their thighs
    Some gals that know they are going to give a long & juicy one will prepare as you suggested, so their personal clean up later is lees trouble + some hate having sperm in hair

  • My hair is extremely long but I usually leave it down. My boyfriend generally holds it for me when I'm giving a blow job ;) and during sex it isn't as much of a problem unless you're on top and then you just need to make sure you're hair doesn't end up in his face.

  • For bj's I do use a hair tie but in bed I usually let it flow.

  • I leave it down so he can do stuff with it

  • Before cutting my hair is would tie it up most of the time but not that it is to my shoulders I don't.

  • Leave your hair down so it touches him as much as possible between the legs. for me, to have my whole groin area engulfed in a gorgeous mane of hair while getting head is an ultimate thrill.

  • I generally put my hair in a ponytail whenever clothes start coming off but some guys like it down. If you're giving a blowjob I'd say put it up cuz if its long it can get in your mouth

  • if my girl's got nice long hair, I like it down. I gather it up hold it aside and caress her head. It's a turn on.

  • You need to stress less! Sex should be fun, it shouldn't be about worrying about your hair!

    My hair is long enough that if I sweep it all to one side or behind my back that it doesn't get in the way.

  • Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. Depends if I feel like stopping what we're doing to put it up.
    Sometimes the moment is too good to care about hair, ya know?

    • I like it in a pony tail, then you can see her hair bobbing back and forth as she works on you. just me though maybe >;)

  • Hair gets in the way-just tie it up.

  • if you trust him, you could let him hold your hair :D
    guys will like that. this way you can also check if he´s a controlling, abusive asshole ^^ if he keeps pushing your head down, he´s not a keeper.

  • Maybe, if you don't want your hair to get messy. Other than that, I think having it loose is more beautiful, letting it be free

  • it can get in the way but it can feel real good when dragged across your body

  • I prefer when my wife's hair tickles my Dick and face and other areas she's teasing me with.

    Just say'in

  • During blow job Yes, sex keep it free it is more sexy

  • leave it down

  • While sex who cares the hair tied or not?

  • I like when it tickles my lower abs gently for slow head, but if you're going at it you're going to want a bun.

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