Either you suck at fingering and eating and she's not anywhere close to cumming and she doesn't want to hurt your feelings or she's a woman that has a lot of difficulty cumming and she doesn't want to let it become her moby dick (if you don't understand the reference, read the gist of the book moby dick). Stop thinking about it and stop making it your priority and let things flow naturally. No one likes to be pressured into trying to cum and a woman certainly doesn't like being a guy's prize. The more you make it your personal priority and goal, the more it'll turn her off and the less likely she'll cum.
No no, she is very close to cumming and I've asked her about it and she says she doesn't like cumming. One time I convinced her to let me carry on and she came twice
If she truly doesn't enjoy cumming, then just drop it and don't focus on making her cum. Tell her you're unable to relate but that you respect her choice to not cum and you won't pressure her or try to make her cum and to let you know if she ever changes her mind. I mean there's not much for you to do. You don't have to understand why she doesn't like to cum, heck, she may or may not know herself why. Just support her choice and stop trying. Now, if her not wanting to cum is a sexual incompatibility for you (i. e. A deal breaker), then you need to let her know and go your separate ways. If you can live with her choice, then stop worrying about it. The more supportive you are, the more likely she'll share more in the future if she figures it out herself.
Yeah, it's kinda annoying but it's in no way a deal breaker, I love her just the way she is
are you sure that she doesn't like orgasming? are you sure that she can have an orgasm?
1in3 women experience difficulties orgasming regularly.
80% of women have never had a vaginal orgasm
so the first thing is to realize that the female orgasm isn't a given as it is with men... i'd really ask her to get to the bottom of it. ask her why she stops you. tell her you'd like to help her get off and if she is opposed to it
my guess is she may have trouble orgasming or isn't getting there based on whatever you're doing
I've made her orgasm before and I have asked her and she just says she doesn't like it because it makes a mess (she's a squirter)
ahhh. so it's the squirting not so much the orgasm. well you could just try and convince her that you don't mind the mess, and in fact you kind of like it because it's a sign that she is truly turn on
I have told her that, she just doesn't believe me :/
My guess is that she's a little bit uncomfortable with losing control in front of you and also a bit embarrassed. It might help if you talk with her about before you have sex (READ: Not while your fooling around!!!). Hope this helps!
Maybe she actually isn't comfortable with the sexual activities you are doing and doesn't enjoy them because she's not ready for them yet.
Nope, because we've had sex and sge has initiated it all before.
Maybe she is insecure about her orgasm face
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Damn u ate her out huh?, maybe it's bc she feels dirty? Not sureeeeeee
Some girls don't like that stuff. There are lots of ways for women to orgasm. Some can orgasm just off nipple play. Time to think outside the box, and also ask her what she wants/
because you maybe not doing for her so she thinks it's a wast of time
I don't think so because if she doesn't say stop (which has only happened once or twice) I finish her 3+ times
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