I have never had a problem with pleasing a man orally up until now. My current boyfriend is in his 50s and it seems like no matter what, nothing is ever good enough. I have to suck him really hard like I'm trying to suck a golf ball through a straw or something, just to keep him hard. If I don't he goes soft again. It has to be constant or else he'll go soft. Is it like that for all older men or is it just him? If I give him a handjob he wants me to give him like a tight deathgrip. I always feel like I'm gonna break it off. He needs Viagra but refuses to believe that he has a problem. What can I do? I love him but a half hour or more of sucking hard like that can be frustrating.