I'd talk to you, away from the sex, probably over an intimate drink and tell you how much I love your skills, esp as a fellatrix. I would tell you how much it means to me that you go to all the effort you do. I'd ask you to consider that in fact my ejaculate can be seen by you as part of my ultimate treasure, the most intimate, precious gift I can give a woman. And if you can see it that way, you can probably understand that there are three places it belongs but in your sweet mouth is an exceptional opportunity for us to achieve an even higher degree of closeness.
How would you respond. Oh! I'd also tell you that ejaculate is sterile and harmless medically.
Haha I appreciate that you'd be willing to have a conversation about it. I know it's sterile and harmless (assuming the guy has no STDs). It's all in my head I think. Like I mentioned in another comment, precum doesn't bother me. It's the large load in my mouth all at once that gets me. I'd say it's something I'd be up for every now and then but not something I'd wanna do every time.
For the reasons you stated, I am confident you can psych yourself up about it to the point that you'll actually crave it so you can swallow it and please him even more. There aren't many things sexual that are as gratifying to me as when I unload in her mouth while she's doing her best to suck the like out of me, holds it, looks up and shows it to me, smiles, and happily swallows my gift, grinning from ear to ear. I feel like a god.
I don't mind if she doesn't want me to finish in her mouth. My last girlfriend didn't like it so when she went down on me I would just let her know when I was about to cum and she would stop and stroke me while I cum.
Most guys won't care because they just don't. And no good person would make you take it in the mouth.
I would freak when pre-cum went into my mouth. So, I really didn't like giving bj's for that reason.
My boyfriend doesn't make pre-cum (hallelujah, he was picked for this reason, haha XD) has never asked me to let him finish in his mouth. It's just not something he cares about, and combined with the fact I'm not comfortable, we've never explored that option before.
The best thing you can do is to keep swallowing anyway. Be brave. Ask your guy to cum into your mouth every time and swallow. Just keep swallowing every time. You'll very quickly get used to it and it won't be any sort of problem. After awhile it not only won't be a problem, but you won't have any more germaphobia about it either. You'll very much enjoy doing it. :)
I enjoy it all and am pleased knowing I could get him to climax. The swallowing is no big deal to me and much cleaner/simpler than other possibilities but both partners of a sexual relationship should respect each other's wishes.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I always tell the wife when I'm face fucking (I can cum with regular bjs) so she can decide if she is gonna take it or if she wants pull it out and jerk it or put it in her pussy. I really don't care, I'm just love the bj. Your getting precum in your mouth anyways and a penis isn't the cleanest part of the body to have in your mouth so I'm surprised you do it at all.
It's more a mental thing I think. Technically, I know it's the penis that's not the cleanest and the precum doesn't bother me. I think it's just because the climax is a lot to swallow. If It was just a little bit, it probably wouldn't bother me as much. But a mouthful is just difficult for me to get past mentally. I've done it, and I would be up for it every now and then with someone I trusted and cared about.
Talk about it with your boyfreind. I'm sure that he will love coming on your body just as well as in your mouth. He might even want to cum on your face.
I don't think he really cares as long as he is cumming
With me, that's been the case more often than not. Strangely, coming in a girl's mouth is not as big a turn on to me as coming in her pussy, or even in her hand.
oral sex is mostly just foreplay anyway, in my opinion. I'm usually just fine with a girl who sucks my cock until I almost cum, then stops so we can fuck a lot, then asks for the sperm to be delivered into her butt.
But, I will say that sperm is very clean. It's probably the cleanest bodily fluid you will find, in fact. It has to be because it is essential to the survival of the sperm.
If you don't like cum in your mouth, tell them that and if they whine... tell them to get over it.
it's not really the same? have you seen how wet some girls can get? it's like fucking gushers exploded inside the entire pouch.
anyways, if you don't want cum in your mouth then pull it out and let him cum outside somewhere.
Meh... get him to throw a flavored condom on, it is almost the same!
I wish most guys liked that. I could go for hours that way.
Just get him started without and finish with the condom... he just has to tell you. I bet most guys would be okay with that, they aren't going to make you do something you don't want to do and if they get all pissy about it then you know they don't care or respect you. So who needs em!
Your guy is one lucky guy. He is already in heaven
Have him tap u eight before he is about to cum
Just let him. finish on your face instead of your mouth if you are okay with that. That way you don't have to taste his cum and yet he still gets satisfaction from it. If you're not happy with that either tell him straight that you don't like it and would prefer if he came somewhere else (suggest an area of your body). 😉 I'm sure he'd be understanding about it
Pretty sure his bodily fluids have less germs than the outside of his dick.
Definitely. It's just more a mental thing.
i have had girls prefer me not to cum in their mouth. That being because they said i shoot an above average amount of cum though.
But I will say... most have preferred me to shoot it on them cause they can see my cum shoot and land on them; which i love too.
but i have had a few cum eaters lol
i dont mind either way :)
Less germs in his cum than on the glans of his cock.
cumming in your mouth is only fun if you like it and swallow. if she doesn't... fine, I can respect that. just tell the guy and when he is about to cum he can warn you and cum somewhere else
Ythere are a lot of women that are the same way.
Communication. Need to talk to him about this. Best way to enjoy.
Same as my girlfriend then. It's a little disappointing but it's her choice
Thats aqesome id ler u kno when im bout to cum
I'd be disappointed
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