He spit on my vagina while he fingered me?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend spit on me about 10 times while he was fingering me, every time he was fingering me and I got close to an orgasm he would hock a big one on my pussy while he was fingering me. I felt so grossed out. I haven't said anything yet and not sure how?

[Tdieseler]

lol... im sorry, i actually imagined that... i guess he thinks he's lubing it up or something... but i think thats just disgusting and i can imagine the disgust on your face... you better curb that shit quick... ew loogie.
i mean, unless you are one of those girls that don't get wet enough... then you might wanna invest in some lube but still tell him to stop that disgusting act.

[AustinMan]

He was lubricating and dominating. He was showing you that you're his and you'll do and take what he says. Do you have a problem with that?

[colombianita92]

Tell him how you feel. Honestly chances are he got it from a porn and he thinks it feels good for you my boyfriend often does stuff like that in attempts to make it better. Just tell him honestly am sure he'll be happy to know so he can give you the best experience he can

[Deth2AllButMetal]

Tell him to stop watching You Porn, Porn Hub etc. Why are you dry? Do you have Sjogern's which is an autoimmune disease that attacks your moisture glands. I have it and simply use a personal lubricant. That's just gross and it doesn't take a lot to screw up our furance.

[dancingFOOL97]

just tell him you don't like when you spit in my vagina, it does nothing and kind of grosses me out. he shouldn't be mad at that, everyone is allowed to have things they do and do not like.

[xHoneyxBeex]

Maybe he thought you would like it or he just wanted to use it as a lubricant. If you didn't like it then just tell him how you feel and ask him not to do it again.

[tinyclit]

Gross, tell him to knock that off. I mean he can use his tongue and be super sloppy, but to hock a spit ball is disgusting.

[Jack_S]

He does it to provide lubrication (improperly so).

Tell him to put the spit in with his tongue or not at all.

If that is still to gross, then just be blunt

[SarahsSummer]

If he's just trying to lubricate you, that's actually helpful but if he's "hocking a loogie" you need to tell him that's a mood crusher.

[summiter]

He sees that on porn videos. You have to communicate with him. Tell him what you like and what you don't! Use some lube if needed... it works great!

[godfatherfan]

yea, you need to tell him he needs to lubricate differently.
I had a woman spit on my cock once when sucking it. I was so grossed out by that. I had to ask her not to do it again.

[itsallover]

He watches too much porn.

[angelagunning]

If he had any respect for you he would not spit on your pussy. What if he was to spit on your face? Its the same thing - a sign of non-respect. Get rid of him and tell him to go spit somewhere else

[10dsw]

Well... in the long run it is just another bodily fluid, just like "wetness", right? That is kinda crude tho, I will admit.

[zorro8888]

If only there was a way for you to say you don't like that after the first time.

[Mesonfielde]

... While saliva is an effective lubricant, I wouldn't literally loogie there. That's disturbing.

[Dulcedulcexoxo]

Sounds like he is watching a lot of porn.

[TadCurious]

To me that's kind of odd. What I have done is wet my finger (s) in my mouth and then gone back to fingering. But it's never crossed my mind to blast a loogey down there on her. (I'm not sure how to spell "loogey." lol)

[abundantlyrich]

He's following what he saw in Porn.

[reptocarl]

Tell him you don't like it

[oldanddecrepid]

Yah that is a porn thing... pretty disgusting, if he feels you need some extra lube just do wet his finger in his mouth, it is a little less disgusting.

[f_ckmeup]

You can get a gnarly infection that way.

[Ggermanus]

Yeah he was probably trying to lube you up, but that's disgusting.

If you don't want to marry this Cretin, kick his disgusting ass out.

If you do, which I'll never understand, then introduce him to personal lubricants and tell him there is a sexual practice called cunnilingus.

[funsizeundercover69]

u were dry and he used his spit for lube

[genericname85]

just tell him that this is a turn off for you. he probably lives under the illusion, that you find it hot.