Do you make noises during sex?

Question

When I was younger, I had many inhibitions to overcome. One of those inhibitions was that I never talked during sex and I never made any noises. I convinced myself that doing those things would be stupid, fake, and my partner would probably laugh at me. Of course, I was wrong.

When I got a partner who was uninhibited, she was talking naughty and moaning and demanding that I do things to her that I could never discuss with my mother. :) It got me really turned on! Then, she asked me why I never talked or made any noise. She was wondering if perhaps she was not pleasing me. (No, she pleased me greatly!) She suggested that I relax a bit, trust her and let down my guard, and make a few noises just to see how it felt.

The next time we were amorous, I let out a few grunts and moans and I was amazed! It didn't feel fake but it actually made my orgasm feel stronger. So, I got a bit nore adventurous and tried more moaning and grunting like an animal and it made sex even better. Then, I started talking during sex. "Take me in your mouth!" "I want to cum inside you." "You feel so tight!" My partner started getting more aroused and our sexual union became even stronger.

In later years, I had other partners who did not make any noise during sex and I always encouraged them to relax a bit, trust me and let down their guard, and make a few noises just to see how it felt. Some did but some women just could not break through that barrier.

Do you make noise during sex? Moan? Grunt? Whimper? Talk? Scream? Do you feel that it makes your orgasms stronger? Does it get your partner more aroused? If you don't make noise during sex, why not? What's holding you back?

fauchelevent · Accepted Answer

I can't really help making some noise. I usually moan, whimper or gasp but it's always very quiet. I rarely actually speak, if I do, it's usually his name or 'fuck' but it doesn't tend to happen very much. I don't like making noise, so I guess I just make what I can't hold back. Knowing that it helps my partner and that he enjoys when I make some noise probably helps with not holding everything back :P

Bcombs0125 · Accepted Answer

I personally feel like it depended on how comfortable I was. While I was with my ex in high school. I didn't. But when I started dating the guy I am today during my freshman year in college I was more comfortable around him and I did. I feel sex would be very dull if we didn't make noises for the simple fact you'd just be sitting in silence listening to each other breathe which isn't a turn on.

xHoneyxBeex · Accepted Answer

Yes, I do. Sex is so much better when there are noises. I love when my guy makes noise too. Quiet sex is extremely awkward in my opinion and makes me feel self-conscious. When both of us are making noise, I feel better, more turned on, and more at ease. I'm never fake about it though. Every sound is completely natural.

edibor · Accepted Answer

I think the neighbors are terrified of what they hear through the wall... ;)

It's just so natural for me to make noise. No censorship whatsoever. The only time I rein it in a little is when I know my mouth is right next to his ear. No need to make him deaf. ;) I dirty talk, moan, all sorts of stuff.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Not that I'm aware of, I sometimes zone out/in and hear queefing and squeaking noises

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I like talking, my partner doesn't, so i try to not say much. But i'd be happy to.

Jennifer2048 · Answer

Yes, but mainly moan, whimper and grunt, and most definite breathe heavy.

SnowPrincess13 · Answer

It's difficult for me to hold back my moans and gasps. I tend to scream when I'm being fucked particularly hard and when I orgasm. I usually don't have enough breath to say much but one word. I'm my loudest when my husband is touching my g spot and making me squirt. He usually puts a ball gag in before hand or covers my mouth.

hsshannah96 · Answer

I sound like a little mouse trying to climb Mt Everest. That’s my best description of my noises. Bahahaha.

angelagunning · Answer

I howl so much the neighbors think we have a werewolf in the area

Amanda2 · Answer

I do everything, I suck feet and all

rescuemyheart · Answer

I moan and talk dirty and like a guy who does too. Just verbalizing what you wanna do is hot

CHARismatic110 · Answer

I have always tried to be as quiet as possible. Even when I'm by myself. I guess it's a combination of not wanting anyone to hear me, and me being embarrassed of hearing myself.

Becky01 · Answer

yes I make noise

COCOCHANEL · Answer

i moan, whimper a lot. talking dirty is strange for me.

Anonymous · Answer

I find it hard to be silent unless I have to - like if my bfs dad is at home haha. My boyfriend says he can even tell when I'm horny just by my breathing