So I'm a 21 year old virgin and it's not because of religious reasons or anything of that nature but just because I haven't met the right guy (I know it sounds cliché but it's the honest truth) Anyway, I had no idea being a virgin was such a big deal. Everytime people find out, they look at me like I'm an alien and begin to judge and interrogate me. They begin to ask me why I'm a virgin and am I scared and sometimes laugh. I've met really cool guys that I really like but the minute they find out, they run as far away as possible or never wanna speak to me again. I've started to question myself that maybe I'm a weirdo and I'm probably the only virgin my age. I avoid relationships because I know most guys wouldn't want to deal me.