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Do guys find larger breasts more attractive?

I've got a boob question, even though I'm sure you're tired of them? So I've got 34B, maybe just barely 32C breasts, and I've just always felt that they are on the small side and not as attractive as larger breasts would be. I'm 19, 5'6", and about 130lbs. I've always been a bit self conscious about my breasts size, considering how many large breasts are flaunted about on a daily basis. I've always assumed guys preferred larger breasts to smaller one. My boyfriend has never really remarked on their size, but the one time I mentioned how small they were he said "I'm not complaining". That's all well, but his ex has huge a** boobs. Like massive. I can't help but wonder if he wishes my breasts were a bit bigger because he knows what it's like to have more to play with? I've got a good sized handful (well they fill my hand) and what I'm guessing are equally nice sized nipples. My breasts look good, they're a nice shape and all... But would it be better if they were bigger? Would my boyfriend be more appreciative of they were? Would he have more fun playing with my breasts if they were large? My over all question with all of this rambling, are larger breasts considered more attractive than their smaller counterparts? Do guys find larger breasts more attractive?
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  • Shape is more important than size. B's and cs are ideal in my opinion. Some of the big ones I like, but anything past a D or DDs just too big in my opinion. Though again, shape and natural firmness and lift is most important, in my opinion. Every guy has different preferences though. But I think Cs are generally seen as ideal by most men. I think almost every guy would agree that shape is more important than size. But it might just be my preference about lift and firmness. But you should relax. I can't tell you your bfs preferences. But I think I can say that having nicely shaped B/Cs are, as he said, nothing to complain about. That doesn't necessarily mean he thinks they're just mediocre. Only that he likes them as they are. Maybe he likes bigger better, but trust me. It's not a big deal. Pun not intended. In any case, just ask him again. Just this time ask "would you like my boobs more if they were bigger?"

    There's a theory that guys prefer breast size based on what socioeconomic class they were born into. Rich people like smaller breasts; poor people like large breasts; middle people like middle sized breasts. For what it's worth.

  • Larger breasts are thought of as "more sexy" simply because a girl can't hide them. They're just "out there" on display for everyone to notice. Believe me, those girls may get the looks, but they have to deal with many difficulties with them also. Back pain, difficulty finding a bra that fits, near impossible to find tops that fit! Every where they go, guys talking at their chest instead of them, and so on. Big boobs get in the way often, they hang down and most of those girls complain about gravity having its way with their chest, etc... I know all this because I hear it from my wife who has D-sized boobs.

    At the other end, smaller topped girls can find just about anything they want to wear. Their boobs look just as beautiful, and when they're in a guys hands... WOW! They feel just as incredible as larger ones! Don't tell my wife, but some of the best sex I ever had was with a girl who had small boobs (your size!). Relax and enjoy what you have! Trust me, they're incredible!

    • Yes! You're exactly right about the back pain

Most Helpful Girls

  • We all are given gifts in compensation for other gifts and to assure we find the right guys, so be happy, worry less, all is in good hands and your happiness is assured.

    My hubby was first married to A-cups, maybe B-cup when preg but never fat enough to make them bigger nor had the genes. She didn't need them - she possessed Williams Syndrome, among the traits were very sexy, flirtatious, adventuresome in bed and on the line to being slutty. She didn't need much on top when almost a twin to sister cover gal.

    That said, he always wanted to peek & play with mine that began C's and became DD's depending on age, athletics, diet. I can make him hard just by going topless.

    My take is that you may have found The One, satisfied with you in every way, even though he's fondled bigger/better and left that as not enough to fulfill his idea of a complete package like you do.

    Natural breasts are superior to all others, so don't mess with them - it's not worth the risk & if they don't appeal to a guy, he's NOT The One

  • I'm sure there are outliers... like men who love no boobs, small boobs, huge huge boobs, inverted nipples etc. etc. etc. but, I think for the most part, men prefer bigger, but not crazy big. I say this because when I breast fed, I was overfilling a D cup... I had looks left and right, hubby was drooling, and I overweight at the time (just had a baby damn it). Now, I am healthy size, shapely, run etc., B cup, I get no looks, nothing, and my hubby could care less about my breasts. I can't even get them played with during foreplay. Sorry, this is my experience and I am being honest.

  • Oh my god. I can basically guarantee you aren't being measured properly because of this wishy washyness about size.

    This is how to measure for your bra size

    https://youtu.be/8Jk55ep4XUQ



    Now let us move on away from stupid numbers. YOUR BRA SIZE DOES NOT DEFINE YOU. YOUR BRA SIZE DOES NOT DEFINE YOU. YOUR BRA SIZE DOES NOT DEFINE YOU.

    Believe it or not you are a fully functional human and not a sentient set of breasts. Congratulations! So why are you thinking of yourself that way? Your boyfriend obviously isn't thinking of you that way.

    • thank you for this video!! aha i actually watched all of it, it REALLY helped. i've been living a lie! i've been wearing 34D but i just measured myself the right away and it turns out my bra size is 32DDD or 32F

    • @KRIEL55 AH! I'm super glad to hear it's helped you! I had a similar realization after I saw it too! Check out zulily they have a lot of specialty sizes pretty cheap.

    • i agree, thank you for this video! I need to go shopping, but bras are expensive :( lol

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  • I think I'm the same size as you however when I buy french lingerie i'm a 34 C and honestly I love them, they are perky and they don't fall down, so sometimes bigger isn't always better, but it really depends right? We can't help what we're born with and thanks to puberty we are able to grow them, I don't really think your boyfriend wishes you had bigger breasts just because his ex has massive ones. If He loves you and appreciates you he won't pick you apart.

  • For the record, they all taste the same, LOL! Larger boobs may get more attention, or interest, but they aren't always more attractive, if you get what I am saying. Some larger breasts are just a floppy and sloppy mess that just gets in the way of everything, while smaller ones are just beautiful and works well with everything!

  • I'm not going to give you the PC answer, because it's mostly untrue.

    Yes, maybe he does sometimes wish yours were bigger, most guys (hurdurrr of course not all) prefer bigger. That doesn't mean he doesn't like yours.
    My ex was the same. All his exes had massive tits and I'm barely an A cup. You bet your ass he missed playing with big ones.

    But as long as he's not cheating, and respects you either way, basically gives you no reason to fret about it, then don't.

    • Haha I appreciate the straight up honesty

    • You're welcome :) People try to console others with lies, I find it unhelpful in the long run.

  • More attractive no, but more eye catching yes. I prefer women with smaller boobs but the bigger ones catch my eye more. It is kind of like that flopping/waying sign blow up thing. It moves more so your eye is drawn to it. Small boobs rarely bounce/move and are usually in the correct place so women rarely tend to them/fix them in public.

  • Guys love boobs, doesn't matter what size it is.
    Boobs are life to them.

    • Shh don't tell them what we live for, they'll use it against us :P

    • win.

    • @zorro8888 Pssshh we all ready do use it against you guys!

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  • I find smaller boobs more attractive, B being my favorite.
    Your boyfriend is not complaining, so there is no issue there.
    Remember-his EX has big boobs, and he isn't with her anymore.
    Proportion is important, and it sounds like your boobs fit you just fine.
    It's not the size,, it's how you use it!

  • Honestly, why care about what a guy wants? Are you happy with your boobs? Then why care?

  • Wise words xD

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nt2His-qo3U

  • Most (but not all) guys don't care about the size. If we can see and play with them we're happy. Every guy has his preference though, you'd have to ask your boyfriend his. I personally would like you the way you are and wouldn't want to you change them.

  • this is my only opinion of it. your b/f is happy with your because they are attached to you. if they were smaller he would still love you if they were bigger he would still love you. he is just happy you allow him to touch and play with them

  • Every guy is different. Their preferences are different. Some guys like bigger boobs. Some guys like smaller. And at the end of the day, I don't think that any size would be a deal breaker.

  • For big guys , they are drawn to bigger ladies with big boobies

  • hunny dont stress yourself i have 32DD boobs and i still feel they are small , you always what to change something , but i say fuck it if they like you enought they won't care

    • bombbombbomb

  • Sure I find larger breasts attractive but I also find smaller ones just as nice, it's whatever the gal I like has.

  • Yup usually guys tend to like bigger tits but there are many who like them small as well

  • I never get tired of boobs because of how great they are to talk about and ogle at. A great set of boobs is enough to command most guy's attentions. Don't worry about them being bigger, they seem fine. Smaller breasts are fine.

  • yes and some dont i prefer middle to small

  • Boobs are wonderful. But a flat small waist is very important to me tbh. So I tend to be attracted to more petite body types.

  • it´s more about the form than the size. if they sagg as hell and are floppy, they are undesirable, no matter the size. if they are firm and perky, they can be small but are still attractive.

  • Well, personally, not at all. For me, any size is wonderful. To be honest, I like a bit smaller, as they tend to stand up more and be more perky and less saggy.

    But honestly, it is the woman who matters, not how large or small her breasts are.

    You sound like you have fine physical attributes.

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