Watch an instructional video - amongst the regular Internet porn there are a few couples videos that go into details of techniques.
Technique varies a bit depending on if he is circumsized or not - circumsized guys may require lots of lube and if they masturbate a lot might need a tight grip (though squeezing too hard isn't good). Lubrication is much less of an issue for uncircumcized guys as the foreskin moves but don't pull down too hard past the full extent of what it can stretch.
Semen is sticky, but it's only gross if you think it's gross. You can wash it off afterwards (it's best to give him a minute or two before running off though, to enjoy the post-cum bliss in your company) but guys like it if you want to try tasting or licking it off, so you can do that too if you are up to it! (oral consumption of semen is fairly low risk for STDs but it's still something to think about before putting it in your mouth... the time the fluid is in your mouth may make more of a difference to transmission than if you spit or swallow and semen you have in there as the digestive system will deal with it but the tissue in your mouth is capable of getting infected by stuff like the herpes virus)
NB: For most guys inexperience is actually a turn on, so don't feel like you have to be an expert - he can probably teach you how he wants to get a HJ and will enjoy that
Make a circle with the tips of your index finger and thumb, as if you are making the 'ok' hand signal. Then do it round his cock, just below it's head - too high will hurt and too low will have no stimulus.
Make your movement gentle and slow at first, then gain momentum as he gets excited. Once he cums either go down on him and swallow (if you're comfortable with that) or lick your fingers clean to really excite him. Wash your hands if that's what you prefer - never do anything you're not comfortable with.
use some type of lubrication. for some reason guys like when you spit on it. you can do that. you can also use flavored lube, the personal favorite between my man and I is oil based. pay most attention to the head and his balls. You can also do a little bit of mouth play here and there. it doesn't exclusively have to be a hand job. If you're worried about sperm being sticky or gross I don't think you're mature enough to be giving them out, though. and don't let him cum on your hand. Always have a drink in hand before you start. If he's gunna cum make sure it's in your mouth. It's less of a mess.
Cum is not gross. It can be sticky if you let it dry on your skin and especially if you get it into your hair. It can sting a bit if you get it into your eyes. It's easiest and cleanest if you have him cum into your mouth and swallow it. Otherwise you will have a mess to clean up afterwards and that's no fun at all. Definitely wash your hands afterwards, no matter what you do.
Yeah it´s sticky if it´s gross that you have to decide for yourself. Many men like it if you lick their cum, would make him happy i guess. For the Handjob itself just observate his reactions, it´s pretty much written on his face´s if you touch a sensitiv spot and then just tease it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Use lube and don't grab onto it hard when you stroke it. Maybe you can watch him masturbate once to see how he does it. And you can wash your hands after. Some guys might think it's hot if you eat it. But 99% won't be upset if you just wash your hands
Lube works very well or if you want to make it very erotic, you can use your own spit, guys like the heads of their cocks massaged, but gently, sperm is sticky, I wouldn't say its gross, depends on your experiences, but if its your first time, I wouldn't lick it unless you really wanted to, keep paper towels and baby wipes handy :)
I can't get past the point where you say "I really don't want to give my boyfriend a handjob"... if you are uncomfortable or not ready then don't do it. You should enjoy your time with him and if this isn't something you enjoy then talk to him about it.
You can't give him the perfect handjob. Guys can give themselves a better hand job then you will ever be able to.
but if you not willing to give him a blow job, then it is better then nothing.
if you want to make his head explode, then lick it off your hand, it would give me a brain orgasm lol.
otherwise just go to the bathroom and wash your hands.
yes, semen is sticky. Sperm are too tiny even though you will have several hundred million on your hand. I don't think they, themselves, are sticky.
The biggest thing is to not just do the same motions the whole time. Change speed, how firm your grip is. Basically start out really slow and gentle, then gradually speed it up. One of my previous girlfriends just did the same thing the whole time. It did the trick but it just wasn't as exciting as it could have been. Now after he cums you could lick it up if you want. That would be super sexy in my opinion. But since you're obviously new at it I'd say just wash your hands until you get used to it. Yes, when he cums it will be sticky, but I can't tell you if it will be gross or not. That's more of a personal preference thing. Just be gentle and don't rip his dick off haha.
You have to wrap your fingers around his thing and then stroke. Up and down.
Then? Do i like his sperm after he cums or is it a turn off?
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For most guys it is a turn on. Look, the only thing you need to do is to be varried. Don't just do the same thing all the time. Change grip and speed from time to time.
Every guy is different. Ask him. Some guys like it slow and gentle (like you're playing with it) and others like it harder and faster. Stoke the whole shaft/head (sometimes woman focus on just the head, umm no). Don't forget the balls to!! This is a big one that is often ignored. We like the whole area touched, not just the head or shaft. And if you generally seem to be enjoying it, that's a huge turn on to (if it looks like something your forced to do that's a turn off).
Will tell you couple things.
1. In order to give your boyfriend perfect handjob -> use your hands wisely :D.
2. After he cums, put his dick into your pussy without dropping your lingerie.
He will love that for sure.
make a circle with your thumb and index under the head exactly and rap the others around the rest , and use the other hand to rub his balls, and then start your thing slowly and speed up rapidly and talk dirty to him or moan, it's not necessary to lick his cum unless you are giving him a blowjob then you can do that, but of course don't go up asking for a kiss after that !
just make sure your hand is lubed up !
and perhaps show the balls some love too
Otherwise.. if you wanna taste cum give it a shot ;)
Cum can be sticky, it depends on how you view these things. He will likely not cum in your hand though. When he cums it will basically shoot out under pressure unless you are ready to catch it with a cloth or something. I think it would be so sexy if since you have some reluctance just to tell him that you would like to give him a hand job, but would like for him to tell you what he likes. Trust me. He will know because he has done it before and knows what feels good for him. Personally I like when a girl strokes slowly and goes down the shaft and while you are holding the shaft push gently but deeply into my balls.
Ok, the perfect handjob is going to depend entirely on his tastes. Experiment and ask him what he likes - trust me most men will jump at the opportunity to provide you with guidance. General principles though:
-Lube, whether spit or actual lube. Dicks cannot be adequately stimulated when dry.
-Enthusiasm. Show him, and tell him how much you want his cock and cum. Stroke his ego - it's tightly wrapped up with sexual desire.
-Speed/Consistency. Start slow, and build up speed when he gets close. You will know, probably.
-Orgasm/Cum. Of course, only do what you are comfortable with. Sex is about 2 people, not just 1. That said, a woman who will swallow my cum is like a goddess in my perception. It's an intense feeling of intimacy and acceptance, and makes the ending comfortable and relaxing. It will taste/feel different depending on the guy and his diet. Only one way to find that out, though.
Remember, use your voice and show him your body. Anything to demonstrate your desire and enthusiasm!
I've only had one good handjob. She used lots of lube, and used to work as a masseuse.
With your hands
Dear. You're very curious and that's the best way to learn. First of all, you need to turn him on really well that pre cum start coming which will allow skin to move smoothly with that you need to keep lick it to keep lubrication well. Then, try to hold him from his lower and start slowly. You may hurt him but let not lubrication get decreased or else he'll pain. With that you need to shake it in good pace, not to slow and not to fast.
Secondly, spearm are sticky. It'll not taste good but if you really wish swallow it. This thing will give great excitement to your guy.
Grab it firmly and beat it up like it owes you money, get ready for a mess :P
Forget the hand use your mouth 100 times better
where are the experts? :)))
Cum is really sticky. When he is about to cum, you can quickly stop stroking and let go of his penis, and he will start cumming a few seconds later. You won't get any in your hand if you do that.
use your hands softly
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