Aren't virgins undesirable?

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virgins are inexperienced, boring and arrogant. They shouldn't be praised and wanted. They think they deserve the more decent guy. Not to mention that they look down on women who enjoy sex (sleep around). No virgin girl hangs out with a sexually liberated women (sluts). 
Even guys who sleep around prefer virgins or women who had 1 or 2 sexual partners. You don't have the right to date a virgin if you are not one.

Tdieseler · Accepted Answer

Ok i was with you still the "sluts" part... i don't like that word at all or at least what it implies. then after that you lost me. totally lost me at "you don't have the right to date a virgin if you are not one"
Excuse Me... i believe that Most virgins want someone who has experience in the field... not too much but a bit.
Female virgins already worry about how its gonna hurt the first time, i mean, do you think they need some inexperienced fuck to come around and make it worse because they have NO IDEA what they are doing. I lost my virginity to a virgin... it took 2 hours of trying before achieving penetration... even she told me that it was brutal.
And male virgins, well of course they would prefer a virgin, just so they don't feel inferior but will still take an experienced girl if the opportunity came up.
Virgins are undesirable cuz of what you stated, but desired because... well... its an ego boost..."i was first"
And Virgins that want to wait till marriage... are just plain stupid in my book.

(no offense to any virgins who are gunning for that... it just doesn't make sense TO ME)

Octavius · Accepted Answer

eat a snickers.

MaiNameIsSunshine · Accepted Answer

You sound bitter dude. You are like the opposite extreme of all the virgins who slut shame. You are acting like all virgins are bitches, you are no better than all the virgins who act like promiscuous women are bitches. I'd say that we all need to shut up about how many people others have slept with, that's each individuals business, not ours, everyone needs to get off their high horse.

BuchitaBuchys · Accepted Answer

The simple reality is that virgins are seen as more desirable. It sucks for the rest of us "sluts", but we should know better than to think liking sex is healthy for us women? It's not like we're people or anything.

But there's nothing wrong with being a virgin.

HookingSwan · Accepted Answer

lol you don't want people to put down girls that have already become sexually active, yet you are putting down virgins...

What a motherfucking double standard. Not to mention that you sound butthurt as hell...

madhatters4 · Answer

there's nothing undesireable about a person who hasn't had sex... like being a virgin to me isn't desirable or undesirable. it's just what it is

kambo_trick3y · Answer

So angry.

Mesonfielde · Answer

It depends on how open they are to no longer being a virgin.

_lululemonxx · Answer

i mean.. duh who wants a slut

Bandit74 · Answer

Assuming both girls are attractive and have desirable personalities, a virgin is definitely preferable.

There is nothing positive about a girl having had sex with other men before me. Sexual history is simply something we "tolerate", but it is rarely prefered. You won't hear many men saying "gee I sure wish my wife had fucked more men before she met me". You might hear that he wish she had slet with LESS tho.

The only downsides of a virgin are the possibility that she has a low sex drive or has emotional hang ups regarding sex. If neither of those are true then a virgin is definitely better,. You get to be the one she tries new things with and experiments all her fantasies with for the first time and you have something with her that litterally no one else has. With non-virgins, there's nothing that you have with her that ither guys haven't had with her too. Chances are she's already tried everything with her previous partners. So there's just a greater level of intimacy with a virgin.

Its also more flattering because virgins tend to have higher standards so its more of an honor to be chosen to be her first if she's been holding iut and waiting for the right guy.

FakeName123 · Answer

Statistically people who have had little sexual encounters prefer partners with little sexual encounters themselves. Same goes with many sexual encounters.

So considernig you talk down on virgins you pretty much out yourself which of the two you are.

Redstang88 · Answer

Somebody is butthurt. And I really dont are one way or the other

hifromkai · Answer

More to the point virgins particularly virgin guys think they know because they've watched a few porn videos and they really have no clue

Dred1614 · Answer

Virginity itself isn't boring nor interesting. I look past that when I judge the person.

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like you're a slut that's been rejected for being a slut.

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