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Boys and girls, what are the most common mistakes when having sex?

I think that one is not having foreplay.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • As you get older, you realize that the foreplay is a lot more important. I schedule a weekend, Friday night, to Monday morning, with my girlfriend, and we don't usually have sex until Sunday night, and sometimes, not at all, just focusing on the time together, and cooking, and being close, and it isn't about sex, but about being together, loving, caring, spending time together.
    When you are younger, it doesn't even factor in, and it is all about the sex, and orgasms.
    Take your time, LIKE being together, and talking, and sharing things, together.

  • Not enough foreplay, or being selfish.

    Not lasting long enough.

    Not communicating enough either through body language or verbally, this includes sex noises like moaning.

    Doing the same thing over and over and over again and not switching up being more dominant or more submissive or utilizing different positions.

    Not exploring other places to do it that might make it more exciting.

    • Thanks.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I agree with the lack of foreplay. Most people just want to rush in it and not realize how important foreplay is. I know it's not important at all for dudes since it doesn't take much at all to get them to cum. Sadly for a good amount of women. We need foreplay other wise it's going to be almost impossible to orgasm during sex.

    • Then another major mistake is how a lot of people suck at communicating what they want. So not telling the other person they need foreplay to get off.

  • Putting it in the wrong hole?
    Or did he?
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    • Lmfao, using the exit rather than the entrance. Eeeeew! Lol

    • @Shorty1991 lmfao it happens XD

  • People not being safe.
    Literally everyone i graduated with is surprise on their second kid.

  • RUSHING it
    not being completely relaxed, not having fun with it & not being giving/loving

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • concentrating on your own needs/satisfaction rather than your partner's?
    i mean, sometimes you just have someone who is ready 24/7... forget foreplay. some people fuck it up and it lasts too long, or is too short.
    i like to switch up... sometimes foreplay... sometimes i find something to bend her over... eh..
    but i Always make sure that she damn near breaks something cumming so hard :)

  • Biting the penis, him using your nipples as chew toys. Not alternating the speed and varying techniques. Same old can get monotonus. I have the knowledge but not the experience.

  • I don't really like foreplay.. I like getting straight to it. I'll give him head but anything else bores me kinda.

    • You must get wet quickly in that case.

    • @Speedguy It takes a few minutes of making out and touching each other but I do get wet pretty fast, yeah.

    • Pampered, I think U pamper ur man!

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  • Trying to put the condom on in the dark and ending up doing it inside out and then losing your erection cause the moment is lost.

  • Maybe, but foreplay is very common when I have sex so I don't understand why people don't do it.

    I'd say THE most common mistake is not using protection.

    • I do use protection by the way lol. The way I commented may have suggested otherwise.

    • I agree with you, protection is very important, but there are some who do not like.

    • well... usually not a mistake... unless they are younger...

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  • Keeping the door open 😂😂

  • not enough foreplay, not lasting long, not making enough sex noises (especially as guys), not communicating, not using protection of some sort, not doing oral properly (both genders), yeah just in general not knowing how to fuck each other's brains out you know?

  • failure to pull out.

  • Certainly having underage sex is a HUGE mistake.

  • I don't think it's foreplay. It's being selfish about it

  • Not being married, lol

  • When I was younger... I'd always make the mistake of going too deep too quick. It's better to not go too deep too quick. A) it can hurt the girl. B) it's better to tease her and make her crave the deep feeling before letting her have it.

    Another common mistake would be lack of communication. Sex is just like any other activity. Relax and communication and it will be much better.

    The last thing I'll say is that most girls are worried about pleasing the guy. US guys would much rather you focus on pleasing yourself. Do what feels good for you, we can take care of everything else.

  • I agree with the foreplay. Not understanding what turns the other person.

  • To do it like a porn. Sex should be nice and enjoyable for both not just for one.

  • Ex use to grind her teeth when going down on me, said it was because I was too thick

  • One big one is when people think porn is real sex. Porn is fantasy, real sex is so much different. Too many don't understand that especially the inexperienced

  • When she uses her teeth! Uggggghhhhhhh!!!

    • ok i like this one.

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