How do you foreplay?

Been seeing a lot of foreplay questions and such so I thought I'd ask my own. What are your favorite things to do during foreplay? Do you like to switch it up? How do you transition from foreplay into doing the deed?

I'm interested in these answers so let's hear it!
How do you foreplay?


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  • For us, "foreplay" is pretty much this constant tension thing, that we have going on with each other. Basically, if I had to sum it up briefly, it's... me being an insubordinate little brat, and him putting me back in my proverbial place, so to speak.

    LOTS of it is just me challenging him with words. Like, the time I learned about how kids these days are (mis-) using the word "fuckboy"... yeah, I just took that and ran with it...

    My husband was outside a window, I was inside. Put mah mouth up there, narrowed my eyes, did that devastating bite-the-bottom-lip thing, and... "whatcha gonna do? Fuck boy."
    (then danced off into another room like a little girl)

    The "F" was like... old-school flapper girl, who'd just taken a long draw on an even longer cigarette. About to blow that shit right at a potential suitor. A challenge.
    Tongue just touching teeth... holding that, right there. Furrowing my brow, crinkling my lip with just the right amount of derision to get him going.

    I mean... just holding that letter "F" for a second or two, I could FEEL that sexual tension building inside me. (Hopefully I'm describing this well enough...)
    Just the "F" was already a complete dare.

    Double dare when I gave it to him again, right up in his personal space, this time with the "F" spitting in his face just a little bit. Fffffuck boy. Whatcha gna do.
    <3

    Kids were around, so, he'd just have to wait. Hahaha...

    Now, imagine that sort of thing going on for hours and hours, mb even a day or two (if busy weekend with kids). With me articulating almost every damn syllable like that, for maximum tease-effect.
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    On top of that, he almost always has me on some sort of probation, for being a bad girl. So, I probably haven't gotten mines, in a while -- which gives a whole new layer of intensity to this teasing thing. I mean, like, I need it so bad that I'm throbbing down there with every syllable I throw at him.

    By the time he finally has at me -- whether the kids are gone, or asleep, or whether he just drags me off into a closet somewhere -- he's kinda like all the good parts of "pissed off" and none of the bad ones... and I'm so hot and bothered that physical "foreplay" would just be an annoying encumbrance. Just hit it, boy.
    I'll have orgasms tearing me apart by the time he's halfway in.
    <3

    Not too long til we celebrate 15 years of marriage...

    • I was hoping you answered! You and your husband have like the most intense sex ever.

    • Hah, well, we are kinda obsessed. 💜

      But... yeah. Did I give a decent enough description, to where you could do the same things with yr face as you were reading it?
      Ffffff...
      LOL

      Hell yea though... I love throwing words full of S's and F's and L's at that man. The first two, for reasons already described, and the L's... well, there just something extra vampy about that tongue tho. haha

      Since we've also managed to sex up the whole wifey/marriage idea so much, I can also tease him relentlessly with that, too. Like, if I'm across the room from him and the kids aren't looking in my direction, I'll just oh-so-casually start biting THAT finger of my left hand... and of course mouthing some very, very dirty words. haha.

      Britney does this exactly the WRONG way:
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    • On those rare occasions when I don't have lipstick on, I'll make those middle 2 fingers disappear all the way up to the ring, haha. Oh it's fucking exquisite, the way he just rips me to little shreds with his eyes. Delayed gratification, boy! ::does little bratty dance in head::

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  • Hmm, for us, it tends to be a loooooot of kissing. Kissing is great :P I'll kiss his neck and ear a lot too because that's awesome for him, he'll do a little bit of that for me too but generally more spaced out, like from my cheek down to my chest. He'll touch or pull my hair a little which is an off-limits thing for me to do with him. Groping is good, he'll probably kiss my thighs too and sometimes give me a hickey there and then there's oral which is so so good. Foreplay is just knowing what gets your partner going, I guess, and for me it's anything up to penetration.

    • That makes sense. How long would you say it lasts?

    • That'd depend on how tired we are :P I guess it's probably around 30 minutes usually.

    • Oh ok.

  • For him, blow jobs.
    For me, I can get turned on enough just my making out and him touching my body or just giving him oral turns me on as well. Also going down on me. Sometimes choking with spanking too. Boob licking and sucking.
    Honestly anything turns me on. haha

    • Lol I see. Question (and if it comes off as creepy then you don't have to answer lol). Are your boobs really sensitive?

    • eh sometimes depending on how turned on I am lol

    • Oh ok.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Well all foreplay is great when I am with my women.. but something that turns me on instantly is to gently be stripped down by her to the undies I wear daily and then me undressing her to her sweet panties and bra.. then her and I taking turns spanking one another while laying across each others knee's.. once that foreplay has begun.

    To me it is very easy then to move to the love act as I am by this time fully hard and fully ready to go.. and it seems more and more to me that all my dates seem to know that this turns me on very quickly.. I do not know how they know that but they do seem too... anyways I love it and so does she.. all turns out great in the long run for us both.. and the love session after it has always been fantastic

    • Interesting.

  • It depends, I don't do it the same with every girl.

    Usually play with her hair, neck and boobs a lot. Also run my hands and fingers a lot all over her body especially on her butt and the inside of her thighs. Some dirty talks.

    Then, while touching her about, will slowly move myself to be between her legs on the pretext of making it easier to touch or kiss her, then lay on her and play with the under side of her ears while asking her what she thinks would happen next.

    Usually will put her in position, tap mine against hers' several times and put myself into position to start the deed.

    • Playing with her ears?

    • Yes, the underside of her ears, its actually a pressure point.

    • Ahh. Makes sense.

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  • It seems you are out of questions

    • Don't know what yore talking about?

    • You're*

    • Her butt is like perfect. And yeah, I'm a foreplay virgin soooo

    • "Foreplay virgin" Hahahaha. That's a new one. Why are the sexual gifs always black and white?

    • @Joc4Position because they're usually from tumblr and if you make them black and white you can make them last longer before looping while still being in the gif limits for tumblr.

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  • I start undressing... that usually does the trick lol

    • Lol you're husband's a lucky man!

    • 🙈😒😂😢 wish he agreed lol

    • Well he's an idiot if he doesn't!

  • Hahahaha did my question inspire this?

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    I don't think about it. I just go with the flow. Whatever pops up in my brain to do next I do it. Be it to caress here. Kiss there. Grab over there. Just whatever. I mean it can be anything. Sometimes I might get on top of the girl and do foreplay. Sometimes the girl might get on top of me and do foreplay. Lot of kissing, rubbing, grabbing and biting too.

    But yeah no real strategic plan. Though if I know the girl likes certain things I might do it, but again that's just because it pops up in my head. So I might be like in my mind "Oh yeah. I remember she likes this." Then I'll do it. If I want certain things done I'll say it, or I'll tell her to keep doing what she's doing.

    No rules. Just go with the floooow. Go with the flooooow.

    • Lol actually it did. So you're a good with the flow type of guy? Noted.

    • Yeah. "Noted"? Is that a good thing or a bad thing? XD

    • Lol. It's not a bad thing. Means that you can be versatile. Versatility is good.

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  • I kiss and bite the neck, palm the ass, suck on and bite the breasts, kiss the stomach, finger the pussy , lick the pussy!

    Whatever I feel like doing, I do it!

    • Lol well ok then

    • You're the one who asked! Hehe I just answered straight up with #NoBullshit 😘

    • Lol true.

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  • just unzip his pants and get straight into business

    • Lol straight to business huh?

    • you bet xD

  • Hands and kissing mainly. I like to kiss her all over her body eventually moving on to cunnilingus. I'll carry on doing that till I make her orgasm before moving on to 'the deed' then hopefully bring her to orgasm again and again. If she's not had enough I can't help but move back to foreplay, although it's probably post play by then!

    • Lol so you aim to please huh?

    • Yeah, most definitely! I love to please, I find it a massive turn on. I'd rather please than be pleased, though it pleases me to please if that's not too complicated!

    • Lol not complicated at all.

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  • Haha no clue probably something like this, this is a piece I wrote a while back I think the words in it are pretty self explanatory at least if I am passionate it'll be similar.

    allpoetry.com/.../12058469-Forbidden--by-ThePhoenix909-adult

    • That was... amazing. And so unexpected from you!

    • Hah really you think so? and o yeah?

    • Yesss. I enjoyed it. It's funny you shared that. I'm writing a scene for my book and it reminded me of it.

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    • Lmao aww

  • How do you grammar?
    It just comes naturally when you're in the moment. It can be just oral or oral, fingers, pretty much anything. And the transition just comes naturally once again.

    • What's wrong with my grammar?

    • "How do you foreplay?" Foreplay is a noun.

    • That was done purposely...

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  • foreplay is everything before sex.

  • Kissing, cuddling, kissing breasts, cunnilingus and penetration...

  • Running her hands all over my hands gets me turn on