Sex question: Whats the difference in fucking vs being fucked?

What is the difference between being fucked vs fucking someone? ie., You are a girl and being fucked would mean, you are laying there and the guy is on top of you thrusting into you in the missionary position. Contrarily, fucking someone would mean you are sitting on top of a guys dick and bouncing up and down in the cowgirl position. Is there a dominance vs submissive aspect in this?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • There is more of this in the mind than in reality.
    The best "take" would be that the fucker is the one doing the work, giving it to the other one or better put - the massager.
    Thus, either one can be the massager, fucker, "dominant" one in the mind.

    Now confuse the issue by saying the passive one is the dominant one, commanding the fucker to service him/her... now what?

  • Why are you asking what the difference is when you just explained it right there in the description?

    Dominance and submission is more of an attitude than an action. A submissive can still fuck (ride) a dom, and remain submissive.

  • You're examples seem spot on. Wouldn't being fucked mean being submissive, while dominance is given the trait of that person fucking?

Most Helpful Guys

  • Fucking goes beyond penetration. For example. If a woman rode your face, she would be 'fucking' you. Face-fucking as it's known. It's also known as face-humping. Same things really...
    Same thing if it's the other way round (male on female).

    Dom and sub are just roles each person plays.

  • I go by who's doing the work. If the guy is tied down and she's riding him.. she's fucking him, he's not fucking her.

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  • Dominant- submissive

  • fucking means you're doing the work, being fucked means you're taking it

  • to me the one who is doing all the work is fucking the other person and the person who is just laying there is the one getting fucked

  • Fucking is the act of intercourse. Being fucked is being in a hopeless situation. "I'm really being fucked by the IRS!

    • HAH! :D I like it !

  • I think it's just a matter of semantics. If two people are fucking, both are being fucked. Dom/sub doesn't have to enter into the equation.

  • I agree with your examples.

  • It's the dominant one that's fucking
    The sub is being fucked

  • I got fucked last night in League. God I hate Fiora, Riot please nerf.

  • I for one want to be always fucked

    • glad you shared such things ;)

    • @CaliSoccerFella as a woman, I am happy to be done

    • and where do you let the guy (s) finish?

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  • Both of them are still you having sex.. wtf did I just read lmao

  • If the girl is on top she fucked you.
    If you are on top, You fucked her.
    Anyway its same thing.

  • Haha I don't know I never thought of it like that. I am generally the fucker though then at least for a good deal of the session if not the whole session.