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Are All Real Men Pussy Whipped?

Men who are pussy whipped tend to be smarter and also happier in a relationship. They always listen to their wives/girlfriends, prioritize their needs, buy them gifts for Valentine's day, take them out to dinners, always remember the date of their wedding anniversary and their girlfriend's birthday. Basically, never take their girlfriends for granted and always appreciate her. But there are tons of men who aren't like that. They think all women are manipulative, superficial, unthankful and inherently evil beings with no redeeming qualities. They think women don't want them because they aren't pussy whipped.
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  • Your definition is so far off, you'll need a GPS

    a pussywhipped guy is a spineless insecure butt kissing sissy man who has to agree with everything his girl says, and give in to every demand, even if he loses his guy friends he doesn't care, because he is so insecure he fears disagreeing with her because this might upset the emperor, and he can't take the risk of being single because of his insecurities. this type of guy is simply a joke, the key to being in the pussywhipped hall of fame is simple things like, we watched football every Sunday at his house, but now his girlfriend goes there on Sunday so were not allowed over, but guess what he's doing, sitting there watching football. That's the problem with these people, likes what's the big deal if his guy friends watch football while she's there, i don't get it, but no, if she's coming over the fortrace goes up and no 1 may enter or leave. because he has to use all his focus seeing if he can stick his head all the way up her ass. it is hard to believe why any women dates these idiots, because to me it goes against human nature, but for the girl it makes them feel more important and special because everything goes her way. to me being a pussywhipped stooge is not about sex, its about relationships. the pussywhipped male is the most insecure on the planet, and its the fear of not being in a relationship which makes this putz feel like he's a loser with no life, so he has to protect the relationship at all cost, and this means putting the girl before everyone or anyone, it really doesn't have anything to do with sex. these guys will also date just about anyone, and will also be in long term relationships with these girls. I like to call them bad at relationships, because he will go from one to other with no real reason why he's dating the girl, he knows he has to find a relationship, that's the key for him, sadly these people never find true love, because if u consider every girl on the planet relationship material, the how do you know who u really like.

    • Pretty much nails it. And yr right that it's not about sex, because it's not as though these guys are exactly getting tons of sex in their relationships anyway... smh

    • Sex is good, maybe your the ass whole and his girl convinced him not to be around you. Maybe he rather have sex average of 20 times/ year but not every month instead of being around a ass whole guy. you every think of not being mean?

    • You are so wrong it's pathetic. You're basing your ideology on online BS that's written by males that never had sex to begin with. You're also basing your ideology on False Narrative driven by me who are weak mentally and pronounce themselves as masculine while lying about themselves. I've seen almost verbatim the same language you use online to describe a false narrative against Fellow Men who are submissive. Submissive also mean humble and meek something little boys like you will never be. You're so wrapped up in your own screwed up twisted ideology of how relationship go that you propagate deception that leads other males astray to a Falsehood form being Real Men. Toxic Masculinity is a REAL THING. That's traits that are very bad in any human. The negative traits is what gets boys in trouble with girlfriends and men in trouble with their wives. One leads to splitting up and the other leads to divorce. Your FIRST priority in a relationship is the one you love, when you are married and have children those children come paramount and your wife second. "THE BOYS" need to grow up too and they ought to be dead last in life, if they refuse to understand and get it through their thick headed skulls then they ought to suffer a break off of friendship. Between work, sleep, home life, spending time with your girlfriend or wife, and if any children... Buddy you ain't got time for no one else plus you might as well label and declare your self a selfish cheater because your robbing time away from your girlfriend or wife and giving that time up like a Hooker to "THE BOYS". I would start questioning your sexuality because spending WAY TOO MUCH time with "THE BOYS" in borderline gay (Not to demean or offend anyone that is). BE A REAL MAN, not "ONE OF THE 'BOYS' ".

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  • I think you see their relationships as healthy because the woman is getting everything SHE wants, and your a woman. But nowhere in there did you talk about that man's needs at all. Or what she is doing for him in this relationship. It's all about HER needs, never his. Those pussy whipped men aren't really happy, they are just afraid that if they stick up for what THEY want, their perfect wives will leave them. The woman you describe is taking advantage of the man, not the other way around. Not saying it's always like that, but your portrayal is severely one sided. I certainly don't think they are evil or worse/less than men.

    I healthy relationship is one where either neither is "whipped" or both are. If it's one sided, then it's exactly that. 9/10 of those men that you describe hate the things they have to do so stay in the good graces of their wives, they just dare not say it around them. But it comes out to us, their friends behind closed doors. I would say the same about a woman who is "dick whipped". It's not healthy if your the only one doing it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I hate the term pussy whipped, especially when it's said about a guy who's literally just doing something so basic. My boyfriend of three years and I have a long-term relationship and we finally got to see each other one night before I left for March Break to Dominican because he was in town for a hockey tournament. I watched his game and we had a few beers with his friends at the arena, but we had to leave eventually because I had a flight to catch in the morning and we wanted some alone time. His friends literally called him pussy whipped even though he was the one who wanted to go home. So annoying.

  • Yes although I don't agree with the term pussy-whipped. They know how to treat women.

    • Her definition is horribly off A pussy-whipped man is someone who lets his girlfriend control everything, goes along with everything she says, regardless of whether or not he likes it He's so insecure that he's fearful of upsetting her If he can NEVER go out with the guys because she doesn't want him to, he's whipped If he quits his job at her request, he's whipped If he gives up his hobbies at her request, he's whipped If he constantly showers her with gifts, he's whipped If he gets her everything she wants and changes everything for her, he's whipped

    • Takes balls to be pussy whipped. I hate men. I don't have any guy friends anymore just a ton of women

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  • No, real men are not "pussy whipped".
    Just because a man does things for his woman, and might be thoughtfull of her dosent mean he's pussy whipped.
    I think some men just dont like entitled self proclaimed princesses whom use, or try to use pussy as a way to get him to do stuff... May as well be a prostitute.

    • I love princesses. All women want to be a princess

    • I love prostitutes

  • Troll more coherently next time.

  • Some men are raised to treat their women with respect, admiration, even reverence. For that, they get very appreciative, sexy, hot wenches. I have long told younger men that the way to get everything you've ever dreamed of sexually is to make sure you take care of her first. That if you do and she cums and cums and cums, she'll do just about ANYTHING you want.

    • I love being pussy whipped but was not raised this way at all. I have a ton of sex. Men are stupid

  • You've listed two extremes here. My husband is very much a real man but no he isn't "whipped". He is just respectful, appreciative, and loving, as I am with him. We try to treat each other well. That's not whipped, that's just two adults having a healthy adult relationship.

  • It's not about being "pussy-whipped" it's called being respectful and kind if you put a demeaning-sounding label on being a decent person no man will want to be a decent person so don't. Treating your SO well is not being "whipped" it's being in a healthy relationship.

    • It goes both ways remember :]

    • guys who celebrate valentines day are also considered pussy whipped.

    • Obviously it goes both ways or someone is being used, and if the people around you consider celebrating valentines day being "whipped" then you are hanging out with assholes. Valentines day is just as much for the guy as it is for the girl my boyfriend and I plan it together so it includes things we both want to do. Like a movie we both want to see, a restaurant we both want to eat at and we can always compromise. We usually split the bill too so it's something we are both giving each other. This year he wanted sushi which isn't my favourite so I picked the movie which was DeadPool when he'd usually pick something more romantic. But I found things I wanted to eat at the sushi place and it was yummy and he ended up loving DeadPool even though he's not as into superheroes and Marvel stuff as I am. Compromising helps you discover things that you usually wouldn't try and that's one of the great things about relationships because you get to broaden your horizons and grow as a person!

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  • How about a woman having a guy pussy whipped without even letting him have any pussy? I've had numerous women keep me in that state for a long period of time.

  • Nice guys are pussy whipped ( actually blinded by love) until that first girlfriend breaks his heart. Then he can see her for who she really is. He then starts to notice how she always expects him to give/do things for her to get any affection.

  • Is it possible that the men who do not take ladies for granted are there more for her heart and not just what's between her legs?

    I would think the guys who are more cynical are the ones who are going around and getting just that one thing from women.

    The nice guys are the ones who want to take care of his woman and make her happy, so she will stick around and give her more than just the "cookie". But to give her heart to him as well.

  • So never taking a girlfriend for granted = being her slave?

    Jesus fucking Christ what a world do we live in now...

  • I don't know but i don't really care either, it doesn't apply to me.

  • Ok, personally I've found more and more women to be more egotistical and self absorbed. Love and respect goes both ways.
    I gave up on women years ago, I've decided to live a single life. A life without women.

    Now I'm a nice guy, very down to earth and I would never forget important dates, but I've yet to find a woman worth my time and effort. Women these days have unrealistic expectations. Too much ego, too self absorbed, to bitchy, too spiteful. And so not worth it.

    I know not all women are like that but many are. And they seem to be growing in number. So more men opt out of dating altogether.
    A lot of real men have chosen to stay single.

    • Sucks to be you, pussy is good. I have never saved more money being pussy whipped but wow motivation.

  • Wouldn't necessarily say "pussy-whipped", just more likely "respectful".

  • Are all anonymous Askers trolls?

  • Maybe men think women are manipulative because we do things like try and convince them it's good to be pussy whipped.

    • Lol, really nailed it on that one.

    • Sex is good

  • And exactly is that being pussy whipped? I call that just paying attention to the calendar and caring for their partners in other words basic common sense. Some of us are just simply raised to treat women right.

  • They also have no backbone. Try that shit on me and I say good bye. If you want to be respected, you gotta respect me as well.

  • Uhhmm.

  • What a lead of gynocentric twaddle.
    The real men are those who do not need a woman.
    Have you heard of Newton, Tesla, Da Vinci, Plato, Kafka, Schopenhauer, Beethoven, Hubbert, the Wright brothers?
    They did not have women in their lives, which allowed them to achieve so much more than the blue-pill simps.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fXbpqLzacZY&list=PLwwfs0zUhl7Qc0OJn22BearDO5Jjgsbok

  • That's literally just like saying that any women who aren't submissive to men aren't real women. that's pretty damn sexist if you ask me.

  • With the years I understand women better, see myself doing those things.
    But damn, fuck it, I'll just keep being a jerk then

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