Really want to have sex with another guy even though I'm already in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Please don't comment until you've read the background information... So, my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 3.5 years. We are long distance, and only see each other about twice a year for a month or two. Our sex life is wonderful, even when we're not together (with the help of skype). I was never unhappy with our sexual relationship through Skype and am not now. However, my boyfriend recently told me about how he thinks having a MFM threesome would be hot and he loves the thought of watching me get fucked by another guy. Since then, I can't stop thinking about it. I really want to have sex with another guy. At my new job, I keep seeing this one guy I haven't talked to yet, but I think he's super attractive and I've already thought about fucking him quite a few times. My boyfriend says he wants to keep the threesome/me having sex with someone else a fantasy for now, but this is driving me crazy. I think about it a lot, what should I do? Any advice?

[SexyStudent]

Long-distance relationships like the one you describe are total BS. That's why you're having so much trouble. Not in a real relationship you only think you are. That's why everybody's thoughts run wild. Neither of you are experiencing the real thing. This is all about escape

[Asker]

Lol no its not we're engaged and have plans to move in together permanently... we spent about 8 months living together before long distance so we know who we are and the seriousness of our relationship. just because you couldn't handle it doesn't mean other people can't.

[SexyStudent]

If you so okay with all of this why you having trouble. Why are you even asking. You flip-flop according to the answers you receive. I'm gone

[MarieLovesIt]

Are you in a committed relationship? Thats the only question. If not, then do what you please. If you are, then either break up with your man or you don't cheat. Don't make it more complicated than it is. There is right and there is wrong. You know the difference.

[rgb008]

Don't suggest someone you work with if you choose to do a threesome.
1. It'll put a bad idea in your BFs head about someone who you see every day. You can see where that's going...
2. If you ask him and he says no, work is gonna be really awkward lmao

[AustinMan]

How would your guy react if you told him you'd found the perfect prospect for the threesome and that you need to audition him for his role. This will ensure that when the three of you are together, the sex will be thermonuclear. Then go fuck him blind.

[dogbert444]

This is the first step to losing your boyfriend. Threesomes should stay as a fantasy. Enact them for real and jealousy can rear its ugly head. Your boyfriend will start wondering, "Is he better than me?"

[ilovesexyfeet]

Couldn't have said it better

[Asker]

How? He brought it up, and I would never actually do it without his consent. We're planning on getting married, our love life is amazing.

[ilovesexyfeet]

Then don't spoil it by doing this. It will always be there in the background and then he'll want FFM 3sum in return. Hey I'm sure it works for some people but I can't see how 2 people that are in love could really want to see there other half get nailed by another bloke, its just not right.

[Asker]

@ilovesexyfeet I would be willing to try an FFM threesome as well, we already talked about it. We're a kinky couple lol.

[ilovesexyfeet]

Well I hope it works out, it does for some but others epic fail when messing around like that. Either way it will be fun I'm sure hehe. Nothing wrong with kinky :-P

[OmaiBakaDayo]

if he was insecure. but an inseucre guy isn't going to talk about a MMF threesome. thats the evil type of threesome. a guy who would go for that wouldn't be worried about the other guy. if he could get naked and rub balls with another dude while letting the other dude fuck his chick then i really dont think he's that type of guy who would go "is he better?" a guy who directly says "i want to watch you get fucked by someone else" isn't going to be insecure like that.

[SüßeJäger]

I can't say exactly what to do but I know exactly what not to do, cheat. Either be honest or break up with him. Honesty is always the best policy and it minimizes hurting someone else (although still can hurt). If you really value your relationship with your boyfriend, don't cheat. If you do, the best case scenario, your relationship will change forever and worst case scenario, your relationship will cease to be.

[abundantlyrich]

It sounds like he isn't advocating for an open relationship.. But your loins are already itching for another penis.

[DarkManX]

go fuck with the all co-workers in your job and be satisfied, it looks like one man isn't enough for you.

[AdamThomas]

Be honest with him. He sounds open and it was his idea in the first place wasn't it? Just tell him what you're thinking, maybe not about the guy at work but about wanting sex, but if he says no and wants to wait a while longer respect the decision, otherwise end the relationship. The important thing is that you don't cheat behind his back.

[bubbakong2006]

Well since he brought up the idea to you and got you worked up I would fuck him and that way when you and your boyfriend do it you will be used to fucking another cock and you can turn him on talking like you did a fantasy but really you got fucked and your pussy filled with cum by another guy like he wants I'm sure if you give details but dont tell him you did it he will get horny enough to go through with the real thing and then you get to fuck another guy again but him watching or joining in and I guarantee you he will be turned on and like it I've done it and it had me harder than ever to see my girlfriend getting fucked and when the guy cummed in her pussy I put my cock in her creampie and fucking loved it i came hard and deep in that cum filled pussy

[meatballs21]

You have three choices.

-Ask your boyfriend for permission to fuck other guys (and explain why, the distance means your sexual needs aren't being met). ABIDE BY HIS DECISION, if he doesn't agree, don't do it.
-Break with your boyfriend so you can fuck as many guys as you like.
-Don't do anything - stay with your boyfriend.

[Artist10]

What is it u like about the guy at work?

Sometimes trying out things like this can affect a relationship negatively, such as a threesome. Is sex u want, or another man or actually the 3some?

[johnmsk]

Do it. I mean it. If you really want something no need to torture yourself by not getting it, if u can have it.
Also, tell your boyfriend about the idea of open relationship. This is good way of keeping love with your partner in long distance relationship while you both are open to non-comittal sex to fulfil yr that desire

[Nomad69]

Open relationship maybe? you can fuck other people on occasions, I see this as dangerous though cause you can catch feelings and if you manage not to the other person still might. You each bring somebody home and fuck in front of the camera

[Asker]

We were thinking that, but the real problem is finding someone who is willing to do it. We want to like the people we're fucking and not have some random people off the internet. Finding decent people who would be willing to be filmed/on Skype while having sex is difficult.

[Nomad69]

Close single friends, bars, zoig. com

[Byakuyarko]

dump your boyfriend.
Find someone you want to bang.
Get on with your life.
Simple

[pavlove]

ask your boyfriend what if you videotape it and send it to him?

[lopflodin]

He sounds gay to me

[Asker]

Haha he said that he wouldn't want any interaction with the guy. I've asked and he says that he thinks I'm so hot, that I should get to fuck whenever I want.

[lopflodin]

Those sound like excuses to hide it to me

[Luck4Luck]

I think this only up to u because u who is feeling not us
But why it be is a way !!!

[Decentguy]

if you really care about your boyfriend and if you really love him then stop thinking about it, or if you can't then convince your boyfriend about the threesome with that guy.

[abramsdriver25]

I admit this is a huge fantasy of mine as well. I've done a MFM threesome once before and it was a lot of fun. I'd do it again given the chance. The only way to make it work though is with trust. Openness and honesty have to be apart of it, otherwise jealousy and resentment will spawn. Do not go behind your boyfriends back and sleep with this guy. Not unless he gives you permission to do so. I would try talking to your boyfriend about it directly. Tell him about the other guy and that you really want to try it. See how it goes. I hope this helps.

[IceEverest]

Show the office guy to your boyfriend... see what he says.

[skeptic007]

lol lmao women

[Lolhaha111]

Please dont. Just dont do it. Never do it.

[Asker]

I would never do it behind his back.

[xxcchhllaauu]

I hope if you do hook up with that other guy he has a small penis

[masterkamasutra]

If you both are comfortable, you should have a threesome, but about the work place guy, you should not think like that, if it goes longer, you get attracted towards him to the limit where you can cheat your boyfriend for get fucked by him. beware.