Why would my boyfriend ask me if I have hair around my asshole? Do you guys get grossed out by it?

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Thankfully, my boyfriend studies medicine, so i don't worry much about telling him i got diarrhea for exaple, he told me i shouldn't be embarassed to tell him that. But yesterday, he asked me if i had hair around my asshole, and i lied to him, told him i didn't but i got near my asshole, but i actually do, was it wrong to lie to him? i was so embarassed, i could dare to tell him that, i get laser hair removal there and other parts of my body. What if i told him the truth? like shit, guys what do think about all this shit? And girls, do you have hair around your asshole? would you dare to tell your boyfriend that you do have it?

MichelleJustAsking · Accepted Answer

Everyone has hair around their asshole unless they laser it, wax or shave.

He was asking you if you had it.. not because he thinks you don't, but he's curious if you "take care of getting rid of it" or not. So if you said you didn't have hair there, he assumes you're waxing, shaving or lasering it.

I'm surprised you're 20 and you honestly didn't know everyone has hair there. Public schools are clearly failing.

StarlightSwift · Accepted Answer

Just tell him thee truth. It is completely normal. Maybe it is turn off but he should love you the way you are

NJ_Casanova · Accepted Answer

? He would know better than you, LOL Unless your a contortionist;-p Everyone has some and he's probably like a Chimpanzee;-P

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

Most people have hair around the anus. Laser or waxing get rid of it temporarily. Is he into anal sex?

AceOtana1 · Answer

As a guy, a woman having hair around her butt hole wouldn't put me off in any way. I'd lust for it regardless. You shouldn't be concerned about it. :)