Is it emasculating when a guy wants to be pegged?

Since today I had this conversation in the comments of another question I wonder what you folks think. For those who don't know what pegging is: It's when the girl penetrates the guy usually with a strap-on-dildo. So do you think it is emasculating or can you see a guy who desires that still as a full-on man?
Yes, it is. I couldn't see a man as a man.
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No, it isn't. It's just wanting pleasure.
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Not sure.
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Somewhere inbetween
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  • this sort-of presupposes a common standard of 'manliness'. However, I'm not personally aware of such a standard. A man is a man. His actions, sexual preferences, or thrill-seeking antics do not change that.

    Though, I guess I can kind of see how it could be perceived as emasculating. But it's the same sort of direction as a girl sucking on a guys nipples - as typically, that goes the other way gender-wise. So, really, any 'deeper meaning' or influence over status is up to the interpretation of the participants.

    In short, you'd have to ask a guy who has been pegged if they felt emasculated. Or, go through it yourself.

  • So you mean such guy wants a woman to fuck him in his butt? Lololololol that's gayer than being gay itself. People are indeed weird. In my opinion, such guy wouldn't just lose his masculinity, but his humanity as a whole.

Most Helpful Girls

  • people with their stupid stereotype -_-
    I don t understand how someone can say no to smthng before even trying it.
    massaging the prostate can give the guy a great orgasm, even let him orgasm several times in a row.
    divinepollination.com/.../

    if I find women attractive, does this make me less of a woman myself?
    no... I have a vagina so I am still a woman...

    • Prostate stimulation can even cause an orgasm with no penis contact at all

  • I mean if he wants me to wear a strap on your no longer a man in my eyes like to me you might as well wear a wig and call yourself Caitlyn. If you want a vibrator or hand held dildo I'm more comfortable with that, I'm not trans , I'm not a man , I don't have a dick and I won't be pretending to do so.

  • No I don't think it's emasculating, men have a prostate in their butt so it's not really a surprise nor do I think it's a big deal if he wants to pleasure the area. I have to agree with normalice, a man is still a man regardless of his actions.

    • prostate is not in the butt its below the bladder directly connected to the urethra.

    • @somebodysaycheese You're right, that was my bad. Although, it is stimulated via anus.

    • And sounding and deeply massaging the akin between the anus and balls

  • It's a personal turn off. Receiving is the female role traditionally.. cuz duh. So it comes off as a guy wanting to be treated the way a woman generally is.

    To each his or her own. But when I'm with a guy I like it old school

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  • I didn't vote but since prostate massage is so extremely erotic, I just don't se it that way. Now if she tries to dominate, she's gonna get a hot hard bare bottom spanking later.

  • I have never been pegged, nor have I any interest in testing it. However, the mans prostate is located up his ass, so it supposedly is a very pleasurable thing for guys.

  • Yeah, that's disgusting. The fuck is wrong with people these days?

  • if i got fucked in the ass if think id feel less manly not sure tho never been fucked in the ass

  • I ment to say that is a huge turn on

    • It's awesome for a girl to use a strap-on and give me an orgasm in chastity

  • Inserting a penis into another person is a male thing. By asking the woman to penetrate you with a plastic penis you're swapping roles with her, you're the female and she's the male. Of course many will see it as emasculating.

  • What you do in your bedroom has nothing to with your sexuality... and why give a shit about what people think?

    Man = male... plain and simple. Getting pegged, being straight or being gay has nothing to do with it.

  • I don't think it is.