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Best answer when a girl asks my penis size?

First, let me tell you I'm not asking this for no reason. I am tall (1 m 97, so 6'5'') and some women take it as a sign I might have a big one, and some have asked me directly the size of my penis. I've had two women grab my crotch too (in parties). My question: my penis measures 17.5 cm in length (6.9''). Does it not sound a bit ridicule to state the half centimeter? Like I find it too short, which is not the case. And if it does, to give the most truthful answer, should I round it up to 18 cm (7.1'') or down to 17 cm (6.7'')? I asked my two best female friends, one went with 17 cm, and the other said 18 cm. The first prefers 19 cm to 20 cm and the other 17 cm to 19 cm. Girls, you are welcome to state your preference too! If you have any experience with asking guys their size, I'm also interested to hear about it (did he answer, did he lie, etc). For those who think I might be looking for reassurance, this is not the case. My girth is really big: 16.5 cm (6.5''), which many women like a lot. Technical detail: the length is measured on top, from the pubic bone (aka "bone pressed").
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A short majority of men tell me to say "17 cm". A vast majority of women tell me to say the exact number, "17.5 cm". I'm wondering if they want total accuracy, or if they like the idea of a guy adding a half centimeter to his penis size. (Yes, girls, I know you enjoy schadenfreude sometimes, so do we!). I'm coming to grips that I should say 17 cm and forget the 18 cm. In the end, I find it liberating to be confident enough to tell a woman my size (if she asks, of course).
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Things changed! Now a majority of men tell me to answer 17 cm. Half of girls tell me to give the exact measurement, but more girls tell me to say 18 cm than 17 cm. This is interesting. I hope I can get a few more female votes before the question is closed. Thanks to all!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well, I would say that that is indeed kinda ridicule. I mean, saying 17.5 , counting every milimeter shows a little bit of insecurity. If I was in your situation I would say 17 because, even though 5 milimeters is not much, I think it's better for the girl to be surprised because you are half centimeter bigger than half centimeter smaller. But, again, half centimeter is not much so she won't notice, unless she measure it.

    • Thank you for this answer. The thing is, indeed it's not much, but saying 18 cm sounds better than 17 cm. But in the end, I just want to answer the way girls prefer to hear it. I like the idea of a woman measuring it.

    • I just think that if, for any reason, a girl decides to measure you, it's better if she finds out that you are slightly bigger than slightly smaller.

    • Oh that's very true, indeed. Good point, thank you.

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  • Wow. Wtf. What kind of skanks do you hang with?
    When they ask just say "well bend over and let's find out."

    • Most women I know would not ask the question to me... But maybe they'd do it to a total stranger in a party. It doesn't make them skanks in my book.

Most Helpful Girls

  • LOL. No girl ever has measured a guy's penis to half centimeters and developed any kind of preference based on a centimeter let alone half a centimeter.

    If some "girl" asks you how big your penis is , they're a guy.

    At 38 you should be past worrying about your penis. Please go see therapist and work toward a better, freer, and happier you.

    • I thought no girl would, until I asked a few good female friends around me, in their thirties. They don't have a fetish with it, but they're all pretty specific regarding their preferences. One even told me "every centimeter counts!". LOL! And no, she's never been a man, I know her from school so I know. But I know other women, like you, might see things otherwise. It's fine, but please do not say "no girl"... Regarding me worrying, I think you didn't get the playful intent of my question. It's actually so good, as a grown man, not to be worried about it, and to be able to discuss it freely with women. I guess most guys with small ones don't ever reach this stage, unfortunately.

    • Please don't insult me by lying to me. It tends to really annoy me.

    • Well, my reaction to your first answer was: "she's not believing I'm truthful". I didn't say it, because I didn't want to heat things up. Now you're talking about me lying to you and insulting you... Very constructive indeed. Yes I am telling the truth, one hundred percent.

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  • I say round down that way it's an awesome surprise or don't round at all. Rounding up can have negative outcome if the girl is good with measurements.

    • Thank you for this answer. It makes sense to me. I can see the negative outcome, especially since with my big girth it looks shorter than it is. I've had two women say it was average in length, even though when measured properly, it is clearly above average.

    • May I ask what is your preferred size, if any? Or a minimum?

    • I would say a minimum of 4.2 maybe? Only because if my paddle brush handle can get me off I have no doubt in my mind that an actual dick can do the same and better.

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  • go with the real size, no need to lie

    no girl is going to measure a half centimeter to know if you were saying the truth or not tho

    • You know what gave me this fantasy of being measured? A good friend of mine told me when discussing this that she had measured most of the men she was with long term. Except one, because she "would have been ashamed to measure such a small thing". Of course she's an exception, but now I find the idea sexy. If the girl I'm with doesn't want to measure, it's okay too though. So you're saying that no girl is going to measure a half centimeter, yet you're telling me I should mention the half centimeter in my answer. Is that right? So you do think the half centimeter is important, somehow (if it should be mentioned at all)? Thank you for answering my question!

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  • I've never known a woman who asked this. Who asks this question?
    I'll tell you who - men.

    • I swear I have been asked. The last one, a Thaï woman in Switzerland (where I live), on our first date in a restaurant. "So, tell me, how many centimeters?" with a smile on her face. It's not often though, but I think it's because I'm really tall.

  • I never asked anyone for their size wth?
    And tbh I don't get the point of your question description..

    • What is it that you do not understand? Maybe I can clarify. Did you vote 17.5 cm? Thank you for answering!

    • I didn't vote at all because I think that's all too big 😅 And I just didn't get the point of the whole description but nevermind :P

    • The point is to know what is the most truthful answer I can give. Some women have asked me directly the size of my penis, and I want to hear from women, what is the best answer to give.

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  • I have never in my life asked a guy what the size of his penis is.

    • I can believe you. You can still answer the question, though, what should I answer? As I said I do get asked sometimes. You didn't ask because you don't care, or because you didn't dare?

    • I wouldn't ask because it wouldn't be pertinent to me liking him or not and it seems a pretty trashy question to ask. If a girl asks you she probably wants sex so just tell her "come back to my place with your ruler and you can find out"

    • That's a good answer, I think many girls would agree with you. Many men will take offense if you ask them their size, so yes it is a bit "trashy" as you say. Some women in their thirties told me that their first well used big penis was an eye opener, that they discovered a much more intense vaginal pleasure. Maybe you haven't experienced that? (And of course many women don't orgasm from penetration alone, so that's not for everyone). I like "come back to my place with your ruler"! Just one detail, you need a ruler to measure length, yes. But you also need a tape measure to measure girth, which is even more important. These women are indeed looking for sex, no doubt. But when a good looking one asks, I can't help flirting with her a bit. It's great for a man to attract someone with such a minimal effort! But generally the women who ask aren't the most interesting ones (according to me).

  • It's big enough!

    • Thank you, it's always nice to hear this from a woman ;-) . What is your answer to my question, though? What did you vote?

    • That was my answer. When a girl asks you how big you are, reply with 'big enough' and leave it at that!. keep some mystery about yourself! 😉

    • Oh, okay. I'll certainly do this if there are people I know around. But I've been asked when going out, and it generally leads to a funny discussion. Thank you for your answer!

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  • You're over thinking this way too much bro. It's not that big of a deal. No pun intended.

    • Over thinking it for sure! But because I find it fun, that's all ;-) . I fully agree, it's not that big of a deal. Well, actually my girth prevents me from doing quickies pretty much. And anal with most women. So actually to me it matters some. But we men tend to over think it, I see your point.

  • Best to be honest if your even going to answer it. Most guys would just say "it's big enough" or "I don't know you tell me" and see if she want too check for herself;-)

  • You can ask her what her waist size is.

  • Tell her she'll have to investigate the matter for herself.

  • I've never asked a guy that before.

    • I understand, not every woman would. But you can still answer: what is the best answer, the most correct one according to you? By the way, how much do you care about penis size? Every woman is different.

    • I'd just tell her the truth. Size isn't that important really.

    • Thank you. And you're right, there is so much more in a relationship. It would be sad otherwise.

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  • Wow it's big

    • Hi, thank you, I take it as a nice compliment (unless you'd be afraid!). I guess it depends on experiences, like I said a friend told me she likes 1 or 2 cm more in length. When you say big, are you referring to length, girth, or both? What is the biggest you've had? And maybe how many have you tried if you don't mind me asking? Oh, and, did you vote? If so what did you choose? Thank you so much to have answered ;-) !

    • I'm still a virgin I've seen a few

    • Hey you're my first follower (I'm new here), so THANK YOU :-) ! It's a nice period of life that you're going through, enjoy it, including by looking at a few... Any idea how big they were? I'm just curious now.

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  • 7 inch or move China asap

  • I'd flat out tell her it's too personal to ask me that.

    • Sure. I was like this before I understood that I have a big girth. Now I find it fun to talk about it. But I guess, if you're average or less, you wouldn't want to. I understand, before I was 25 yo I had no idea I had a big one. If it's not indiscreet, may i ask you what size you have (length but also girth, which is more important)?

  • Do girls really ask not sure

    • Yes, it doesn't happen often, but I've been asked many times, in different circumstances. Sometimes out of nowhere! I assure you. Those who ask out of nowhere are rarely my type tough. But I find it fun to answer (I only say it when asked though).

  • Dude ya might be like nearly 1 foot taller than me... but I'm slightly taller down there... hehe...

    So it's bullshit when people say dick size depends on height...

    • Actually height does not predict penis size, you're right. Scientific studies have found a "weak correlation" between the two, which means taller people tend to have bigger ones on average, with lots and lots of exceptions. According to scientific research there is no reliable way of predicting a man's size. This doesn't prevent some women from trying... And then asking the guy his size to see if they guessed right! When you say taller down there, do you mean longer? A good way to compare both length and girth is to compare the volume of the two erect penises. This indicates how filling the penis is.

    • Longer... grith's like 5" I think?

    • Hey, I missed your answer. 5'' girth is average I think (but I didn't check right now). I have 6.5'' which is really big and I've had good feedback about that. At the same time, with my size, I can reach the A spot, or cul-de-sac. And my girth means I'm always stimulating the G spot. So I'm really happy with my size, to be honest. So how long are you, then? ;-)

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  • Just tell them that it's bigger than your dad's dick.

    • I mean bigger than THEIR dad's dick.

    • Funny! But then I might be wrong on that.

  • what kind of trash level women are you hanging around with? dude you should up the level of people you hang around with... .
    oh and grabbing your genitals out of the blue is A grade whore sexual harassment.

    • as for the 18-20 cm "ladies" (they seem to be far from it), they'll have a hard time finding a man... .

    • Ahaha. Last time a woman grabbed me, it was three weeks ago in Thailand. A black woman. It was during the Full Moon Party, on the Ko Pha Ngan island. It's a rather big electronic music party on the beach. She did not interest me at all, but as I said above, I find it rather funny, personally.

    • It's a bit difficult to find for her, but that's her ideal size. She can do with less, but not below 14 or 15 cm. And she has had a few men who had her perfect size, and she met them in real life. The internet makes this search easier for size queens like her, though. And she's a very nice and intelligent person.

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