Did you have to masturbate at a friend's house?

[TheBootyChest]

I have to stay at a friend's house for a few days while I'm visiting. I usually have to masturbate before I go to sleep at night. Not sure how to handle this situation. Have you ever done this? What have you done to prepare for something like this? Did you get caught? Would it make any difference if your friend was of the opposite sex? What are some other suggestions while I'm there?

[Anonymous]

I have never felt the need to do it. I mean, how can you even get into the mood while you're at your friend's place?
I don't even understand that.
... There are times I feel happy about having a low sex drive.

[Anonymous]

Just do it in the bathroom.
Yeah I have done it at friends house of both genders... even at a boyfriends house... always in the bathroom & always to sleep.

[TheBootyChest]

Was there a specific reason why you weren't able to do it in your "bed"? If I may ask... Why were you masturbating at your boyfriends house instead of having sex?

[Fortheholidays]

"even at a boyfriends house"? I thought that would be the most comfortable place to do this haha

[TheBootyChest]

@Fortheholidays Are masturbating there cause he isn't home? Are you doing it for his viewing pleasure?

[Opinion Owner]

We are married now but in the begining for a long time I couldn't get there during sex. We'd have sex, I'd wait for him to go to sleep then sneak to the bathroom and take care of myself. Penetration doesn't get me there... neither does oral or being fingered. I learned how to grind him just right so that I get enough clitoral stimulation during sex and he still gets his but it took awhile for me to learn how to do it.

[TheBootyChest]

That is not fun for you I bet. Would you think to have done it in bed with him there while you sleep? I would love to see my girl masturbate yourself for a bit, then me do it to her, and then move on to me and her having sex that way she will have a few orgasms, before I finish. Do you think it's hard for him to get you off cause of all the times you have gotten yourself off? I am that way right now.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I definitely think that may be some of my issue. I fingered myself for him but that was for him... does absolutely nothing for me. The way I masterbate is not sexy and there is no way he can do it for me. I grind the floor fully dressed... it needs to be the right angle, speed and the right amount of pressure for me to get there but it takes me like 2minutes to get here then I can catch multiples... it's amazing. Like I said, I figured out how to do it during sex... I just need to be on top. I can get there when I give head too... from just doing kegels while I give head.

[TheBootyChest]

You got me interested in this who grinding the floor thing now. How does the kegels stuff work? I love the way you think and talk about this stuff you sound like a pretty knowledgeable person.

[Opinion Owner]

Kegels are exercises woman can do for their down stairs area... to strengthen and tighten. When I do them when I am giving head, I can get there and it's pretty wonderful... so it does a little something for us both, they are also very helpful during sex, drives my husbands nuts and gets him to the point that he gets multiple O's and then he usually falls when he first stands up-lol.

[TheBootyChest]

Have you guys doing other things to spice things up? like roleplay or toys?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh yes. Ever tried Gor? That's fun. I've known him my whole life so we role plays getting together at different ages and what that would have been like. We've played with food, candle wax, lots of public sex (cemetery, pool hopping, on my porch, ocean, ally ways), anal (which was way more me then him but he got into it), the bound and gag (took turns). We generally do 2-4 positions a sessions but I HAVE to be on top at least one, but wouldn't mind if it's every. My sex drive is a bit higher then his but he works with me. Always humors me.

[TheBootyChest]

Would I be overstepping my bound to ask you to message me and tell me about Gor?

[Lys_Dis]

Yes I have I usually just go to the bathroom and finish myself off. The gender does not matter unless I'm sleeping with that person I'd use the bathroom.

[TheBootyChest]

What would happen if you are at someone's house that you are sleeping with?

[Lys_Dis]

Then I'd just get intimate with them

[Benk111]

Yes I don't think I was caught but someone walked in the room right after I finished and zipped up. So they might have pretended not to notice but I think I was clear.

[TheBootyChest]

Thank you for sharing that. Whose place were you at?

[Benk111]

I a friend I know, I was spending the night at his home.

[TheBootyChest]

Would you have done things differently if it was a woman's place?

[Benk111]

No I would not, I was really horny and hadn't masterbated for a while so I was resistoess to jerk off.

[wellLoved]

Do it in the shower.

[TheBootyChest]

Have you ever come close to needing to do it at a friends house?

[wellLoved]

Yep. I do it in the shower.

[TheBootyChest]

Is it so you aren't caught or cause it's cleaner in there?

[wellLoved]

It's easier. I don't worry about getting caught and it's easy to hide.

[TheBootyChest]

what should someone do if it's in the middle of the night and you can't run the shower?

[wellLoved]

I don't know, go to the bathroom or something.

[TheBootyChest]

Thanks for the input. I wish I could talk to you more about this. But I don't want to be disrespectful in a public post.

[Bobba_Fett]

Take a shower before bed and yank it there.

[TheBootyChest]

Good idea.

[Anonymous]

i did at my cousins house.. to my cousin

[TheBootyChest]

how did that come about?

[Opinion Owner]

it was ok my cousins in her early 30's or late 20's so she's fully developed... overly developed it wasn't someone my age