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  • Ehh it'll depend on how much I care for that girl. If it's a girlfriend, I would feel kinda special and I would enjoy it since I know it's a special moment for her, and sharing with me would make me feel good that she trusted me and not the other hundreds of guys.
    If she wasn't a girlfriend, then I'd feel ehh about it. Sex with a virgin isn't really very pleasurable, cause you gotta be extremely careful, go slowly, stop several times... So if there's no emotional aspect to the sex, and it's only physical, then I wouldn't care too much.
    I've only taken one girl's virginity, and it wasn't enjoyable at all.

  • I think it is an honor to be her first. I want it to be a great experience for her and tried to get her off with my tongue first that way she got a great orgasm before we have sex. I am always a little nervous cause I want her to enjoy the experience as much as possible.

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  • I'm okay with it, I just generally let her know to decide the pacing and force, because I know that a good amount of people are nervous when it comes to the first time.

  • nervous. I don't want to hurt her, and i want to make sure she cums. a girls first time can hurt, and if it hurts too much or if she is too nervous she won't cum. I don't want to leave her disappointed.

  • In all honesty sense I haven't I would if given the opportunity too

  • Not my ideal situation only because I enjoy giving her pleasure.. And in my experience most chicks dont really "enjoy" the first time. But id never be a dic and say no

  • It wouldn't bother me at all, but I'd make sure she was *really* ready before taking that step.

  • Don't know. Never done it, and at my age likely never will. I prefer someone with experience and comfort with sexuality anyways.

    • Heard that man. The first girl I was with had said she was a virgin and of course I didn't and wouldn't of known the difference but I later found out she wasn't and I wanted to have that me being her first and her mine and each other's only kind of deal but obviously that didn't work out.

  • it depends !
    if the girl is craving for it and doesn't care about it and just want to get over with being virgin then it can be enjoyable and guilt free ! ;))))
    but if she is sensitive about it then it's better not to do it in case the man is not planning to continue the relationship after that cause honestly it won't be fun at first place if that was his goal and second he might feel the guilt later in case of anything emotional from the girl herself !

  • Wouldn't want to do it. It sucks for women the first time. Especially if you're a big guy is going to hurt. Plus after a woman loses their virginity they get really clingy towards that guy.

  • I would feel a little weird about it but it depends on how she acts about it. If she doesn't care much about it or think it's a big deal that would be better than the other way around.

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