Handjob:
Handjobs are typically bad.
First off they're really bad because women can't really get the right angle. Girls don't have penises so it's obvious that they aren't as good at pulling it, as men are. Just hold the dick as you would a sword, then ask the guy for directions as you go, he'll tell you how to correct what you're doing.
Blowjobs:
The perfect blowjob would be something along the lines of you pulling down the guy's pants, then kissing his thighs and working to the base of the penis, then kissing the shaft and at last the head. Then very gently lick the frenulum (the thing under the penis-head) which is the most sensitive part, and then smile at him. Take a hold of the dick and then lick from the base up to the head a couple of times, then stick out your tongue and twist it around the head. Maybe lick his balls for about 5-10 seconds and then do one final lick up the shaft and then take it in to your mouth.
//note, some girls do this thing where they put the dick in their mouth but don't suck it. They put their bottom and top lips on the penis, and then seem to try to avoid contact with it except from the lips which doesn't feel good. Try to make sure that as much of your tongue + lips + rest of your mouth (except from the teeth) touches the dick, as that's what makes it feel nice
Often times, fast and good are two completely different things, it's not about fast vs slow, it's about depth and power.
The ideal pace would probably be slow/medium, going as deep as you feel comfortable with, while putting pressure on his dick, maybe suck a little bit, like you're trying to suck soda through a straw while using your tongue to go in a circular pattern underneath his dick.
normally, you can do like 2-5 minutes of sucking back and forth and that tongue-stuff, and then you could take out the dick, jerk it a little bit and maybe lick the balls if you feel like it, if not just don't. (some guys don't like it as it tickles, so test the waters), but then just lick the shaft for about a minute, maybe dirty-talk and look him in the eyes, after licking the shaft, put it back in, taking it out makes it kind of cold, which makes it feel so much better when it comes back in.
So, about finishing in the girl's mouth? it depends. Just tell him what you want, he'll accomodate no matter what. on your face, on your chest or in your mouth, it all just feels nice. but on face or in mouth is a bigger turn-on.
whether he's uncut or not you can use lube to make him cum faster. if he's uncut make sure your palms are all over his glans and the foreskin doesn't roll up while you're doing it. and move fast with your hands because too much stimulation on the glans can be a huge turn off (maybe he'll fart, would be kinda embarrassing and an ultimate killer of the atmosphere)
I'm uncut and I loved when my exgf had my glans between her lips and stroke my foreskin. deep throating was hot too but she needed to practice a little bit for that.
He doesn't have a foreskin. im worried I'd gag if we deepthroat..
that's a natural reaction. if you don't want to do that you don't have to at all. sex is about having fun with someone you love.
Everyone is always asking this question and I can see why because it's an important one. Every guy is different and what works for one guy won't work with another guy. What's a turn on for one guy can be a turn off for another. I think the best thing to do is to talk to him about it and ask him what he likes. To have him direct you and tell you what to do and how o do it while you're doing it. That said, I think it is extremely important to always swallow his cum and lick and suck his cock squeaky clean. Most guys cum usually tastes salty. The texture can be thick and creamy or thin and watery. Personally i prefer thick gooey salty tasting cum. Cum may taste "just okay" to you at first. It can be an acquired taste for some women. The more often you swallow the more you'll like it.
Pay very close attention to him and how he reacts. Every man is different and will like different things in different ways. Start very lightly with your hand, or even with just a finger before you get it into the hand. if he likes what he's getting, give him that, if he wants more, give him more. It's okay to delay a little to add to the tension and fun, and you should only do as much as you want to do and are comfortable with doing
Make sure your hand/mouth is wet. Saliva or lube (for the hj) and keep a good steady Rhythm building up to faster and faster but listen to his voice/breath/moans to know what he likes best. My guy always finishes in my mouth. it may surprise you at first or taste salty/bitter but it's the neatest and my guy appreciates it most. I think most guys prefer it. Good luck.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!the most important thing is to not hide your enthusiasm for doing it. Nothing is sexier than a girl who wants to get us off.
Other than that, just avoid teeth. That's the big thing. Stroke as tightly as you can handle with your mouth/hands until he cums. Try to relish it, though. You're probably going to get into the mindset of "I hope he cums soon, or I hope I can make him cum at all." Don't do that. Try to stay in the mindset of "I want to suck this cock for as long as he'll let me, and the only reason I give damn about it feeling good to him is so that he'll let me suck it longer."
Finishing in a girl's mouth is wonderful. It shows she is too horny about what she's done to be ashamed of it. And if you swallow, it shows you're too horny to even be a little grossed out by it.
just dont fuck it up, whatever you do!
What should I avoid?
fucking it up.. i just said that?
What shouldn't I do to not fuck it up? What would be bad?
For a blow job, eye contact and making sure you have the right balance of clean and sloppy.
For hand job, talking like his dirty little girl.
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