This guy I started seeing said he wants to cum on my face and hair? Wtf?

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So I have been talking to this guy on Feb for about a month and I went to see him last night and he's a little bit full on we had sex like 3 times I'm not sure if he just wants to have sex I asked him and he said h wouldn't be kissing me if he just wanted to have sex hmm
then he said he wants to cum on my face or hair and one time he asked me if he can cum in my mouth and I said none also came inside me duriing sex without asking me if I'm on birth control (I am) he then said he wants to come in my face or hair presumably the next time I see him why on earth does he want to do that I don't understand it sounds horrible what's the reason for wanting to do this?

tinyclit · Accepted Answer

That sounds pretty good to me. Very playful and it's a blast. I recommend doing it. I'd do it for sure. After he cums all over your face be sure to have a mirror handy so you can see what you look like with his cum all over your face. You'll find it's very sexy. Get a facial at least several times if for no other reason than just to get the experience. Yeah, it can be messy and you'll need to take a shower to get the cum out of your hair. (I always disliked that part.) Careful not to get cum in your eyes because it might sting and temporarily turn your eyes red and everyone will know what you've been doing and giggle. :)

But once you've gained experience with getting facials I think you'll find that having him cum into your mouth, then enjoying swallowing his cum and sucking and licking his cock clean is way more satisfying and enjoyable than a facial. And there's no mess and nothing to clean up afterwards either! Do that all the time and you'll acquire a taste for it and always want to do it. :)

Almosthopelesscase · Accepted Answer

He wants to treat you like you're in a porn movie. The men tend to finish off over the woman's face, presumably so the viewer can watch.

For what it's worth, if he wants to treat you like a part of a low grade fantasy, then you can do an awful lot better. I have read that some younger men have grown up on a diet of porn movies and don't know how to treat a woman in a proper relationship, sadly this just seems to confirm that, in part at least, its true.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

Why do some guys get off by wearing women's underwear? Why do some girls get off by having their ass spanked and their hair pulled? It's just what turns them on and it's not something that people choose; it's simply the way that they are.

I would be concerned about a guy who is so forward about what he wants without respecting you enough to be concerned about how you would feel about doing those things.

NJ_Casanova · Answer

It' s just some stupid thing from watching too much porn.

pepperhicks · Answer

Cumming on the face is pretty common and can be a playful addition to sex. Cumming in hair (on the head) I would not aim for or ask for. My first wife is black and I managed not to cum in her hair even though we did facials many times. It would be a big hassle for her if I did. I came in the hair of another girl (ebony latina) i was with after divorce. I really had to calm her down, she was super pissed but she eventually she understood it was an accident.

zombiebabe · Answer

that's REALLY DISRESPECTFUL

shortandsexy · Answer

It's a popular thing in bdsm porn.

singlebee · Answer

Hahaha just a festish

CaliSoccerFella · Answer

Sounds like he's a porn addict...
Though I don't mind cumming on a face or in a mouth I'm not gonna press the issue as annoyingly as he does.

If you do get cum in your hair, let it dry and then you can pick it out. I been told that works lol (yes I've got it in a gals hair before)

Or hopefully he's a small cummer lol

glovonorb · Answer

It could be that he likes the dominance of cumming on you. That's often demonstrated in porn. I just like when a woman wants to taste and feel my cum. To see her excited about it makes me feel amazing.