Guys, Why does my boyfriend finish so fast?

My boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years and we have sex fairly oftern, but when ever he initiates sex he always finishes so fast. If I instigate the sex he can last anywhere between 15 and 45 minutes but if he initaites it he lasts a max of 5 minutes. Why is that?
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  • If he's horny.. that's why he's initiating. The hornier he is the short he lasts. He might be so horny that he isn't concerned about your orgasm and just wants to get off asap. Do you do a round 2, after he finishes fast? That would be the polite thing for him to do if he just wanted to bust a nut.

    • Some times we go again but most of the time after he finishes he just goes back to what he was doing before we started having sex

    • You got to let him know that you want more, say "We're not done yet" If you express that you're not satisfied then he might step up his game. If you haven't told him and are only giving signals.. chances are he doesn't know your not happy with your situation. It's not guys that are bad at expressing themselves it's actually women.

  • When he initiates, and finishes fast, I would think he is turned on already, and has been thinking about it. The mental aspect can be almost as powerful as the physical, and that can help push him closer to the top. Especially if it built up over a while.

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  • Maybe is he is really horny when he initiates sex

  • He initiates sex when he is already feeling very horny, possibly has been watching porn, and is 2/3 of the way to an orgasm before he even starts with you.

  • Because he is extra horny and just needs to come.