Being "eat out" for the first time?

I'm a plus size girl. He's been wanting to eat me out, and I'm down. Just not comfortable with my size. Any tips on how to help him, if there are any. What if I miss some hair? How do I make sure to taste good. What does it feel like?
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  • If you're worried about size, know that chose you, and wants you at the size you are, no matter what other people think about it. If you're worried about stray hairs, realize that he knows you don't have eyes down there.

    The best way to know you will taste as good as you can is shower right before. There will be 100% no sweat or dirt or anything else. And if more worried than that, you could try it yourself... I did for the same reason. Chances are there isn't anything wrong with it though.

    Helping him will be difficult and easy. Hard because you don't know what you will like, but easy in the way that if he does do something that you like all you have to do is let him know.

    What it feels like can just be a surprise XD

  • As a plus size girl I totally get you! The first time I was with a guy he wanted to go down on me and it freaked me the hell out! (I hadn't even gotten prepared ahead of time because it was a very spontaneous thing) Don't worry, there's a reason he wants to, chances are he knows what a pussy smells and tastes like. If you really wanna try and sweeten up cranberry juice is a lifesaver and coconut oil is natural and works like a dream to shave your cooch (it won't upset your Ph balance) and will leave you soft as a babys bum. Good luck! Enjoy it

  • Diet greatly affects taste/smell. Eat a lot of fruits and veggies, and drink a lot of water. Cranberry juice helps.

    Wash the outside part (the vulva) with soap and water. Don't let the soap get inside or else you might mess up your pH, which plays a role in keeping your vagina healthy and infection-free.

    It feels really nice if he knows what he's doing. It's like a light, soft pressure.

Most Helpful Guys

  • The best advice I or anyone else could give you is to not overthink things. It's supposed to be pleasure for you (and him). Don't worry about your weight. That will get in the way of your relaxing and allowing yourself to feel pleasure. Don't worry about how you look "down there" 'cause he knows what girls look like. Worrying about whether if you missed some hair will get in the way. You might want to put a pillow under your hips to give him easier access between your legs, but that's just a tactic and not something to worry about it. Try to let yourself be in the moment and just feel turned on and experience the sensations.

    • thank you for MH Guy opinion!

  • Stop worrying about it or you won't enjoy it. And thus you won't cum. And thus he'll feel like a failure.

    Just shower and clean up down there (they make special soaps for your nanny) before. If you miss a little hair, whatever. Hair isn't that big of a deal unless there's a ton of it growing, then it gets in the way.

    I have only been with one girl but I assume most vaginas just taste like vaginas. Nothing you can do about it too much (other than cleaning) and if he doesn't like it, he shouldn't be with women.

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  • Just lay back, relax and enjoy. You being relaxed is the most important part for it to be pleasurable for you or not.

  • If your guy wants to lick the kitty, then let him. You need to relax and enjoy one of the best delights a woman can have.
    Be shower fresh, and relax. Get in a good position on your back, a pillow under your ass will help get your hips up for presenting your mound to your man. Put one under your head too. And enjoy... AND don't think about it. Let him decide on what he wants and how long. I know I can go for hours!

  • Not in order. When you expect the time is approaching, thoroughly warm water rinse your entire V each time you pee to get out old pee and old V mucus , which ferment anaerobically to produce the fishy smell. Dont worry about missing some hair. He won't notice in his excitement. You can help him be spreading your legs widely and opening your V for him to expose the goods. I can't help you with how it feels or your size sensitivity. It will feel good. Just brave out your size inhibition.

  • Absolutely do not worry about tasting good, I'm sure nature has taken care of that already. Do not overthink things, this is a great way to give him a lot of pleasure in a safe way. Don't forget to gently guide him to all the "good spots." This is all about you after all, and your response will drive him nuts, so get all the pleasure you can from him.

  • If you wanna help him just tell him where it feels good, unless he's really good and can read your body language. The most important thing is for you to relax and have fun.

  • Wax if you are not comfortable with the thought of you miss hair. Or devote extra time to shaving.
    Be clean and hygienic down there.
    It feels amazing. He most likely knows what to do.

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  • Just make sure you're clean down there and don't worry about anything else, and best of luck, I wish you all the best hun.

  • just let him and don't worry about it

  • don't worry about it.. just let him go at it

  • Just make sure you have a wash that day. Lots of guys love doing it. Dont worry about your body. Be brave, lay back and enjoy x

  • Everyone Made Some Very Valid And Helpful Suggestions For You!
    The Only Part I Will Disagree On Is Missing Hairs When You Shave Your Pussy.
    My Wife And I Are Both Shaved Bald, Well I Had Laser Hair Removal Done.
    When My Wife Misses Hairs At The Edge Of Where I Am Licking Her They Poke And They Are Sharp.
    Before I Got Lasered If I Missed Hairs They Would Poke Her Too.
    It's A Minor Detail, Nothing To Stress Over, Everyone Misses Hairs, But They Are Sharp And Getting Poked Isn't Fun.
    Good Lick, I Mean Luck!

  • Just wearing something sexy like lingeire and wash good down there. My girlfriend tastes her sealf before she opens her legs to me so she knows it's A ok