Not sure to tell my ex sex friend that I'm pregnant?

Hello. I'm not American but wanted to have an international opinion about what i'm going through. So I just found out that i'm pregnant from my formar "sex buddy" who's a foreigner and has a girlfriend ( the situation was a little bit complicated to explain but we had a sort of an open relashionship which I was okey with and seemingly his girlfrind too) Anyway, I just found out by my self that his girlfriend moved with him from an other country and in the heat of the moment I got so pissed off and decided to cut all sort of contact with him without any warning or explanation. We saw each other after two weeks and had a little talk ( we were both drunk and I told him that I'm bipolar, something that I kept hidden all the time from him when we were together ) Untill now I don't really now what where my motives then. Two days ago, I found out that i'm pregnant. Obviously i'm having an obortion since i'm still a student and I can't afford to raise a child ( I also have to mention that I live in an arab country ) but i'm not sure whether to tell him or not. Does he have the right to know? I told my closest friends who are supporting me but think that I have to tell him since I didn't conceive the child by myself and he owes me some support. What do you think?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Yes, yes he does have the right to know. It's his baby, and if you want to do abortion, at least tell him about your condition. Sorry, but he's a bastard! I wish you'll 'get well' soon.

    • Thank you for responding. Honestly what is making me skeptical about the idea of telling him is that I'm afraid he'll think that I'm crazy or making things. Another thing I don't have clear motives for telling him, in the sense that I'm not waiting for him to be by my side these days before my appointment with the doctor. But weirdly I feel the urge to tell him, even though i'm expecting nothing in return.

    • Just tell him then. :)

Most Helpful Guy

  • He has right to know.

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  • You tell him exactly what you told us.

  • 'I am pregnant''