Biting clit sext?

[Anonymous]

I'm a virgin and I sext with this guy who is too. He's really good at it normally and I enjoy it a lot. But last night he said he wanted to bite my clit? I feel like that would just be really painful, but then I read a couple of questions on here with some girls saying they like it, and guys saying they had girlfriends who did? So some people do? Do guys find the idea hot? I didn't even know biting clits was a thing, I know I wouldn't even want to touch a guy's dick with my teeth for fear of hurting him.. I really doubt this guy has an s/m thing, and I absolutely trust he wouldn't harm me on purpose Anyway, I tried to kind of gently say that biting there wouldn't be the best idea. I'm scared I made him feel insecure though, which I don't want to! Because I don't want to stop sexting with him and also I really really like him. Should I leave it alone now or try to talk to him? How can I let him know I'm still really attracted and want him?

[fauchelevent]

Pretty sure he just means lightly nibbling, not actually biting. It's still not my thing but a lot of people do enjoy it, that kind of pleasure-pain sensation. I doubt you really made him insecure about it, if you want, you can just start another sexting session at some point and carry on as if it didn't happen.

[Anonymous]

Nobody bites heart and if they do tell you that they are lying. When a guy tells me he wants rectal sex I say sorry I'm not into that. I suggest you gently say I don't like my clit bitten. A real bike would be severely painful

[Asker]

Yeah, I kind of thought that, that it's just a kinky thing to say and he wouldn't really do it, but I said I wouldn't want that.. I don't want him to feel like I don't have a good time when we sext, especially 'cause I don't always cum (I just don't every time ever; sexting or masturbating any way at all). I love sexting him and I want him to feel good. Do you agree with MoonlitSonata, initiating the sexting next time to show I want him is the way to go?

[Opinion Owner]

Sure why not just add, "I love it when you nibble on my clit." That alone might give him the message

[UseYourIllusion]

Biting clit is not very different from biting a penis. Some men might like it but most of them will only feel pain.

[Asker]

I thought so.. But then why would a guy think girls would want that?

[UseYourIllusion]

It's because he knows nothing about women's body... in my opinion.

[Asker]

I guess. Ideally I could just show him, and he could show me what he likes 'cause I'm just as inexperienced, but I can't go and see him irl. I don't want to hurt his pride by saying what he's said isn't right, let him know what I prefer :(

[JuicyBrain]

When he says biting, he means nibbling. Nobody is trying to draw blood here...
You might like it. The point is to reach the limit between pleasure and pain. If it is painful, then it's no good and he is doing it wrong. Don't assume it is only painful or doesn't feel good until you have tried it.

[sexcrazy1]

not biting, maybe sucking like a mini blow job almost. and if need be then nibbling, but with minimal teeth contact. just explain it to him as such. try work it into a sext, tell him something like, the teeth are going to hurt but as I suck on you, you can suck on my clit.

[NJ_Casanova]

Not hard... like biting on a nipple, just a little pressure that floats between pleasure/pain.

[aliceinwonderland69]

😱😱😱

[JC103]

Don't let anyone do that to you

[Jayded1]

I am not sure he has even actually gone down on a girl. that isn't a thing you do.

[MoonlitSonata]

Start up a sext with him.