Girls, would you date a guy that practices auto-fellatio regularly?

[Anonymous]

I would want to hear your oppinion on this: since i was 14-15 i started to take the head of my penis in my mouth and play in various ways. This became over the years a regular practice. Would this bother you? In my past relations I have carefully hidden this practice over the fear to be judged. Disclosure: I am not gay, and have no plans to be! No attraction whatsoever for men.

[Anonymous]

Your penis is large enough for you to perform oral sex on yourself? That kind of turns me on, and I'm sure it feels great for you (I'm a little jealous), but I wouldn't want to know that about my partner. I'm not sure why; I like it when guys masturbate in front of me. But since I haven't heard that one before, it would take me off guard. And I think I would actually feel a little threatened by it. Like I couldn't compete with that. I would also wonder if it indicates attraction to oneself, though I admit that's irrational thinking.

[Asker]

Indeed, I can bend relatively easy to reach the head. Started out of curiosity.. and then couldn't stop doing it. Hmm... keeping this secret seems the wisest option but, it would be great to find a girl/woman that i can share this fully with. You seem quite an analytical person... what did you study?

[Opinion Owner]

Haha. I studied political science/international relations. I have a graduate degree in social work.

[Opinion Owner]

By the way, I don't think anything is wrong with fucking yourself. I do it all the time! I think if you were in the right relationship and you and your girlfriend got on the topic of masturbating, you could probably admit that you've licked your tip. In other words, if you were serious with someone I don't think it would seem so out there. I wouldn't want to see it, though ;)

[Asker]

Very good... i appreciate your input as the most helpful. I'd have more questions for you..

[tiredmom42]

Yes, it's just a matter of finding the right women is all. My husband can do it. He can get about 2" in his mouth. If he's in the mood and I'm not that what he usually does. Doesn't bother me in the least. A BJ whenever he wants, I don't blame him. lol

[kaylaS91]

Honestly, that would make being with him quite a bit more difficult.
Auto-fellatio is something that's a bit too far over the line of 'weird', for me. If he goes to such lengths to be able to give himself head as well as a handjob, that'd make me feel like I'm mostly just the vagina which he has yet to manage to provide for himself. (... though he could just get a fleshlight and call it a day.)

[Asker]

your reply is harsh but real! thanks for it. I would not consider at all a girl as you say - there is more to a relation than sex but as we see, the sexual behavior does matter...

[kaylaS91]

hah yeah perhaps a bit harsh but I suppose that's the price at which you can get honest answers. I know that of course a good relationship is not built on sex but it's certainly a big part of it.

[tinyclit]

No I would not. I'm the cock sucker in our relationship. :)

[Asker]

lol. Fair point...

[prettylittlemynx]

Not at all. It's one of the biggest things I envy about men. And equal pay. The world is so unfair

[Asker]

Really... hmm maybe your envy is not hopeless... i heard ballet/circus women could do the same

[prettylittlemynx]

True, though I don't think giving out my back is worth it. I'll just keep grabbing guys by the hair and putting them to use

[mistixs]

Most men can't do auto fellatio

[Asker]

@mistixs Indeed I read some stats and the percent is low...

[rescuemyheart]

I wpuld just worru about... accidents

[Asker]

what accidents?

[rescuemyheart]

Lets say... a balancing act with a lot of potential to fall over... with your penis close to your teeth

[Asker]

lol i see :) there are 2 positions to do this, one standing on the chair normally and bendig (no danger) and one indeed, on my back balancing as you say. Still, i can control what i do pretty well.

[amfbruzer]

Personally its so taboo that I would find it strange but it wouldn't really affect a relationship terribly for me. I mean hey it means you're more flexible then I am! Good for you

[Asker]

Thanks for your honest reply!. I know something like this is taboo... hard to talk about. When you say 'hey it means you're more flexible than I am'.. does it mean that girls would like to go down to themselves too?

[amfbruzer]

you're welcome! Personally I wouldn't want to go down on myself but I do know girls who would

[Asker]

oh that's interesting... i am sure such a girl would understand me well then

[mistixs]

Haha I tried so hard to go down on myself. I got in all kinds of different contortions. It didn't work. I wish I cous so it

[Asker]

@mistixs thanks for your thoughts! for a girl is much much more difficult. Maybe we can chat sometime..

[Anonymous]

that's disgusting

[Asker]

thanks for sharing your opinion!

[Anonymous]

lol how can u do that i did not even no that is possible thats so cool bro

[Asker]

you are sweet :) it is possible indeed lenght and flexibility are critical

[Opinion Owner]

lol i think its cool u can do that but if it was my boyfriend i would rather do it my self lol

[Asker]

point taken! still some girls are not so eager to do it..

[Opinion Owner]

eager to do what

[Asker]

eager to go down to a guy

[Opinion Owner]

lol i have never done it but i want to i want to suck it and make him cum so i can swallow it