My boyfriend came in his pants, is it normal?

We've recently just started dating and we were just making out and touching, and he came in his pants just from that. Should I be worried that he's got problems with premature ejaculation or do you think that it could be because he is a virgin? He is 22
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Most Helpful Guys

  • it happened to me only about a year and a half ago. I made out with this woman for over 2 hours. she never did anthing other then kiss and touch my chest and back. when we got out of my van to say goodnight, her leg grazed my cock and it went off. I don't know if she knew it or not. but it made for a much nicer, though messy, ride home. lol...
    if you get him riled up , and don't take care of it for him, that is going to happen.

  • That kind of thing can happen. He was so charged up and turned on that it just happened. He doesn't have the experience of feeling that much sensation without cumming yet. I don't think it means anything negative about how he'll be in bed. He just doesn't have the experience yet.

Most Helpful Girls

  • This happened to my first boyfriend, he was experienced, and when we did have sex he lasted fine. He told ne he was just really into me and had a crush on me for a long time.
    He was probably fantasizing about having sex with you for a long time and finally you are actually touching him.

  • there is nothing wrong with it, it sounds like he doesn't masturbate as much or he was highly turned on. He just needs to learn how to hang on to it and you need to be considerate and patient with him.

  • Inexperience, excitement and wishing it was something else he was doing to you ;) don't worry just maybe don't expect long lasting sex if you choose to do that

  • Please ignore everyone who tells you it's normal or to take it as a compliment. It is premature ejaculation. It's probably why he is virgin. Move on.

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  • It just means he's really attracted to you. I wouldn't worry about it. The more you two do stuff the longer he will last

  • The premature ejaculation problem is unlikely under these circumstances.

  • Not it's actually a complement.. you got him so hot and horny that he couldn't control himself.

  • I'm a virgin and I wouldn't cum just by doing that so I don't know if it's just that.

  • I never have done this. It could end up being a problem.

  • This will pass when intimacy becomes more regular.

  • Maybe because he's a virgin, getting excited easily

  • premature isn't a problem. If you just get him to masturbate a little before or get him off first with foreplay before you get to the main stuff he should be fine. Guys are capable of having more orgasms it just usually just takes 10-15 minutes before they can get another one.

  • what were you 2 doing…. :)

    • hahahaha...

  • Nope you are just too hot and Georgous for him to handle..

  • Have you seen American Pie?

  • Normal for a virgin

  • He must be so excited and not to much experienced... You must be so hot I think :)

  • Probably inexperience. He got really turned on cause he's not used to it. Keep at it he will gain tolerance over time.

  • wow... this question

  • Haha should have had a tactical wank before eliminate this ever happening

    • I'm interested to know what makes a wank tactical.

  • I might just chalk that up to being a virgin. I would keep an eye on it though. That could be a sign of premature ejaculation. I know I've struggled with PE myself.

  • he is a virgin

  • yes at first time that is happen to me i was too horny