I saw my dad masturbating!! Help?

The details -i live in a brown house so that's not something normal -I saw him in his truck looking at his phone and doing it when I looks down out of my window -I'm grossed out and don't know what to do
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** I meant my family is brown sorry or the confusion
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  • If you did not see much, I would not get all freaked out about it. Obviously, we don't know all the details of his situation and men do need some release every now and then.
    I would not alienate your father because of this. He loves you more then you can Possibly realise at your age.

  • Ignore it, and be aware that he does it, so you know to be more careful of his privacy.

    Shock of all shocks! Your father is an adult and has sexual needs. Get over it.

    • You don't think she should sit her dad down and discuss it? Lol.

    • @SarahsSummer No. What he does privately is his business. Just as what she does privately is hers. She should accept that her father is not an old, impotent man, and that he has perfectly normal needs. And then she should keep that in mind so she can make sure, for her own sake, she respects his privacy and doesn't end up seeing that again. But talking about it will just be awkward for them both, and will ultimately culminate in him explaining "I still have needs, and as weird as it may be to believe it, I am still a sexual person."

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  • You can either a) talk to him which I doubt you want to do or b) realize that he's a grown man and that no matter what religion or culture you have some people do masturbate.

  • Just try to forget about it. What does living in a brown house have to do with anything

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  • Grossed out? why?

    Masturbation is a natural thing, it's perfectly normal and everyone does it.
    Even your dad, and your mom, and your aunt, your siblings and your best friend.

    • yes i know that, but i really did not need to see it myself

  • That's nothing I saw my dad boning his ex and til this day I shout out "OOOOO THE HORRORRRRRRR" 😱😱 that day haunt's me I swear !

    • That's cool lol

    • @cuteguy22 dafuq? 😑

    • I was like 7 or 9😑

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  • No amount of brain bleach will help you. Rip.

  • Well, did he see you? If he didn't, just don't react and pretend you didn't see anything. Is your mom around?

    • no, he was parked in the driveway as i looked out the window and looked down and saw through his windsheild

    • my mom wasn't home yet

    • Just pretend you didn't see anything, guys wack off all the time.

  • ha. ha. ha...

  • What does the color of your house have to do with anything?

    • I think she means her family is brown lol

    • there's some secret plot here she ain't tellin us :P

    • @Jeeveesss & @BertMacklinFBI oh right, masturbation is strictly a white persons hobby, I forgot.

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  • What is a brown family?

  • Do nothing WTF were you thinking could be done.

  • forget it, have amnesia, get it out of your mind, you didn't see a thing

  • Just need to get over it mom and dads are human just like you and have urges and needs! Doesn't sound like he was hurting himself or anyone else. :)

    • Yeah i get that, it's just kind of I can't see my dad the same way especially because i could see he was doing it.

  • yeah burn your eyes with acid

    kidding, don't do that. just get over it.

  • You'll get over it.

  • If I were you I would never stop crying lol. Sorry you had to see that!

  • Get over it and act like u never saw anything, stop overreacting. :-P

  • Do nothing. Say nothing. Forget it. Its a normal human thing.

  • Nothing. Masturbation is perfectly normal, and you were the one snooping. Let it go.

  • Find him a woman, big deal.

    • it's called my mom

  • i live in a brown house so that's not something normal? hahahahHAHAH this made my day! lol

  • So... you saw... him... masturbating? and you're grossed out?
    Heh... heh heh heh... hah ahahahahahah... HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!.
    I'm sorry but get over it... everyone masturbates even you.

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