Are all vaginas created equal?

For example, if you had sex with 10 different girls who range from attractive to horribly unattractive. Would the vagina alone, without factoring in face or body, be better for the girls you find attractive?
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This is about how a vagina FEELS not how the vulva looks.
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so there's no such thing as a bad feeling vagina?
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  • Different vaginas do feel different, but there's many factors to include.

    Some girls are more nervous than others, making them a bit more tight as the muscles relax more the more comfortable you are.
    Some girls who are very sexually active or participate in some type of sports might also be tighter and have a better "grip" on the dick as their muscles are more developed.

    I've been with such a girl and then also a girl who was very loose.
    One felt amazing and nigh indescribable. soft but tight and it had a clean feel to it, it put pressure on all areas of the dick and that just made it more amazing, while contrarily a girl can also be very loose and at some point if she's *too* loose, it might feel as if you're having sex with a pile of ramen noodles.

    I haven't come across a bad feeling vagina, all were good in their own way, but some feel better than others in my opinion.

    • lol at the ramen noodle reference, interesting

  • All vaginas are different, some pretty girls have tight ones, some have loose ones. Same with unattractive girls. If I were blindfolded and had a go at all my past lays, I wouldn't be able to tell the difference, except that it would be the fucking best day of my life.

    • hahaha :D

    • Hey, thanks for mho

    • no problem, you answered my question properly :)

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  • To be pedantic, unless you're a gynecologist, actual vaginas are pretty much invisible. Every vulva (female external genitals) is different and unique and attractive in its own way. Maybe take a look at amateur porn pictures (see imagefap. com for instance) and see if you can spot any patterns beneath all the pubic hair. I've spotted a pattern! All us hot chicks shave our pubes. :)

    • i don't mean the visuals of the vagina, but rather how it feels.

    • Oops, sorry, I should have known that. I have poor reading comprehension. :(

    • it's okay, i think i wasn't being clear enough. a lot of people thought the same as you :D

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  • They're different. Some are naturally tighter, while others are more roomy. Some are deeper; some are shallower. There are also differences in texture.

    The ideal vagina is relative. For example, a guy with a larger size might prefer the feel of a girl with a deeper vagina.

    Ultimately, attraction and chemistry are what matter most.

    • "Ultimately, attraction and chemistry are what matter most" i think that's true for women including me but do you think men agree?

    • the inside of the vagina feels exactly the same. the rest of what you listed has nothing to do with her question.

    • Maybe they've felt the same in your experience. That doesn't mean every vagina has the same size and shape. There are differences, however slight. (Unless you were referring to texture, in which case you can only really notice when fingering, not during PIV sex.) "the rest of what you listed has nothing to do with her question" ^ nice useless comment. My response was related to the topic.

  • No, vaginas come in different shapes and sizes just as dicks. It's looks don't have much in common with the attractiveness of the person they're part of though. Small girls might have slightly more shallow vags than tall girls but otherwise it's just random.

  • Hmmm.. If you haven't realised, April 1st. has been and gone. :)

    • lol im not joking, i'm wondering if guys can objectively have sex with any girl and it feels more and less equally good.

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  • What a great question and it could be only presented by a strong woman.
    This is the most fantastic and beautiful thing about vaginas yes they are all created equal.. I have never seen an ugly vagina.
    What's even better is how the woman chooses to use it and show it off.
    So many beautiful women kind of think iam stunning so I don't have to do very much in bed. , not all but some.
    greatwallofvagina.co.uk/great-wall-vagina-panels

    Here are casts made of 400 everyday women's vaginas. They are all stunning and beautiful.
    So yes vaginas are equal what makes them amazing is how the woman uses it.

    • not about if they look the same. im asking if they feel the same and does it correlate with how attractive a girl is.

    • Yes if your going down on a woman and enjoy giving her oral pleasure then all your looking at is vagina if she's sucking you too then how pretty the woman is has very little bearing on it. How many times do you have sex with the light on. Or in daylight. Mostly we have sex at night or in low lit rooms.. The scent taste and feel of a vagina becomes far more important.

  • I have never been inside a vagina that did not feel great and gave me a great orgasm

  • pussy is pussy.
    it feels amazing and always feels the same when inside her.
    They don't always look exactly the same. But unlike a penis, they are all amazing to look at.

  • Different but equal. It's against federal law to discriminate against any pussy. Or maybe thats just my opinion. I get the 2 confused

  • Not always, vagina's come in different sizes like penises. One girl can be more self confident and gets more aroused (produces more lube) which is better. Also if it's too tight.. that's bad if I can't fit or she's in pain the whole time.

  • No, they're not. Some are tighter and some are looser, some smell/taste great and others don't, some are bigger, some are smaller.

  • Here is hoping I would only have sex with girls who I find attractive - I don't think the logic holds that the quality of the vagina is associated to attractiveness - There is probably very little margin about how guys feel about vagina, there may be some preferences about looks but not dealbreakers just because you prefer blondes doesn't mean you wouldn't relish sleeping with a brunette.

  • From just feeling alone, No. All the vaginas I have enjoyed have their own feel to them, though similar. Some can be real loose, some tight, some more slippery than others, some can grip, some I can feel is more textured, some super silky smooth. And looks did not matter at all.
    Just a part of the body and can be very different for each woman. Just like boobs, the penis, feet, etc.

  • Have you seen porn? They definitely look different vagina to vagina. I'd have to imagine they feel different as well.

    • nope... all feel the same..

  • Hmm nope, past the outside of it (which I guess counts as body?) vaginas all feel different and all feel good 😜. If you did a blind test I don't think many guys could tell the difference between attractive and unattractive girl.

    If the girl knows how to squeeze properly, damn... At that moment i wouldn't care what she looked like lol.

    • haha interesting, psa to all girls: work on ur kegels

  • I like big loose vagina's, and no, I am not joking.

    I find it funny when I am banging a girl and she asks me if it is tight or if I like her tight pussy, I always say god yes it is so good etc, but in my head I am thinking "I wonder what she would think if she knew I like big loose pussies?" Makes me giggle.

    Guys want giant cocks, girls want tight tiny pussies, sounds like a big contradiction, and a recipe for disaster.

    • I would also like to add that in my experience, "average" looking girls have been the hottest in bed, they try harder and are nastier. Hot girls think they are just hot and that is enough.

    • that is EXACTLY like guys with big dicks, they get lazy and don't try which is why average sized guys are more often better. enthusiasm is the best :D

    • Of course and tbh I would say let's kick off the big dick myth I mean these days if you ask a question about dick size most of them would be +7 ! My question is who knows he is telling the truth?

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  • No two vaginas feel the same.
    No matter how attracted i am to her body or mind that would not change.

    PS: I would also not date her for her vagina.

  • Yea it feels different, not too different but its something you can notice if you pay attention

  • I don't think Vulvas have been subject to "natural selection" as other details, like faces, boobs and body proportions have. Although some are neater and more eye appealing, there is no connection between a generally attractive woman and an attractive vulva and no healthy vulva, no matter how visceral it looked, would be a deal breaker for me.

    • this is not about vagina aesthetics but about the feeling of being IN a vagina.

    • Still no. Some vaginas are smooth inside, like the inside of your mouth. Others are rumply inside like a wrinkled shirt and feel much better. But there's no relationship with attractiveness. A homely girl can have a wonderful, knobbly vagina.

  • Interesting question, I have slept with 11 women, and there has never been a bad feeling vagina. The women who were slightly older in their 30's were generally less wet than the ones 10 years younger perhaps. A couple did feel slightly different too, like a marginally different shape, ridges or bumps, that kinda thing.

    It would be worth pointing out that it can also feel better or worse depending on how horny I am or how sensitive my penis is at the time.
    If I have had sex in the last day or two, it wouldn't be "as good" as if it had been 6 months.

    There were a couple of vaginas in particular that really stood out, as if they had been molded specifically for my dick, the girls were really wet at the time and the orgasms I had inside them were out of this world. I have got hard just thinking about them haha

    • damn, thanks for the input :D most people misunderstood the question and i got tired of correcting them. does a woman's attractiveness correlate with how good the sex is?

    • Yes it does as there is more to sex than penis in vagina. All vaginas have the ability to take a dick and get wet as long and as there wasn't some strange medical abnormality then it wouldn't affect my decision to date her or not. It's more about the girl, how well we get on, her personality and overall attractiveness than her pussy. In fact one of those mind blowing orgasms was from a girl who kinda annoyed me and I would never consider being in a relationship with. Its just that we worked together and had been teasing each other at work, making me super horny, and it was a way to release the sexual tension outside of our working enviroment.

    • So to sum up... the only issue I've experienced with sex is her not being wet enough but lube solves that, and some girls can feel slightly different to others down there.

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  • I dont see why they would. Just like some dicks are better than others Id guess the same is true for vaginas.

  • Probably not strongly correlated.

  • there are tight ones and not so tight ones... If your asking if they feel the same... Then personally, the answer is no.

    A tight vagina gives me the friction i need and a not so tight one, doesn't. It can actually be a turn off to some guys.

  • Honestly I've never felt that much of a difference. I've noticed more of a difference between a condom and no condom sex, than with different girls and their vaginas. If you try to force it in when she isn't ready, then yeah it's really tight and doesn't want to allow you access. If she's ready, then it glides right in and feels extremely awesome. Then again, I've only been with a handful of women, so I could be wrong.

  • to be or not to be that is the question

    • Long as it's warm and I like the lady it's attached too then I'm good lol

    • @Too_Sweet82 good to know :P

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