Guys, is it annoying to have to use lube every time for sex?

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My husband has to use lubricant every time we have sex because I kept getting vaginal tears. I went to the gyno twice for it to be sure nothing was wrong, and confirmed the issue is dryness. It's really very painful and it's never fun to see blood. When we use lubricant we rarely have problems and it's enjoyable. But obviously he gets it on his hands, it's one that isn't sticky or annoying thankfully. And also it is one step before having sex. We don't have sex often like we used to. But I don't know if it's because of that or just that he isn't in the mood. He just says he isn't. We have sex often enough I'd say. But I feel like it's a burden to use it. I asked him about that too but obviously he doesn't want to have to but never complains that he is using it.
Guys, is it annoying to have to use lube every time for sex?
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