This is probably the most surprising answer I've read in awhile lol
Lol you're full of surprises
Dude, I *think* I get yr point, but... yeah...I mean, don't take this the wrong way, but, this is the kind of "poetic" writing that you should only do when yr readers already know the plot.I mean, I can guess, but, I'm mostly just sorta confused.I'm even more confused by the picture of two Dutch passports. I'm guessing that must come from some house music thing?Oooookay.
@redeyemindtricks I didn't want to be poetic in the first place. It just automatically rhymed. It's just the way I am. The way I think. The way I speak. This didn't need any plot because this IS the plot. The point was to make the readers familiar with my experiences. It was a prologue for my actual opinion to help them understand better. You are so surprising unique that I cannot write something which is pleasing to you, but an average user here.And that photo is nothing but a depiction of what usually happens. We just get off to our ways. No worries, no regrets. Yes. It's a dutch passport. He's Dutch. He's related to house music. Very good eye *claps*But by plotting that out, you're just unnecessarily picking holes. I'm not supposed to get myself photographed and post it here + it's extremely hard to find good pics having Indians in it. So, I chose something similar. No big deal. Thanks for constructive criticism :)
That makes sense. I think being submissive also means being really comfortable with the person so that's where the nerves come in.
Lol going the the extreme? Oh geez
Whips and chains and such. XD
Versatility is always best. I'm a switch myself. 😊
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Not even a switch?
Ew... no. That's just not me.
Thanks. Now I just gotta find that right girl. The search continues!
[[6 days later]]Majority of the time someone who is a "people pleaser" [[caring more that their partner enjoys it than what that person is doing]] - are submissive or switch. Not usually dominants long term or all the time.
@Smmyskittles Maybe, but, a good dominant needs (1) empathy and (2) ability to read the other person well. Without those things, a "dominant" will just be crap, abusive, or even both.If someone has both of those things, then she/he will probably be pretty damn good at rocking the other person's world, regardless of whether she/he is what one would normally call a "pleaser".
@redeyemindtricks Yup (: I'm always determined to rock her world. The more fun she has, the more fun I do. Makes for a really hot yet compassionate time
For both of you. I know, I've been both and I myself am a switch but I do prefer submission.There's a biiig difference between being dominant and being abusive, some people go too far, I've experienced that first hand. Lil' bit about my past lol
@Smmyskittles Haha good to know. Sorry anyone took it too far with you. Hope it was more of a learning experience than a regret
Lol that's great
Lmao oh man
What? I like girls with a spine/brain.. that can express what they want/need and do it "without" arguing... I know I know that's almost impossible to find, LOL. If I wanted to be in charge of ever decision... I'd have a sex slave/maid. It seems a lot of GAG girls like being the girl that is always dominated.
Not this girl
So you like her to be aggressive right up until y'all are actually going at it?
Oh no she can be aggressive the entire time... biting, clawing, pinning... let me stop lolThe important thing is that mentally I know I still have the control in what's happening... it's weird to explain but it makes sense to me.
Sooo... she could tie you up but as long as you think you're still in control you're good.
Something along those lines. There's a lot more I could go into but I'll just say to me the dominant or submissive mindset doesn't change... if I'm dominant to begin with, having my hands tied temporarily won't make me feel like I'm being dominated.Does that make sense?
"Biting, clawing" 👀👀👀😏
@teawrecks dude pls...
Ahhh, that makes sense.
What can I say, my hormones are at it again. It's been a few days.
Uh yeah, I don't know what that is lol. I just meant being 100% in control.
Nobody wants to stick anything in your butt.
Being able to switch is always good
Aww, you never know. You might like being tied up. 😊
Naaaah. That sounds like potential disaster. "Hey, babe.. remember when.." Ahhhhhhhhhh hell lol. I'm in trouble.
Lmao it wouldn't be like that!
You never know. Bishes are crazy.
I've seen it in a TV show and in a movie.
Lol oh lord. Man up!
I'm too scared XDimages2.fanpop.com/.../...ouse-8509773-396-303.jpgA chick left this dude tied up all day.
Lmao I mean I get it. That's where trust comes into play.
Yeah and I don't trust these chicks 😄
lol yea you better be scared hahahah
@archiz 😧 I get a sense there was some evil laughter that came with that statement.
Ahh, so a battle of sorts huh?
haha yeah, if you want to call it that, it's a wrestling match at the start then you take turns dominating.
Really? I wouldn't have guessed that
Am I that predictable?
Lol well obviously not since I predicted you were a dominant
Yes, that's what I mean.
I feel compelled to ask- Just sexually dominant or mentally as well?
Being in control.
I have no problem if she wants to initiate sex or make the decisions about which positions she wants to do. Did I miss anything?
That's it pretty much. Also some tying and such.
I wouldn't mind being tied a bit. But I will admit there is a fear of being left there without being able to leave when it's all done.
Totally understandable. I have the same fear.
Would you let someone completely tie you up if you knew that no matter how hard you pulled it wouldn't come undone or that you couldn't move an inch BUT that there was a twist/slip of a knot that would free you?
I would not let anyone tie me up if I knew that I couldn't get out of it. I'm not too fond of being tied up period because of that. I'd have a panic attack
What if you were say handcuffed to the corners of your bed. And they were strong enough that you couldn't pull them and break them. But there was a simple button to press and unlock them? Is that different in your opinion?
If I knew the button was there then maybe. But I'd much rather do the tying.
What is the way you would want to tie him up? just put hands together, to the posts, or something else?
Yeah, just tied or handcuffed to the bedpost is all
If you were comfortable with being tied up would you want to be tied up on your back or laying on your stomach?
Probably on my back. But if tied right then JT should be possible to switch.
How tired you are?
Lol what right now?
Lol well no, you said that.
o ok I get what you were saying, yeah like you know sometimes your tired and you just feel like letting someone else take the reigns or be in control for a bit.
Ahhh, that makes sense. Lazy lovin lol
You'd be surprised
I understand the trust issues. But damn, you'd rather her whoop your ass lol
What can i say, im a primal kind of kinky
Lol I see
Being in control. Tying him up. Deciding positions. That stuff.
Ah, the BDSM mistress thing.Yes, I have been there and did that (more than once) for a woman who needed to do that to float her boat.
Not so much bdsm tho
Oh well that's fair. Anyone would shutdown once pushed outside of their comfort zone.
Lol I don't get the hype for that.
Well I don't wanna whip anyone lol.
Oh, when I think being dominated I think BDSM
Lol well that's not what I'm interested in
I am a little
Lol kinky waffle
To each their own as long as they are over 18 and its consensual
Lol you guys and your butt fears. I'm not interested in putting anything in anyone's ass.
Letting her have all the control.
yeah that's too much
But I like girls that can be aggressive too. It's kinda hard to explain.
Why didn't you like it? Comfort thing?
Too dominant for that
Ahh, you are dominant hear you rawr lol. Gotcha.
A woman who can be aggressive (could even say 'passionate') but won't "take over" as the dominant person in the relationship (sexual or otherwise). Am I close?[[P. S. I was going to give an example but felt like it was waaay to descriptive. hahaha ]]
@Smmyskittles yes I think we're talking about the same thing ya.
You and this post have given me an idea on my next "MyTake" . *giggles* Thanks!
@Smmyskittles hope you shout is out then.
#consultantisback "I got tied up once, I didn't like it"... You the way you wrote this made me chuckle. I think you like your partner to throw themselves (body and all etc) at you and make you feel like a god rather than be tied up helpless and laid there like their piece of meat.
Meat being your whole self! I wasn't being crude!! Gah! Lol
@Jessicarandall Well, for the right girl, I could be her slave if she wanted tho I guess lol
interesting read :P
I found out Char plays with Legos.https://i.ytimg.com/vi/uSFB5VrzCto/hqdefault.jpg
Lol that's creepy
You would wanna be the one.
you know it... Ladies click this one... fuck yea.. just that one random male vote.
@teawrecks oh hush up... you know im ALWAYS original
Bite me. I know you WISH you were always original. But you fail miserably. Sorry bout it.
@teawrecks i sincerely believe you will be alright lol... and be careful what you wish for darling... after all i DO have a bite fetish :)
@teawrecks oh please... dont act like you won't like it.. i bite... but not hard... lol :)
Totally turned on with this exchange
I'd like it from literally everyone but you.
@teawrecks brutal bae
@teawrecks i bet you would :)
@teawrecks darling you set yourself up for that one lol... i saw a chance... i took it...
Diesel you didn't even answer the question bruh
and fell flat on your face
@teawrecks... fell on something alright...@Asker thats cuz you know the answer already :)
I know you're dominant... that's it
Like a dick? Not surprised.
For a minute this was getting hot and then... 😂 That last reply though.
@teawrecks @Asker @Smmyskittles something wrong wit y'all.
Don't group me in with them, I'm in no way turned on by this discussion.
@teawrecks group you in with who? dominatrixes?
Hush your face
I don't even know what pegging is. I just meant letting her have full control.
Ooh la la. I like her, she's cool and from my state. Double win for her. Plus she's hot. #CharApproves
I like you too Char <3 you're awesome!
Yes!! #CharApproves! 👍@rescuemyheart umm nothing goes into my butt and nothing that hurts the balls k? thanks ❤
*grabs handcuffs* let's do it
Switches are the best.
Just being a sub or just being a dik would get boring
Dom lol typo
Of course not
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