HELP - first time blowjob'ber?

Guys! Any advise on giving blowjobs, keeping in mind it will be my first time ever, I've done research, I've read many many artiles - but maybe some personal expeience would help me. I get EXTREMELY nervouse just at the thought of it! Please help me!!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • the best one i received started with the girl licking slowly my whole dick from balls to the tip of it. then started sucking slowly only the tip, slowly went dpper and deeper. dont be shy to get crazier and spin ur head while his sick is in ur mouth and u going up and down on it. DONT USE TEETH! hold the shaft with one hand and suck the rest. go faster and faster. when its already in ur mouth, use ur tongue to play with it. when u get a bit tired dont leave it just like that, use ur hand to keep jerking him, fast. during the bj use ur hand to jerk the rest of the penis which isn't in ur mouth (if he's not too small).
    thats it i think. if i wasn't clear enough or u have ore questions, message me. good luck =)

  • Once you get his head inside your mouth create a bit of a vacuum in your mouth as you take in the rest of his dick. Be careful not to drag your teeth on his skin (but it's okay to bite playfully). The rest will be up to you to discover as you go.

    But truthfully, even more important than technique is you act like you love it and it makes you very horny to do it and you want him to cum in your mouth. It would be helpful for you to swallow but he'll understand if you don't.
    Equally important is you telling him that his dick is really big! This will boost his confidence and might make him a better lover. Have fun exploring! ;)

Most Helpful Girls

  • Ask him what he likes. Make his entire shaft wet. Cover your teeth, you'll see that's easy but don't forget it. Move up and down, remember the tip is most sensitive so give it some special attention but focus on the rest too. You can close your eyes or look up at his face. Try a bit different movements and see how he reacts to learn what works. Use your hand as an extension of your mouth if he is longer than you can take or just use it anyways.

    That should be the basics.

  • Well, no teeth 😊 Unless they're into that.
    They should be called a suck blow, because it's really that. Just like sucking on a icy-pole as you would do as a child (non pervertedly), we can try to explain but honestly everyone's different with what they like, so trial the first time then talk to your partner about what they like or not. It's good to always talk about that stuff. Wish you luck babe ☺️

  • It’s like sucking a lolly pop. Swirl your tongue around a little, keep your lips moist. BUT enjoy giving it so that the guy can relax as well.

    • As a girl how do you control your GAG reflexes?

    • As the giver of the blowjob, you control the depth he is in your mouth. Don’t let him go too deep and if he does, just stop him and carry on.

  • Watch porn
    Don't spit.
    Don't use any teeth.
    Swallow OR wear the liquid gold :P
    ENJOY IT x 10000000000000000000000000 :)

    • As a girl how do you control your GAG reflexes?

    • Such verbal imagery! :-P

    • @Shaft50 xo :P

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  • Purse lips around, and suck. I know it may sound facetious, but, really, partly you learn by doing. Relax, go with the flow, let him direct you a bit. Don't expect to be perfect first time around.

    Lucky bugger on the receiving end!

  • What i personally like, is if a girl uses her hands and her mouth when giving a blowjob. simply place his tip into your mouth, suck on it gently, and slowly, with both hands if he is large enough, massage his shaft up and down.

    a 2nd good one is to caress his testicles while doing the same motion with only 1 hand.

    look in his eyes a lot, and every so often, when you take his tip out of your mouth, smile at him so he thinks you love it, even if you don't.
    he will actlike he loves doing things for you too, things that he may not like.

    use lots of saliva, make it drippy, especially when u massage his shaft, make it wet enough

    good luck, and enjoy it, both of you

  • watch porn

  • Check out the article written by a woman at
    Sluttygirlproblems. com

  • Practice on a Popsicle.

  • watch the pros [porn].

  • i've never had one so i offer myself for you to practice on.

    • thank you for the like please feel free to pm me at any point.

  • Before you can pull back the tour boyfriends foreskin. but Washing Penis.

  • Watch pornhub

  • oohhh, can i help you ;)

  • Are you ok with swallowing? or him cuming in your mouth? If not tell him before you start.
    Just listen and watch his reactions of what you do to see what he likes best. You can't really give a bad bj lol

  • ... Hgjg

  • Keep it simple. remember to suck (suction feels good)

    and most importantly DON'T SCRAPE YOUR TEETH.

  • Keep your teeth off biting his dick, guys don't like that unless you know what you're doing, and you don't so keep them off.