OK so im wondering about the appeal for both men and women about hickeys. So women is it hot to you if your s/o or person your flirting with says something along the lines of Your mine and only mine and how hickeys kind of show that off. And men do you like doing this? I know ill get some very feminist people lecture me on the you're not property sort of thing but it is a very primal "marking territory" thing. And id just like to know how you guys feel about this.