Hickey and dominance?

[Anonymous]

OK so im wondering about the appeal for both men and women about hickeys. So women is it hot to you if your s/o or person your flirting with says something along the lines of Your mine and only mine and how hickeys kind of show that off. And men do you like doing this? I know ill get some very feminist people lecture me on the you're not property sort of thing but it is a very primal "marking territory" thing. And id just like to know how you guys feel about this.

[fauchelevent]

I'm a feminist, hickeys have absolutely nothing to do with feminism :P I love giving hickeys. It's less about any kind of primal 'marking territory' thing and more about the fact that my boyfriend's neck is so sensitive that licking, sucking or biting there will reduce him a trembling, gasping wreck underneath me. Your question seemed to be focused on the woman as the recipient though so to be more accurate to what you're asking, yeah, it's still hot when he tells me that I'm his and gives me a hickey. All the hickeys he gives me are hidden under my clothes so no one sees them but I still like knowing that they're there.

[existing_not_living]

I've never had a hickey before, but my boyfriends a biter and wants to give me one. I'm cool with it. It's an experience that I'm willing to have.

[DeltaRoss]

I like to leave hickeys on the dirks I date just so other guys look and see she's taken. It's not objectifying her it's being afraid of loosing her.

[Bobba_Fett]

I mark my territory in other ways.

But I think its just another way to have fun. You know, gett'n some mouth action.

[idkwtftoputhere]

I think hickeys are trashy tbh

[MyUsernameRules]

Hickeys seem interesting. I wouldn't have minded giving hickeys or getting hickeys.

[Anonymous]

I think it is disgusting and low class