Try to see it from his point of view. He wakes up to you shamefully escaping his bed. Reverse the roles for a minute. What would you think? The first thing you would think is that he probably fled because you were bad in bed or he is ashamed to be with you. Plus, as revenge, he fucking peed in your bed ! Would you be in a hurry to call him then?
Look, if a girl peed in my bed and just told me, I would understand. Yeah, sure, it doesn't happen all the time but so what? It's just a little pee. My ex accidentally farted when she sneezed in bed the very first time we slept in the same bed. Oh I heard it ! I knew what it was and saw that she was a bit ashamed and fake that it didn't happen. I acted like I never heard it. It was just a fart. I spent 4 years of my life with that girl and we laughed at that story often before we went our own way...
I think you should call him and just tell him what happened. Just be totally honest. Sure, it's embarrassing, but you'll both get over it.3 1 0 0Ok I didn't look at it that way but that's weird who thinks like that?
What's weird? Who thinks like what exactly?
As an accident it's OK - but running away like that risks him thinking the worst: that it was deliberate, or that it was his fault and you were so disgusted you fled, or that you don't like him, he did something wrong. Don't wait for him to call: talk to him. ASAP. Make sure he knows it was an accident and you still want to talk!
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I feel like at the very least you should text him and apologize instead of running away..
0 0 0 0I think it would have been fine if you hadn't ran away.
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2 23Sounds like a cute incident to me.
0 1 0 0Look, there is pee and then there is, I don't know, cum or "squirt". If you peed a little it wouldn't bother me. If you cum or squirt... wow. Hot. I'd love that and love doing that to you.
0 1 0 0I noticed you still haven't said why you snuck out... That's the nearly-unforgivable part.
0 0 0 0The peeing can easily be forgive. but running out without a word and leaving it soaking in... that is a different matter.
2 4 0 0When I first read this, I did chuckle a little. Who knows what happens when you sleep. (This is also why you don't drink two hours before going to bed!) He didn't just see it; he smelled it too. (There are way worse smells in the world though, like having to clean up dead animals.) I guess there are people who might do this intentionally though. Sneaking out does sound bad, like you intentionally left a mess.
0 0 0 0The fact she just got up and left would make me think she did it on purpose.
1 0 0 0I would stop talking to her not because of the pee, but because she snuck out rather than tell me!
0 0 0 0I personally wouldn't see it as a big deal unless it like happened a lot, because accidents happen right? I think you should call him and explain.
0 0 0 0I can understand your humiliation. I probably wouldn't call you back tbh, that's awkward as fuck. In the future, take care of your bladder before you go to sleep.
0 0 0 0Damn that's dirty... One night stand, pee on his bed while he's sleeping, and then sneak out before dawn... Why didn't you draw a dick on his forehead and take a dump on his chest while you're at it.
3 1 0 0Accidents happen. Not a big deal.
1 1 0 0was the sex good?
0 0 0 0Just a little piddle, but you leaving without a word may make it look like you didn't want to be with him. If someone predators in my bed I call Arnold shwartsanager to wash my sheets for me
1 0 0 0Seriously? You know if you sneak out early morning, that's a pretty strong message he shouldn't call you, right? That's like ghosting someone.
0 1 0 0I would think she was playing a prank on me since I woke up to find her gone and urine in my bed, I suggest you call him up and explain.
0 0 0 0I would tell her it's fine don't be embarrassed and just talk to her maybe ask why she left.
And take it from there0 0 0 0Why? How? WTF HAppened?
0 1 0 0If I were him, I would think you purposely peed on my bed then left!
Why! Why would you think that that's so depraved. I just let it go I can't explain maybe I was excited I don't even know last time I peed myself was 3 years ago but I was drunk. I wasn't drunk this time though
Should've said something cause not saying anything seems shady
Did you pee during the sex?
0 1 0 0Lol waaat, you could have at least cleaned it up or left a note telling him it was a accident , he probably thinking you did it on purpose.
0 1 0 0Accidents happen only a jerk would make a big deal out of it
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