Girls, Will my vagina ever feel full with an average penis again?

[Anonymous]

I dated 3 guys in my life and only have had sex with them. My first boyfriend was average size, like 7 inches and I felt full with him. Then my next boyfriend was 9 inches. I was afraid at first and it hurt in the beginning, but I got used to it and was able to take him whole, no problem. But now with my new boyfriend, who's 6 inches, I keep expecting to feel more when we have sex. So I feel kinda empty and miss having my 9 inch ex. I still orgasm from my clit, bit I don't have that full feeling anymore. like at all. And it's kinda frustrating me. I love my new boyfriend a lot and I want to stay with him. But sex is also important to me. And I'm not going to use a big toy because I don't want him to think that he's not enough for me. So will my vagina ever go back to feeling full with an average size penis?

[samhradh_leannan]

I think it's normal that it seems strange to you, given what you're used to. Your first boyfriends were really big, so you spent a long time having sex with bigger penises. You can get used to anything if it's what you're exposed to the most. It's normal that you have to readjust. That's nothing to stress out about.

First of all, give it some time. It'll take a little while for your baseline to readjust. Be patient and focus on the positive, on what works and what feels good about sex with your current partner. This could be partly mental/psychological, so try not to keep telling yourself that you don't feel full. Instead, stay in the present and focus on the feelings you are experiencing now and what is good about them.

Also, I would suggest trying some kegel exercises. Tightening your kegels during sex will feel great to both of you. Another way to help things feel tighter is to to masturbate to an orgasm using just your clit. When you have an orgasm, your vaginal muscles squeeze and strengthen. When you have an orgasm with nothing in your vagina, the walls can strengthen to a tighter position, if that makes sense.

[little_bird1]

I have the same problem. My first ex was 8 inches and I was with him for 3 years and then my next ex was a bit bigger and was with him for 4 years. My current boyfriend is 6 inches and yeaaaah... kinda feels weird. :S But I love him, though!

[Asker]

But you can still orgasm with your 6 inch boyfriend, right?

[little_bird1]

Oh yeah, no problem. It's just kinda visually different/weird. When my exes fucked me slowly, I enjoyed the visual view and the feeling of their cock taking a longer time to get in and out, if you know what I mean? :D The penetration was longer and I guess that made it better. Also bigger dick feels better when spooning, handjobing or blowjobing. I like to see a big boners lol. But, as I said, it's only visually and my mind playing tricks with it, because size in fact doesn't change anything, if we're gonna compare it to anatomy. What does matter is girth and technique.

[Asker]

How long have you been with your 6 inch boyfriend?

[little_bird1]

2 months ahahahah

[Asker]

I'm a year in and I'm still not used to it. I guess this thing will ever go away.

[little_bird1]

Maybe sex just isn't good, regardless of his size. :/

[bombamboum]

I don't think it will. It had nothing to do with being tight or not.
At this point, it's all about the sensation you get out of it. There's not much you can do about it.

[Asker]

Are you sure?

[bombamboum]

Well, it never happened to me so I can't be totally sure. You might forget this previous sensation and it doesn't mean it can't be good with your new boyfriend or that you can't find new things to try. With such difference, the sensation will obviously be different

[aliceinwonderland69]

I'm worried now.

[Asker]

Why? Your current boyfriend is bigger than your ex's?

[Craimz]

Wow, that big. Mine is only 6 and i almost get crazy with it. I can't even imagine myself with your situation now. LOL.. :-)

[Anonymous]

OMG, 9 inches, you lucky girl... I hope you'll get better with only 6 inches...

[Asker]

I don't find myself lucky at all. I wish I never dated him if I knew this would happen.

[little_bird1]

Lol I get you. :D

[Opinion Owner]

@little_bird1 Me too...

[Anonymous]

Do keegals