Why does my boyfriend cum so fast?

He has to take medicine to stay hard he's 24 I feel bad for him. But when we have sex he cums in like 3-5 minutes. He feels bad. He says he can't help it and can't stop it. Is because he's so turned on or something different?
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  • different medicines effect the body. when i was on anti-depressants I could last a long time, but when I came off of them I was lime a 13 year old being touched for the first time. It felt no more intense than normal, but I was just unable to hold back. It wasn't like it felt more pleasurable, as much as it felt like i needed much less pleasure in order to climax.

    I don't know whether that's his case or not, but I would suggest that, so long as he made sure, with fingers, mouth, or whatever, that you came too, that he shouldn't worry so much about having a short fuse.

  • Well, it's probably worth considering that 3-5 minutes is only slightly below average, and premature ejaculation is normally considered significantly less then that.

    I'm sure he can't help it or stop it, today. However if he can last 3+ minutes, he can probably learn to last longer.

    I'd suggest this forum www.pegym.com/forums/premature-ejaculation-forum/ for ideas and info. In spite of the name, it's really more a general 'ejaculatory control' forum.

    In the mean time, have him get you on the edge of orgasm before penetration.

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  • Study 'edging'.

  • It normally happens when men start their sex life (cumming fast, not medicines, of course). But things get better with the time, we learn how to hold it for more time. How long has it been since he started his sex life?

  • 3-5 minutes isn't actually that fast for the actual pounding away portion - what you need to do is spend more time up front so that you are both satisfied with the way things turn out.

  • Yes, he's very excited. It's actually very common. Have him work on you more and get you closer to orgasm first (foreplay).

  • Why he have to take Viagra so young?

  • It's because that's how guys are, I'm a delayed ejaculator and I know people that don't last as long as I do and even women. There are some women that just can cum once and it's really quick but I know there's women that can last all day and cum multiple times. It's just how we're build and it all comes with its own curse.

  • 5 minutes is average. If you aren't satisfied I mean isn't he going down on you first, fingering you? then having sex>, back to fingering? How long does it take you to orgasm? I've know girls who can cum in a minute, most its 3-5.

  • He is so turned on that he can't resist you. You are a goddess. Congratulations.

  • Yes, maybe because he finds you too hot.
    Just try using a lot of lubricant. For me, the dryer the vagina is, the faster I come.

  • MAybe you got some good pu$$y lol

  • You're probably really hot lol

  • ask his mom

  • that is normal

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  • Well being he's taking pills to get hard sounds like a medical thing. But could be both. Does he get hard again fast?

  • If he can go multiple times, it shouldn't matter.