If oral sex is not sex (what a lot of females say), if I get oral sex from 100 girls, then return the favor am I still a virgin? Vice versa (gender)?

ANSWER THE POLL BEFORE READING!!! My question is inspired by @olderandwiser 's question https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/q1965179-does-having-oral-sex-count-as-having-sex#g1a13205213

my opinion
Sex is basically a sexual act... I think anything done to someone else's sexual organs with intention to produce a sense of sexual release (orgasm or pleasure) is sex. It is called oral "sex" anyway.
A blowjob is sex
Eating pussy is sex
Using a vibrator on someone else's pussy is sex
A Handjob is sex
A titjob is sex
A footjob is sex
Anal sex is sex
A leg job is sex
an armjob is sex
a neckjob is sex
Why? because you are causing someone else's sexual organ pleasure.
Definition
(chiefly with reference to people) sexual activity<-------, including (not only) specifically sexual intercourse

SO IN MY OPINION SHE IS NOT A VIRGIN
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  • It depends on your personal definition of virginity. There isn't just one correct definition.

    Personally, I believe that someone has lost their virginity when they engage in whatever they consider to be the "main event" based on their situation. So for me, I lost my virginity when I had sexual intercourse for the first time, because for me that is something that happens after oral or other types of touching. I consider it to be as "far" as I can go. But for a lesbian, for example, loss of virginity might happen with oral sex, scissoring, or using a toy. I think it varies based on the situation, and that only makes sense.

  • As a straight woman, I've always consider that losing my virginity would be the day a penis would go inside my vagina. I consider and all the things you mentioned as sexual acts, as part of foreplay but have I ever consider all this as losing my virginity? no.
    Yet, I would consider someone who had done it all except fore vaginal penetration... a experienced person. Everything isn't black or white.

    • not to get into your personal life but are you a virgin who has dones "sexual acts"

    • I'm not a virgin anymore but I consider that my first time was the day a man penetrated me. As it happened, I did everything on the same day, foreplay, intercourse so I'm not a good exemple. But yes, I do see it that way. A virgin who is sexual experience. I'm not at all for waiting until marriage but I find people who claim waiting, yet doing sexual acts, totally hypocrite.

  • I think virginity is tied in only with the act of sex. Everything else is just a sexual act but not sex itself. So if someone does one of these sexual acts then yes, they have experience doing them, but they're still a virgin because they didn't actually have sex with another person.

    • So if your husband (just a senario) gets a blowjob from another woman and you ask him did you have sex with her can he say no? So if i got a blowjob from a girl and busted all over her face, she can still be viewed as a innocent virgin? ok maybe not innocent but virgin?

    • please answer my questions and dnt leave me hangin

    • Since it's not sex then he would be telling the truth. BUT he did do a sexual act with another, which is still cheating and should be told about. And yes, she would still be a virgin. A virgin who has given a blowjob.

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  • Virginity is lost when there's penetration, either vaginal or anal. Therefore in my books, you're still a virgin if you've eaten 100 pussies/dicks. BUT, you're no saint, you can't act like you're an innocent creature when every Friday night you're sucking dick in a club's bathroom. Just because you're a virgin doesn't mean you're innocent/pure.

    I don't give much importance to virginity, but I hate when girls go down on every guy they meet, and still think they're saints -_-

    • Thanks for the MHO

  • I'd absolutely NEVER date any Girls, Who Say, That is what some lowlife lower than whaleshit Pimp told them to say

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  • When they say it’s not sex they mean it’s not real sex.
    like if you eat processed fast food. It often doesn’t count as real food as it gives you no nutrition. But technically it’s still food.

  • No because virginity is a nonsense concept.

  • I agree with you. And oh Clinton, skewing what we believe sex is. "I did not have sexual relations with that woman" lol

    Yes, anal, bjs, tittyfucking, eating out that's all sex. Lesbians are not virgins.

  • I say oral sex is sex

  • Virginity is a social construct, it doesn't exist. There is no word for someone who has never eaten asparagus before or one who has never been to Alaska, why is there one for someone that has never had sex, something that most of us will eventually do. Also why is this magical status applied to it?

  • I think that it depends on every person. I guess she is a virgin because she didn't got into penetration (?)

  • That makes a lot of sense to me I think that’s a good definition of sex.

  • Virginity is a social construct so you decide.

  • Oral is a kind of sex (sort of), but if you just give head, you are still a virgin.

  • Oral sex, anal sex. Whatever sex. You lose your virginity.

  • this whole "virginity" concept is all b. s anyways so just do what u want

  • So a guy in that situation is also not a virgin?

    • To me no, i put she on accident, i should have put both of them

  • Ehh I know people have different definitions of what losing your virginity means. I will consider myself no longer a virgin when a penis enter my vagina. That just seems to make more sense to me. I think these other things can only count as losing your virginity for homosexual people. If they say they've lost their V-card when they did any of these acts, then I won't correct them.

  • First let me look at these points
    A blowjob is sex (yup)
    Eating pussy is sex (agree again)
    Using a vibrator on someone else's pussy is sex (no)
    A Handjob is sex (no)
    A titjob is sex (no)
    A footjob is sex (ewww, and no)
    Anal sex is sex (yup)
    A leg job is sex (no)
    an armjob is sex (no)
    a neckjob is sex (I disagree)
    Now that I’m done with that the reason I put those there are because everyone I said no to I believe falls into fornication I think a blow job can count as sex because you are penetrating something with your penis wether it be a butt a mouth or a vagina it’s still penetration and eating pussy as you put it is something you’d do after fornicatation
    Anyway that’s just my two cents feel free to disagree

  • It means your wang is a virgin but your mouth isn't

  • or sez is sex but its not going to take away the virgin status at all you have to fuck for that part.. kissing is not sex either but its a part of being with someone you like.. not being a virgin mean you put your cock in a womans vagina ,

  • Sex is sex

  • It is sex. This shows the power of the media & politics. President Clinton got caught getting a blow job from an intern & he lied under oath about it. He stated he did not lie because a Blow-job was not sex. Because he is a Democrat the media pushed this. Now we have people who believe this.

  • Yup, you are. But choose wisely because you can still get a STD

  • I put no, but I mean to say yes.

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